earlier i had asked a question about my relationship (if you can please answer it. i would appreciate it) but i had included in my question that i am 13 and i don't get why people overreact on that age and being in a relationship. I mean why!?! it is just the same as a 20 year old chick having a boyfriend. What is the big deal? i mean really. Seriously my mom says i am supposed to look up to people like them? WTF!? that is some straight up bullshit right there.
2007-12-27 13:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey yah btw i know that some boys by the age of 13 will want to pressure me into having sex and all but trust me i will know when i will be ready to do it but the boyfriend i have isnt like that. i would know
2007-12-27 13:48:15 · update #1
and so some of the stupid retards know, my mom is FINE WITH THE FACT THAT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!! i don't think i know it all because i don't ok? i mean some people do not know what i have been through. my little sister was molestes and i have been through harsh times with my real dad so u know what, if u think i am just a stupid little know it all well i am not and i am fine with the fact that i still have a long way to go and know there will be harder times in life but dammit i may seem too young or too stupid to some of you but i know what is out there ok?
2007-12-27 13:55:00 · update #2
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Asls7aAUTBbgWQntCYLBHJDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071227183412AAixEnw that is my other question that i asked
2007-12-27 14:04:02 · update #3
nevermind that wasn't it
2007-12-27 14:05:02 · update #4
this is my other question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Auypf0q_IgRLp76ldquqHM3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071227180328AAavWTl
2007-12-27 14:06:06 · update #5
because somme people like most of the ones who answered were too old to to know what u feel. but don't let them get 2 you. u know how smart u are and if u are in a relationship, don't let people ruin it 4 u.
2007-12-28 02:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with maturity..
I didnt have a serious relationship until i was 16 and I still wasnt mature enough.. and it really depends on who you are dating. I dont think that people take being 13 out of proportion but I think 13 year olds take relationships out of proportion. Your 13 it wont be serious trust me, if you say you love someone you dont really know cause at that age its puppy love nothing more. You are probley really boy crazy now. Its not the same as a 20 year old having a relationship because when you are 20 you are so mature(hopefully) and have expirence. At 13 your hormones are racing and you are just boy crazy. Trust me when your young nothing lasts forever and im sure the boy your with, well lets just say it doesnt last forever. So listen to the advice your mom gave you it isnt' bullshit one bit. When you are 20 you are going to realize. I have only been in 2 serious relationships and one was THE one where we both loved eachother but we were just to young and inmature to know what we wanted and 2 years later I look back and wished things would have worked but because of that relationship and the one i was just in I have grown into a much more mature person.
Look your still a kid for the most part and try not to rush into things, boys can honestly wait. It is the part of growing up in all but dont give in to anything you dont want to do. I really am looking out for you and so is everyone around you..Just be careful with your decisions and try not to take every middle school boy you date TO SERIOUS cause its not SERIOUS until a boy can take you out to a romatic date to dinner, open your door for you when you get in and get out or all those amazing things you want in someone.. It will come when you are much more mature hun I dont mean it as a bad thing but I wasnt mature at 13, 14, 15, or even 16 I learned a lot in the past 2 years...
If you ever want any advice I will be willing to give it to you!
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Good luck
Krystal
2007-12-27 13:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is way too young for a relationship. You haven't lived life yet. You haven't learned how to handle yourself, let alone someone else. At 13, I thought I knew it all but all I did was set myself up for disaster. You live and you learn though. You're young. You will make mistakes. It is a part of life but please try to refrain from having sex. Sex at 13 is completely different than having sex in your 20's. You are just not responsible and educated enough yet. You may think you are but believe me, you're not!
2007-12-27 13:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyladee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,,,not really.....I thought the same way at 13 but looking back there really is a difference.........you havent even been through high school yet,,,not to mention the real world....and at 13-23 guys pretty much have one thing on their minds........you need to grow up a little and find it all out.....Your still a puppy girl.
2007-12-27 13:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by GKH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get uptight about it because, they are afraid of 13 year olds dating, many of them have children. They are also afraid, because the sooner you start dating, the sooner you start having sex. (It's been proven, don't try to deny it). I agree with you that people should not be abusing you like that, but you did put that info up on Yahoo. I'm sorry, people are so mean. Just next time, don't mention that you're 13.
2007-12-27 13:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just seat your mom down and talk to her (without upseting each other) maybe she is just warried that you may get hurt. and the big deal is your still a kid being 13 is no where near the same . at 13 all you have to worry about is school and what your going to put on to go to school. at 20 there is bills rent car payments food ect and even college if you in college.
2007-12-27 13:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is learn to respect urself....once u do that sincerely..u will not hv this though in ur mind anymore.
ur mom is right...we need to learn a lot form them..she's ur well-wisher.
u hv a relation at this young age...u sound very despatate to me...act ur age..go hv fun, watch movies, play video games...dont get into all these relationships and all coz wen u are 20 or 25 u will know wat u want and from then u hv to be in a relationship all thru ur life..so why waste the precious time u hv got in such a stressful thing...
enjoy ur life being a single girl..Guys respect you for not loosing urself easily....be urself...listen to ur heart.
2007-12-27 13:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy knowing it all while it lasts.
2007-12-27 13:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what are you asking???
2007-12-27 13:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Best Actress Nominee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...*Lights zoom in* "I pooped."
2007-12-27 13:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by j;eaojtoig;45jho;54ihu;45hujt54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋