Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I need some advice on dealing with grandparents. I try to ignore them but they irritate me so much. I never bother to comment on their arguments because they're stupid and will never admit that they're wrong. They're here taking vacation with their 14wk puppy. I've been playing with the dog and feeding, taking it outside, and following and picking stuff out of it's mouth while she sits her bum on the sofa saying "Raising puppies is hard work. It just isnt all play, you need to be responsible." She is so annoying and treats me like I'm stupid. No offense but even a mentally challenged person can keep an animal and I've raised dogs before. She has never owned a puppy.

She does this about everything I do and treats me so childish.
I cannot take it any longer. Please help?

2007-12-27 13:39:26 · 27 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family

I know this really hot guy in my class. He and I will talk and stuff but I really like him and I want to get his attention. What can I do to get him to like me and all?

2007-12-27 13:38:27 · 22 answers · asked by Katie A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 13:38:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is in love with someone that's married, how do I get my friend to back off?

2007-12-27 13:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had posted a question regarding losing a bet to a girl and we were going to choose the answer she liked best. Well she chose dressing up as girl, but now I need clothes to wear, where to get them and what to do. She will pick the answer she likes best.

2007-12-27 13:36:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 4mos pregnant i have alot of bruising around my stomach and back and on my face.my husband filled up a bath for me but that didnt help the pain like it normally does and i dont want him to think i didnt appreciate it.i know i cant take anything cause im pregnant.wat should i do to soothe the pain

2007-12-27 13:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by chartíergirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my father left me and my mom when i was just a baby.and i was my fathers 1st child ,and i barely saw my father when i was younger,until i turned 6 thats when he came into my life again ,and my dad has to other kids with my stepmother my lil bro n lil sis.Now im alot older and Whenever i go to my fathers house,he always gives my sister and bro all the attention and love,and i always feel left out.And this gets to me so much i feel like he cares for them way more then me but then again he might feel gulity for walking out on me and my mother and might not no how to say im sorry about it but like he'll never kiss me on the forehead or tell me im beautiful like he does to my lil sis n that makes me feel so unwanted .I no i should talk to him about it but i dont know how to bring it up.i need some help how to tell him how i feel .

2007-12-27 13:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by miss.juicy<3 1 in Family

earlier i had asked a question about my relationship (if you can please answer it. i would appreciate it) but i had included in my question that i am 13 and i don't get why people overreact on that age and being in a relationship. I mean why!?! it is just the same as a 20 year old chick having a boyfriend. What is the big deal? i mean really. Seriously my mom says i am supposed to look up to people like them? WTF!? that is some straight up bullshit right there.

2007-12-27 13:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and how do u knw if she like u or not with out showing that she like you????

2007-12-27 13:33:45 · 13 answers · asked by Random 1 in Singles & Dating

Has your mate ever been unfaithful to you in the past? If you forgave them, did it work out well in the end?

2007-12-27 13:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to ask the marriage certificate of this person if he is already a married man i want to know when he is getting married, because this person is my bf i just want to know if he is married to somebody.

2007-12-27 13:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by JOE G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thank you for your answers! :)

Good night/day! :)

2007-12-27 13:32:09 · 29 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

I watched The Notebook and all throughout the movie my mind raced back to this one guy from my past who I have never truly let go of.I'm married to a good man.I feel giulty for feeling this way, but for some reason that movie had me thinking I should've given that guy more of a chance.I know its just a movie but it reminds me of the past, how carefree we were.Maybe its just that I'm not getting the attention I deserve and part of me craves it. It's so weird.Sometimes if I let my mind drift it takes me back to those days and I can feel the moment and I wish I was there again.

2007-12-27 13:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by tiffany a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

not much to tell, but I miss him, so lonely..still see him sometimes, on weekends...not ready for a devoice.

2007-12-27 13:28:50 · 25 answers · asked by Funnygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy once online. cutting the story short we both fell for each other. we would both race to an internet cafe everyday so we can read and exchange emails. i became so fond of him..in fact loved him dearly. he was kind and sweet and he listen to my woes and lifes trevails. he even went to rent a cd of a movie that i told him i watched with friends. there was just something so sincere about the things he does that caught me off guard.

but i was caught up in my own troubles. my own crazy world. i left needing to be on my own thinking that we're just too good to be true. so i just disappeared online and never went back after a year. i came back looking for him realizing that i made a mistake and i was sorry.

but i was too afraid and guilty to say how sorry i was and how i want him back. he did reply to my message which i kept all these years. he was on his way to canary islands he said and he wont be able to talk to me as he'll be at sea. that's the last i heard from him

2007-12-27 13:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 13:24:50 · 23 answers · asked by Chaya A 3 in Family

I broke up w/ my bf sun night, and he called me today leaving a voicemail asking me to call him to talk, should i call him? we were on and off bitterly for about a week and a half... i dont want to be back with him, so i dont know whether or not to see what he wants.

2007-12-27 13:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 13 and the guy who likes me is 15 and a close family friend. Is that too big of an age difference?

2007-12-27 13:24:18 · 17 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 13:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if its under 3 inches or 3 minutes did it happen???

2007-12-27 13:22:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for 24 years. We have always cut up and carried on with each other. We horse around like kids together. But lately he seems so unhappy. When I ask him if he is unhappy he says no. I ask what the problem is, I tell him I feel like something is wrong. He assures me it is not. When I make plans for us to go out to dinner or have some quite time he only wants to do what takes the least amount of time. My feeling is hurt by his behavior.
Has anyone else faced this before or am I making something out of nothing?

2007-12-27 13:22:02 · 15 answers · asked by Carolina girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Be descriptive as possible I am curious I have never had sex before but I am curious

2007-12-27 13:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by Thomas J 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush into this boy and i told him. Before it happens, i ignored him all day and i did not wait for him like I always do. The next day, i saw him with another girl and they couldn't look at me all. They're old friends and sometimes he looks at me at the hallways. He knows how to make me jealous completely like i told him that i don't want him to see with another girl and i dont want him to see that he is happy with another girl and not happy with me and he said on his myspace that I usually check that he is loving every minute of their relationship. If they are going out, the girl or his friend will be jealous of me cuz i really like him a lot and she would made him delete me into his myspace but i am still one of his friends and if they are really together, they would spend all of their time together but the other day i saw him alone and every people that i know in my school is waiting for their bf/gf every morning but i saw him alone going to one of his classes.

2007-12-27 13:20:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anybody else out there like talking to his or her mother as much as I do?

2007-12-27 13:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by trillian 5 in Family

What do i do? do i tell my husband?

2007-12-27 13:17:39 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday,since my hubby was working from home he asked me to make him coffee.. i was not in grt mood to make since we already had a petty fight.. we jus had lunch wch i had made and was jus relaxing on a couch wth tv.. i dint say anything..i made coffee and said,here take it..he says m not gonna drink since i dint offer in a sweet way..it made me more mad and started to pull him to drink coffee,he jus left the room..i followed him and started pushing him to drink,but he didnt..he said i m going to drink if u offer in a nice way..then i said,i cant since u have already upset me..i asked him to ask sorry for the previous incident then i would ask him in a sweet way to drink..he wanted me to go first,i wanted him to go first..again had arguements,then he wudnt drink,i was pushing him to drink,and started pulling his laptop not allowing him to work..he dint take it in a sportive way as always and started wresling angrily wth me all over the house knowing that i m pregnant. i am very upset

2007-12-27 13:13:33 · 7 answers · asked by Loly Ry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandpa has been kindof picky about the fact that he wants me to sleep in the same room as him. We share a bed and everything. personally i think this is wrong, but my problem is that he is a minister and he means no harm in this, but he is the most stuborn person in the whole world. i am needing to know if there is any legalities that could save me from this rampage he is on. there are three other bedrooms in this house. they are usually unocupied. i am verry concered that if i cant convince him soon to give me my own room, my friends are going to take action for me and call the cops. can anyone help me?

P.S. i am 16 if that makes a difference

2007-12-27 13:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by csuphoff 1 in Family

So I walk into the store today.. and I see my ex-girlfriend, her new boyfriend, and the child we have together... He pushing my child in the cart. So I walked back out, as I didn't wanna really see my ex at the time. So I walk off and I text her, "Why is that fat boy pushing my son?" and she goes, "F u" and I go "Whatever" and she says, "I'm sorry he's more of a dad than you are" and I laugh at her and just leave it alone..

Did I do the right thing, or not?

2007-12-27 13:12:58 · 26 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have.. once and like but I was gullible so I kinda regret it.. And it's stupid. Anyone online dated over a stupid game or just through a dating service online? Haha

2007-12-27 13:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tried to help him with jobs (he quits or loses hours), college (quit, owes money), moving to another city (OK for a while, then failure and more money must be sent). He repeatedly hooks up with a girlfriend who is a bigger a loser than he is (jail, shoplifting, drugs, borderline personality disorder) and she makes the situation worse. Now her parents have kicked her out of the house and I refuse to see either one of them. Fortunately, I get to see my grandson (whom he doesn't support) because I'm on good terms with the mom, who is wonderful. I'm scared about the time when I get too old to defend my house, or my retirement income. (I'm not currently retired, but looking down the road.) What should I do?

2007-12-27 13:10:58 · 29 answers · asked by Catherine M 4 in Family