Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

2007-12-27 15:35:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive had an absolutely AMAZING boyfriend for a year and a half. Honestly, i never thought id find a guy like him- hes a dream come true and treats me like a princess.

HOWEVER- before him.. i was severely hurt by an ex years ago. When i was 19 and young and stupid... i got pregnant by him.. and lost the baby.. and i never really... even five years later.. have gotten over him. I think it is more of wondering "what could have been" u know?

Well.. i recently broke up with the current b/c i was having feelings for the ex... i needed time to think bc we were getting into engagement territory.. and i knew he deserved better then me having doubts. I took my time.. realized that ill always have the ex on a pedestal.. but.. he will never treat me like the current and.. i know what i want.

I want to make it work with the current- i need to GET OVER the ex once and for all. My question- do i tell the current how i feel? Do i tell him my history and why its hard? or is that selfish?

2007-12-27 15:34:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my daughter asked me to posted this for her.

There is this boy and her brother that shes known well forever

And last time we saw them one boy said he had a crush on
her

She likes him too but dosent know what to do should she go out with him? I stink at figuring these things out

please help!

2007-12-27 15:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it called when you tell your partner that you are working,when you are really sneaking around with another man or woman?

2007-12-27 15:32:05 · 29 answers · asked by Huckapoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's brother wife she is my sister in law. I think she liked my husband's x wife better than me she never really gave me a chance from the first time she met me six year's ago she has alway's been rhude to me. It really hurt my feeling's very bad. I alway's buy her family gift's for Christmas and I alway's try to treat her good even though she is rhude to me. She has never came to our home every time we invite her over she make's up an excuse that she can not come over to our home. She never buy my kid's anything and my kid's are little I do not want them to know we get along this way because it is uncall for and very embarrasing. Please help me tell me what should i do to handle this disfunctional matter this is so crazy.

2007-12-27 15:29:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my current gf for 2.5 months and we just had sex for the first time the other night. (my xmas present) She had an orgasm, but when she did she started screaming like a maniac and then shaking uncontrollably. She claimed this was her 1st orgasm ever, she said until now, she said she thought she had them before but apparently did not know what they were. She is 27 years old. Is she pulling my leg?

2007-12-27 15:26:05 · 42 answers · asked by Mastermind 3 in Singles & Dating

so there's this boy ♥

i think i might love him! he is my boyfriend and i like him more than any other boyfriend i've had before. im ALWAYS thinking about him, even if i try not to i always am. he's the first thing i think of when i wake up, and the last before i go to sleep. even my "getaway" wich is hockey for me cannot distract him from me. in the locker room todayy all i could think about was how i was gonna tell james all the funny stuff that happened [[haha it should be a reality show all us sexxii gals hoppin round in our panties]] and when we won today, [[first game of the tournament]] all i could think about was that i was gonna tell him.

i never think like this at hockey, im usually thinkin, "gotta get better, gotta be the best if i want on yankee conference" or "oh man i gotta get my scholarship" even tho im years away from college.

so what u think? how did u know you were in love? how old were u the first time? and do u think i might be in love?

no rudeness plzz

2007-12-27 15:22:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ohkay when i was 3 my mom and father broke up.... then when i was 8 my dad got marry to some brainwashing freak..when i was12 they had a baby girl(i like herr).. when she turned 1 they moved to canada.. he never call me or sent me stuff on the holidays...but now he moved back down here and his brainwashing wife thinks if i want my DAD to call me i should just pick up the phone and call him... but if he loves mee i think he would call.... then he called me on christmas.. i picked up and said i dont want you in my life you have no kiddds that like you only(his three year old)(my sis doesnt want to talk to him and my 5 year old brother thinks he is in canada still working from when he was born) Now m i the messeed up one for saying that? what should i tell my little brotherr?? i need help???

2007-12-27 15:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think she has an interest in me because I caught her looking at me, I looked back, and she looked away. With big smile on her face. Btw, knowing how late I work does not have any influence on mine or her work. Does this mean she wants me to ask her out or something? I appreciate any input on this.

2007-12-27 15:19:53 · 5 answers · asked by gc203 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 15:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 years old.
my family moved into an extremely small apartment with 2bedrooms in it about 3 years ago.
the only reason is because it's cheap and we can afford it right now because my dad is the only one working.

we all hate it.
it's in the ghetto, and terrible looking.
the paint on it looks like crap, we have no grass in the front, people throw garbage around it, our fence is old and rotten, the screen to the front door is torn and we get rats.
it is just gross!
and the landlord doesn't do anything about it.

i do appreciate the fact that we have somewhere to live, but i am just so embarrassed about it.
i don't like my friends coming over, picking me up, or dropping me off.
i don't even go anywhere because of this.
what can/should i do?
i know i shouldn't care, but i do.

2007-12-27 15:11:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is driving me crazy with his non stop gambling addiction, every time he hears we have a dime he has to take it to the casino and spend it. when i tell him we are broke he starts a rampage tearing things apart looking for money. what should i do to help him stop? he wont even think about calling a 1-800 number or even go to counseling, I'm so lost.

2007-12-27 15:08:56 · 33 answers · asked by snickers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is the wrong catagory, but I need more mature help. So anyway, to start off, I am not like other fifteen year old girls, I practically gag when girls say i love you to their "one and only." I used to be one, and beleive me it is not love. Yes, I have a cynical outlook on dating these days. Its not like I have a reason to be, I'm confident in my looks and I can take care of a man's needs. Needs other than actual sex. Too many girls with STDs at my school. Anyway, I stopped dating guys because I mean whats the point right, its high school, and it's not gonna last. But lately, I've started to like a guy in my class. He's funny, we laugh, yada yada yada.

The problem is I don't know how to act in a relationship. I mean I was a girl who had like a new boyfriend every month. I don't want that. I'm not very good at having a middle ground between mental and sexual attraction. And all my past relationships have been one or the other. Please, help, and no judging.

2007-12-27 15:08:44 · 11 answers · asked by mizz. answers. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get guys to notice me if im really quiet/shy?

2007-12-27 15:08:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you ever thank the person that gave you the best answer either in the comment box or by emailing them (if you can) or both?

2007-12-27 15:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by SapphireB 6 in Singles & Dating

Im tired of being Stressed out of Going to School!!

I DONT LIKE COMMING OFF THE BUSS! Stomach tenes and My heart beat races cause i get off where the whole school lines up with there classes And worried that some one will make a comment about me Anything Can happen!!<<<
I DONT LIKE GOING TO P.E no more cause i dont want people to see me running and im afraid that they will have the you know """pick 2 people as team caption and pick there players and ill be left out last!""

HOW COME IF IM NEAR ANY BOY... like sitting next to a boy or somthin i start feeling shaky like and old person and my lips get Dry, i gulp ALOT, and i feel like i cant even move,

MY PERSONALITY CHANGES.... when im around the Out going popular girliess and i dont say sh**** im so shy!!

2007-12-27 15:04:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 17 and i want my parents to trust my boyfriend so bad... but i, or my boyfriend, don't know what else to do. my parents dont trust me alone in a car with him...so they wont let him drive me ANYWHERE... it sucks so bad.... i dont have my license... and he is a very respectable guy... my parents are very over-protective... and i hate it.... all i want is for them to trust him... and us... we havent done anything to show that we are not responsible or trustworthy.... any advice.... im juss holding on by a thread here.... thanx

2007-12-27 15:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 15:02:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought my wife a VERY expensive air mattress ($69.99) so she should be grateful and appreciative, but she has been very mean and nasty to me all evening and I don't know why.

2007-12-27 15:02:18 · 60 answers · asked by progrockfan80 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi , Everytime i get into problems with my sister she always say , " YOU WONT BE ANYTHING IN LIFE " she says im rude with her . but she is the one that always screams at me . she is 23 im 14. Im ONly rude with her , im passing all my classes at school , i have alot of friends and nobody but her says i wont be anythinh in life.what could i do to show her i will be something in life?

2007-12-27 15:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not any specific married woman, its just something thats in my head, and for some reason turns me on.

Please don't be mad at me just for imagining it! I thinks its weird too, that why I'm asking!

Anyway so I have long imagined having sex with a married woman, who, well, specifically who has a husband who's penis is smaller than mine (so <7). And I imagine her telling me how I'm bigger than him, feel great, etc.

Ok, so I said it was frickin weird! But how do I get this out of my head? When its been there since I was a perverted little teenager (I haven't acted on it yet, but it is a temptation)?

Or how should look at it? Deal with it? Etc.?

2007-12-27 15:01:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is love worth all the pain? I've been in love twice (still am) and I've enjoyed it...but it always ends in pain for ME. I'm tired of girls playing with my heart when they don't mean to. I don't blame them, I'm just mad at the situation. Is love really worth breaking my heart again and again?

2007-12-27 15:00:34 · 42 answers · asked by Not done with love 3 in Singles & Dating

I guess i have to say this has been the best time of my life. He says he will slow down to avoid scaring me away, but it's hard to slow down when everything is just flowing all on it's own. He says he knew i was the one the first time he saw me, now im getting married to someone who has been a blessing to me from the start. Anyone have a familiar story? Is love at first site possible?

2007-12-27 14:58:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sheba 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend. i've known her since my freshman year in high school (we're seniors now). we've had our ups and downs and sometimes throughout the school year we forget about each other but end up coming back to each other towards the end of the year, it seems to be the same cycle for 3 years now. we don't go to the same school anymore but i still visit her every now and then. (also i HAVE liked her before.)
well anyways, lately i think there's been this problem with our friendship getting kind of boring and uneventful. before when i used to visit her we used to just lay on her bed and talk about everything. she used to want to talk to me and want to hang out with me. lately it seems like i'm the only one putting any effort anymore. it's always me who plans any hangouts or me who tries to start a conversation. the last time i went to her place to hang out all we did was sit on her bed and watch tv. for hours. i felt so crappy after i got home. what's going on and what can i do?

2007-12-27 14:58:21 · 2 answers · asked by hi hi :) 2 in Friends

I had my own place for three years, since I was 18. I then got preg. at 21 and had a baby. I moved back with my parents for help during the first year untill I got back on my feet. I am now ready to move out of the house. My mother is really negitive about everything since she has not been working. She drinks alot and it is affecting our family. My father is in his own world and doesn't care. He says to ignore my mother and stay living at home to save money. The negitive **** in my house is affecting me. I created a stress free life before I moved back. It is now painful, depressing, and a head ache back at home. I love my parents but their disfunction is affecting me. I have a roommate to help with everything. I was my independance back!! My parents keep trying to make me feel bad about moving out and my mother is not speaking to me. What do I do?? I don't know how to overcome this. It's hard but I can't live my life for everyone else!! Help!!

2007-12-27 14:58:06 · 24 answers · asked by tmac_tmi 1 in Family

2007-12-27 14:56:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

I got married 6 months ago and everything is so far, so good except that sometimes I snoop and when I find any little tiny thing I get soooo jealous! Like tonight I looked in his Myspace (he told me his password a while ago, so I know he's not hiding anything in there) and I saw an old message from a girl he use to like before we met. The message wasn't even that bad, just like "Hey handsome, I miss you." but now I feel all sick and crazy and I feel like there's no way that he will just be happy with me forever. Or whenever he mentions a girl that he works with I feel the same way. Even if all he says is something like "I fixed so and so's computer for her today"...and that's his job- fix computers!! LOL
Please, I need advice. I know a little jelousy is normal but this is not! And I've been like this in all my relationships and it contributing to their ending- but I'm married now so I want it to be different! Help!! Don't just tell me I'm crazy- I know that already, I need solid tips!

2007-12-27 14:54:46 · 19 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband secretly looks at call girls online, what do i do? I checked the history and saw.

2007-12-27 14:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 14:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by heyayaya 1 in Singles & Dating

He is always saying that he thinks I don't like him and that I don't act like it. It is holiday time and we haven't taked much because he went back home.

How do I show him/ what do I say?

2007-12-27 14:50:54 · 8 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating