Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I met this girl and she was involved in a relationship that sped up relatively fast between her and this guy and out of nowhere the other guy disappears. She doesn't know what happened, there was no sign that this was going to happen they were on great terms the last thing he said to her was he'd never leave. They always had hard times communicating due to telephone issues and distance in general but he made every attempt to continue to contact her despite it.

Then I came along and shes like almost 2 months removed from it. But now I remind her of that person in so many ways like she didn't break this to me until like a week into talking and she felt she had too because I used similar phrases, I act similar in many ways or whatever..

But now im wondering is this healthy? Can this go forward? Should I just stop it? Im not sure what to do because we are compatible but its like in the same ways they were.. but she brings it up and I don't know how to deal at all..

2007-12-27 11:31:50 · 18 answers · asked by QuestionsAnswered 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged on Christmas. The people that I babysit for are cousins to my fiance. Well, when his cousin heard that I was planning on having my wedding in July, she told me that she nor her husband could take off work and watch the kids for the week I would go on my honeymoon. She told me I needed to be more considerate and plan for a different time. So, we moved the wedding to June 7th. Which is the best time with my side of the family and his immediate family, my cake decorator, my dress maker, and all the other people involved. I told her tonight and she told me she won't be there because her and her mom and a sister take off on their vacation. They plan it for this time every year. She told me that they could not be there and I should plan for a different time, because they want to be there and have been in the family longer than me. Should I keep my date or she being unreasonable? The ones going on vacation are only cousins and an aunt.

2007-12-27 11:31:09 · 34 answers · asked by Laughing with you not at you 6 in Weddings

I have 5 great friends (plus my boyfriend, Jason) : Alicia, Jessica, Sammy, Denisha, and Katie. My cousin says you can't have five best friends, that it defaets the purpose of a "best" friend. Do you think that's true?

2007-12-27 11:29:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have known this girl forever and she has always been a little promiscuous. I've always liked her and she likes me on and off but it bothers me to know that she has gotten around with a lot of guys. Up until the other day we hadn't talked much over the last 2 months or so, but out of the blue she starts talking to me about marriage, wedding rings, and a life together. (She even started looking at wedding rings online and showed me what she wants). She asked me if I would really want to marry her, which I would but I didn't want to come right out and say it. She always tells me how much her family loves me and that her parents say I'm the kind of guy she should marry so I don't know if she is just asking all of the questions because of her parents pressure or if she is really sincere. We hung out last night and I thought she would be flirty and interested, but we just hung out like friends. I don't know what to think and I don't know how interested she really is.

2007-12-27 11:28:25 · 24 answers · asked by asdf 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 11:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by tabitha b 1 in Singles & Dating

or why are they become your friend

2007-12-27 11:23:55 · 46 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

Am I Jumping To Conclusions?
He called and wants to get back togeher.Am I making the wrong choice?
He is trying to convince me that I made him this way. I believe him?
Would things have esculated had he and I stayed together?He is trying to convince me other wise.?
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT

2007-12-27 11:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Singles & Dating

I do, but with green eyes

2007-12-27 11:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 girls 1 guy how did it turn out?

2007-12-27 11:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by rob m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 11:19:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who treats me as a fill-in for when her husband is busy. In other words, whenever her husband is with his friends, on the computer, or otherwise occupied, she calls me. Then as soon as he stops what he's doing...she says she has to go. Sometimes she's on the phone for as little as five minutes. What makes me mad is that I told her that this is what another friend of mine use to do and that's why me and that other friend stopped hanging out. Don't get me wrong, I have plenty of friends who are married and don't begrudge them time with their husbands, but I'm a human being, not a damn crossword puzzle you pick up during a commercial break. Or am I being too sensitive? Maybe it wouldn't be so bad if she didn't actually start conversations with "____ is off with his friends, so I decided to call you" or "___ won't get off the computer, so I thought I'd see what you were up to". Should I even try to talk to her AGAIN about the situation or just drop her?

2007-12-27 11:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by unchienne 3 in Friends

hey what would be a really funny message to leave as my voicemail? im tered of something like "hey srry cant come 2 phone leave a message" i want something really funny. got any audio clips from the internet of one? i need something creative. thanx

2007-12-27 11:18:15 · 48 answers · asked by Boston 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that I have had dinner with out the past few months. He called me out of town Christmas Day to wish me a merry christmas which was nice. We are friends though. To my knowledge we have gone out as friends.

2007-12-27 11:15:56 · 10 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know when its right to act like a freak with a guy ??
Ikm into alot of different type of things in the bedroom, but when do you know how to bring this things out with someone knew. I been in a very long relationship that has thought me alot and I am nearly single and Im just curiouse what men really think...thank you.


1st date

2nd

3rd

ect...

2007-12-27 11:15:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mean What you Say and say it 2 in Singles & Dating

My cat scratched me on my wrists and it looks kinda like i cut, so these two guys who sit next to me in my science class started saying i was emo, and that i cut to every1, and no matter what i tell them they dont believe me! I tried ignoring them but it doesn't work! What should i say to them?

2007-12-27 11:13:14 · 44 answers · asked by Anabell 2 in Friends

i live in guyana where in guyana can i find the movie the note book i really have to have it for any one who live in guyana if u do not know guyana is located in the south america

2007-12-27 11:12:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male that lives at home with his parents and other adult siblings. I am very successful in my career and I am highly educated as well, so it's not like I am a lazy person as some may want to believe when they hear I choose to live at home. My parents actively encourage their kids to live at home as long as they would like and rent free of course. What I don't understand is the jealousy people have of my living arrangements. If they are so jealous, most of them, I am sure, could make arrangments to move back home. I am the brunt of many nasty comments/jokes like this due to many forms of jealousy. It is worth noting that these arrangements did not come easy. I had to cultivate this great relationship with my family over a number of years. So it's not like anything was doled out to me. Plus, this is the least our parents can do considering all the years of joy we have given them in the past. They get a kick out of that when I tell them that.

2007-12-27 11:06:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is a really sweet girl and shes really pretty too me but my brother says shes ugly!!
what do you think?

2007-12-27 11:06:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up a long time ago, about 2 years, but we have maintained our contact with each other. recently she wanted to get back with me but i already found someone. Now that my relationship didn't work out with the new girl im trying to get back with my ex bc the feeling never went away. My ex is asking for time bc she is bitter as to what i did bc i went out with someone else and dissed her. She wants some time to think about it since her nursing exam is coming up and she wants to get her studying and family issues taken care of first. what should i do?

2007-12-27 11:05:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recieved i missed call from a random number, while i was at work. So the next day i called twice( from my mums phone) to see who it was, no answer!
The next day i get a text asking whos this? So i text back saying: I should be asking you the same question, i had a missed call the other night, and i said who i was and i asked who are u? So he text back sayin sorry i thought u called me cause i didnt have this number before. So then i text from my phone, sayin yea u did call me from this number, and whats ur name? the person said sorry for bothering me and it was maybe a wrong number, so then i text back well have a happy new year who ever u are, wish u would tell me your name. He text back sayin, i find it best to keep it mysterious have a great year all the best.
Then found out going through my mates phone it was my ex's number, he obviously changed his number, but he rang me, then didnt wanna say who he was. Why did he ring me in the first place? We havent spoke in 5 months.

2007-12-27 11:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

good!!! dont ya think.......?

2007-12-27 11:02:12 · 18 answers · asked by mmmmyeah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 11:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know where I can find a christmas wedding dress. I mean a red dress with a white trim. Thanks :)

2007-12-27 11:00:07 · 11 answers · asked by skibob2001@sbcglobal.net 1 in Weddings

it was said that a woman and man being together was right and normal. But i don't understand why people turn gay, is it because they can't find the right one, is it because they are waiting for love and love never really found them?

2007-12-27 10:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Que 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i am going to make this short nd hope that someone can help me with a posisble solution. I have been married for about 17 years. My wife over the years has lost alot of interest in sex , no forplay, nothing and when i ask her she tells me she does not like to be told when and how. So i fill its is all on her terms only, when and how. Also, she has no interest in going to friens homes when invited for the holidays and no interest in having them vist at are home. I am very lonley and fell left out. she only wants to do things at homw with just or to boys. Even my boys now say to me that they have no interest in other family members or friends. Also , I think my wife could be cheating again because she had an affair with a man about 6 years ago and it lasted about 6 months. For some reason she was VERY open about sex at that time. I miss all the family get togetehrs and friends. Our home is very lonley place. I am a people person. PLEASE HELP ,, ANY IDEAS.. SHE JUST TURNED 40 !!

2007-12-27 10:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not saying like a buzz cut...

im talking about like 2 inches above the shoulders..

2007-12-27 10:53:11 · 4 answers · asked by Sky D 2 in Singles & Dating

if you don't mention something, and it doesnt hurt anyone, is it considered lying and a sin?

2007-12-27 10:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by js4565 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy when he was married, we had a thing going on for months, I can tell we both liked each other and there sure was a sexual attraction but of course, we never talked about it or had sex.

He got divorced 2 weeks ago (not because of me) and now wants to be with me. I wonder if he still has feelings for his ex-wife. Is it too early? Please share your experiences.


I'm 22 and he's 28.

2007-12-27 10:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it doesnt make any sence

2007-12-27 10:50:44 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me before we were married. We have now been married for 5 months. I can't seem to move on past this. Any advice?

2007-12-27 10:50:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce