Am I Jumping To Conclusions?
He called and wants to get back togeher.Am I making the wrong choice?
He is trying to convince me that I made him this way. I believe him?
Would things have esculated had he and I stayed together?He is trying to convince me other wise.?
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT
2007-12-27 11:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he an abuser. they always blame somebody else for their behavior. trust me, ive seen how these guys can be, dont even go there!
2007-12-27 11:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by pickles11119 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pkease stay away from this guy..the fact he made fun of a previous violent relationship is all the proof you need that says he dosnt respect you and he will punch a wall he might miss it *accidently* the next time..stay with your aunt hes moving too fast tell him you need a break and he needs to sort his issues out...
best of luck
x Sarah x
2007-12-27 11:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG OPEN YOUR EYES....
Why would u go back out with him again?
he doesn't love you, he doesn't know the meaning to love, if he did, he wouldn't treat you like this.
MOVE On... please, and this time with ur head up high, saying it's over for the last time.
YOU don't need to be treated like this, there a REAL guys that will love you, and care for you, and keep u safe, not what this guy is doing!
Trust in your self... you know the pain you've been through... no need to go through it again.
2007-12-27 11:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry ***. Nobody deserves to be called a "f***ing c**t". If he acts this way now, just imagine how violent he could get in the future. Run fast.
2007-12-27 11:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by gregarious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh and you really need to ask us??? ---- its borderline "call the police" time --- delete all his contact numbers and block him (of you can) from calling you --- he is very bad news and will only get worse --- im sorry find someone that will care for you and your feelings ---- hugsss --- dont give up on the internet as i have met some wonderful ladies and i think they still think kindly of me even if there was nothing long term --- best wishes
2007-12-27 11:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he has anger issues. It has nothing to do with you or what you have done in the past.. its HIS problem. You don't deserve to be treated like that... no one does. I would walk away and never look back.
2007-12-27 11:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by beach girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs help ! leave him alone. honestly you shoulda left him alone with the whole making fun of your abusive relationship. there is such thing as verbal abuse 2. leave his sorry behind. he gone come across a chick like me who will beat the f**k cut of him
2007-12-27 11:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany S2389 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋