I know this really hot guy in my class. He and I will talk and stuff but I really like him and I want to get his attention. What can I do to get him to like me and all?
2007-12-27 13:38:27 · 22 answers · asked by Katie A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, there are different ways of getting a guy's attention. Do you want the subtle way or go to the extremes? if you choose prefer the latter, why not stalk him, if you're crazy enough to do that. but, if you want to show some class and sophistication, be subtle. Men like women who are spontaneous and who never try too hard to get noticed. Also, show your side that you think he and other people will find unique and interesting. Also, smart is the new sexy. Men do not go for women who are no-brainers. Read up on stuff, current events, trivias and others that are worth debating and need to be focused on by everyone. But you do not focus only on world events but also on your social life. you wouldn't want to get this guy bored by talking about about global warming all day, would you? And lastly, don't forget that this is not only about you. it is also about him. ask him things about himself and the likes. but don't ask questions that are too personal. learn to set a limit. But if in the end, he does not feel the way you do, there's just nothing that you can do about it except to be friends with him and move on with life.
2007-12-27 13:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by fly_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get his attention just continue to talk with him, but also inform him of your feelings. Having a simple conversation can help this situation fairly easily.
2007-12-27 21:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Madd Hatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to build a friendship with him and things should take off from there. i've learnt that you have to be patient when u like someone. You have to give them time to come around. now true, sometimes when you give it time someone else comes along that they like instead of you and that's tough. But think of it this way, you wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't have eyes for you. So patience girl, and only time will tell.
2007-12-27 21:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are usually dumb to flirting. unless they are sure they cant be wrong. say it strait up. what are you doing on friday lets go do something. and help make plans wehn girls say i dont care what we do lets just do something is an annoyance. help out if your goin out to eat say " I like Italian" or "Seafood is good at this place."
and even though it is great when a girl is willing to pay her own way the guy still expects to pay unless he is a jackass so dont pick a super expensive place to eat. guys like when they go home to still have money to waste on beer or video games.
2007-12-27 21:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by kidindahat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When flirting, use this acronym: ACT. Attention, Closeness, and Touch. Works every time.
2007-12-27 21:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lissard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you are interested, maybe invite him to hang out after class, even if its with a group of friends.
2007-12-27 21:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress in a color he likes a brand or style if he lieks sports wear his team colors of logo drees in a way that displays things he likes like art or skate bording and smile alot compliment him and lightly not sexully touch him during converstion like bushing his hair outa his face ad be urslef
2007-12-27 21:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by nix leath super fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More skin and less talk, the more attention. That's how we, men, work.
2007-12-27 21:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by PETER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be confident and act like you really know what you want. Guys like that
2007-12-27 21:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, this sounds just like me & my boyfriend =]
Okay, try talking to him more & more OH! & Talk to him OUT of class as well.
Like, right when class ends, walk out with him.
You'll get to know him better & better. =]
I hope he likes you tooooooo !
- Alyssa.
2007-12-27 21:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Brii. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋