Well I usually answer these but the tides have changed so here we go. My ex (broke up 4-5mths ago) and me have been going in circles with our break up and she wanted to stay talking, hang out one day a week, and maybe even be intimate. I thought I would be ok with this until I found out she was going on dates, making out with guys, and being pretty active. I can't even think about this without almost puking, Why is she doing this? Does she want her cake and Ice cream? I told her that I was not going to talk to her until summer time (been 2 weeks so far) because we needed that time to heal and not be so bitter towards each other. I miss her dearly as a friend everyday and feel like this is a little game we are still playing to see who gives in first. Wish it wasn't that way. Do I give in? Do I keep my word? Do I try and get her back if I still love her? She has made herself very clear about not getting back but keeps giving me mixed messages? What would you do ladies? IS this a Game?
2007-12-27 09:46:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES it's a game, that you help initiate. People really need to understand that an EX is an EX for a reason. If you all could make it work you would not have broken up. I say stick to your guns and not talk to her, even if she tries to communicate with her. The thing about games is someone HAS to lose.
2007-12-27 09:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by phree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would see another girl. Maybe one you have been eyeing for some time now. I know you have one. Just try that. It really helps you ignore her, because the time passes by a lot faster.
2007-12-27 17:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by nba_gsw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes , it is
2007-12-27 18:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋