Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

so, my mom caught bf and I the other day (shirtless, both of us) and now wants to lecture him on respecting me, etc etc. she's worried that we'll be serious and he won't treat me right, even though he is the sweetest, most sincerely kind person I know (boyfriend or not) and he absolutely respects my wishes and goals in life. Do I warn him? Do I say something to mom?

2007-12-27 18:57:26 · 15 answers · asked by blorb 2 in Singles & Dating

well at school there is this boy named connor and the first day that i saw him one of my friends told me that he liked me he is hot and he doesn't really talk to me is he shy? and recently i got a haircut and he seemed to loose intrest what can i do to make him like me more or to make him more interested

2007-12-27 18:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by Natty 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been through a lot of relationships lately, & i think that i havent been single longer than a month in this past year. I feel that I need to concentrate on college & working & guys are not in the picture. I just need support that i can stay single- even when i get lonely-- idk TIPS on advantages of being single?? :D

2007-12-27 18:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl l 1 in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with me? I seem to compare the guys to him we have two kids together. am i going to be alone forever. I am also studing nursing so I barely I have time. I miss someone wanting me. Should I be happy about being single or what?

2007-12-27 18:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

So my ex and I have been on and off for the past year. I was really upset about this final break up but I am finally taking the steps to move forward and keep the past in the past. I have tried to not speak to him at all as this triggers old feelings. I went away on a little vacation two days ago and just got back today. He called me and said " I have something you want" and I thought it might be the $200 he owes me. I call and he says he has my dogs leash. I say I'll come get it sometime. Then he asks if I want to come over to have sex. I say with confidence, No. He then says "Oh I can't have sex with you anyways.." And I hung up before he could tell me why. He then texts me a pic of him grabbing a girls ***. And goes on to tell me about his new gf and how much better she is than me. I only write back positive responces, like good for you congrats. I am changing my number tomorrow AGAIN. But I'm just wondering, if he is so over me why does he still need to contact me???

2007-12-27 18:46:25 · 22 answers · asked by lovin life in california 1 in Singles & Dating

she has been my best friend for years!i understand that she trust me enough to tell me but i dont knowwat to doo!! hellp!

2007-12-27 18:46:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband rules our home with an iron hand. I recently put my two sons on my cell phone plan, which I pay for. Now he says that our sons should either pay for their own, and the youngest whom is in college shouldn't have a cell phone at all. He tells me who I can and can't be friends with. I recently became a board member for a charitable group whom does so many good things for community, etc. He feels that one board member is hitting on me so I shouldn't take part anymore. This is unfair and untrue. I enjoy working with these people who do fundraisers for people in need, sponsor college scholarships. Now he told me that HE will be in control of my cell phone as well, I am supposed to give him the password for the voicemail, etc. He controls the purse strings. What can I do? I have threatened to leave, but I have no money..I do have a part time job, but not enough money from that to sustain me.

2007-12-27 18:44:15 · 27 answers · asked by Pepper07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm here, all the time, with my baby girl, and im 8 months pregnant with our second. He's in tx right now, and im in Louisiana (its only an hour and a half away, but still) He told me tonight...again,....that he didnt know what he wanted....blah blah. this is after....numerous attempts to work it out...but everytime, ...when it comes down to it "he doesnt know what he wants"....but while he's off figuring out who or what he wants to be in life...or even who he wants to be with.....im here with my babies....i want them to have a good life! i love him, and i want our family to be together! I put aside all my dreams to try and do that, and im not complaining! i love being a mom, but why do i have to give up so much, and he gives up nothing? How do you get over the father of your children...not wanting to be a family after so long? going back and forth trying to work it out with all your heart, and nothing is good enough? i dont understand. im not the one doing wrong...so why?

2007-12-27 18:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Jada and Ty's mommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well i am in high school and rumors spread fast so how do i do it right with out no one knowing i need help and yes i am 17

2007-12-27 18:35:06 · 58 answers · asked by Isabelle W 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my wife and i have had a rough past and we worked things out 10 months ago. She feels that all i want to do is have sex with her. She also said that this just makes her feel like a piece of meat to me. We both are pretty busy , 2 kids, she goes to school online, as well as her full time job and i work and have a small business. I know a lot of times that she feels overwhelmed with the kids and work. And i honestly havent been to considerate of her feelings. What are some tips that can help me so that i can show more apppreciation to my wife and make her feel good about me again???? I really do aprreciate the feedback ahead of time!!!

2007-12-27 18:33:47 · 21 answers · asked by Mr Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's a brief story. A friend of mine met a great guy in college, they know each other for 4 months and they were always talking over the phone. We also hanged out with him for the first time recently so everything was cool. However, I get the feeling like he likes my friend. Before yesterday, a friend of mine was talking to him over the phone and she made so many jokes while talking to him. It seemed like he enjoed but I know that it was a little bit out of control from her side cuz I believe she had to limit them, lol. I don't know if her guy friend freaked out from the other day because he didn't call her since. However, today he sent her an e-mail saying "Please call me when you can". She didn't want to sounds needy and decided not to call him so her reply was like this: "I'll try to call you but I'm not sure when I'll be able to, just in case I won't, you call me".
Finally, there was no calls today at all. Please let me know what should she do,call him up or wait his call?

2007-12-27 18:32:52 · 3 answers · asked by Stars 5 in Singles & Dating

my soul mate, what do i do without hurting anyone even tho i know it's impossible.

2007-12-27 18:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

need help. he says he love me. says we should slow down. calls the relationship no commitment. but we don't have sex anymore. what does it mean?

2007-12-27 18:30:15 · 11 answers · asked by nd 1 in Singles & Dating

I like redheaded girls. There was this one in college that I would take. She had hair of fire. They just seem so rare and mysterious to me. What do you all think? Do you like the gingers too?

2007-12-27 18:29:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 18:24:39 · 20 answers · asked by cheeeeku... 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is in a dilemma because her 5 yr old daughter accidentally saw a movie between couple in an intimate position. What advice can she give her daughter?

2007-12-27 18:23:37 · 2 answers · asked by lexie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sometimes wonder why some guys move on quickly than girls.
Guys? Why is that?

2007-12-27 18:22:00 · 38 answers · asked by StephXGamer 3 in Singles & Dating

thats in your own lifes and be with you for long time , and are you always feel happier and very gladful to be with this person or animal?

2007-12-27 18:21:25 · 6 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband got abusive after we got married. we seperated. we did counseling. we got back together. he did it again. we seperated. i filled for a divorce. it took him 4 months to sign the papers. i'm with someone else and i think he's with someone else now as well. but i still get id restricted calls only when i'm not at home (i know it's him) with no one saying anything. we've only been married 2 years. we were together for 5. we are all we know. am i making a mistake and moving too fast?

2007-12-27 18:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by kisses and hugs 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 18:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by mysteryman_sx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

thers this girl we were mesing sround with anote and i got taken up nd we got in trouble now she hates me I have tried averything

2007-12-27 18:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i would like to honesty know what women like in men dating after marrage with out there spouces knowing it and act like nothing happened or take a chance on ruining there marrage. or being faitful. and boared . like that tramp i knew with out morals. so which would you choose

2007-12-27 18:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

who do u think is wierder, my aunt is a recycle freak, like when she uses paper plates and stuff she always rewashes them and uses them like 5 billion times over, and she makes her kids who are 5,8,and 12 take baths together. she has to use everything more than once. OR do u think my friends mom is wierder, when she washes clothes she always has to wash them twice because she sais both sides of the clothes is dirty. so whos wierder??

2007-12-27 18:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by *mexicanprincess* 2 in Friends

I cheated on my husband and I don't know why I love him sooo much. I was really drunk and I normally don't drink soo?? Please spare the "I am a whore because I already know that." And that is the way I feel. I would have NEVER have done this Sober.

2007-12-27 18:03:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, how old do you think this guy looks?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v332/blonde_baby93/lo2.jpg



Thanks

2007-12-27 17:57:00 · 28 answers · asked by Stephi 2 in Singles & Dating

My man is in the army and will be home for his 21st. I would like to surprise him with some hot role-playing but have never done that before and have no idea what to do. I want to do something different...not just a naughty nurse. Please help.

2007-12-27 17:55:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mother of 2 daughter's, gave both my children all my time, love and support (I have one that's 27 yr old daughter one 15 in Feburary,and 5 yr old Granson, whom I love and care so deeply for),I've bailed her outa so so many jams,all her life,
His father (grandson's) wasn't around for any of her pregnancy nor my grandson's birth ,birthday's nothing, (NOTTA)
My other daughter is turning 15 in februray,she's a typical teen, not doing any bad things ,such as drugs, alcohol or ciggerttes,she does well in school, and also loves school.phheeww(thank god).

The 27 yr old is the type that is very, very overbearingERYTHING IN THE WORLD.I mean literly everythiing, If we get into a calm conversation as a family including my mom(love her so much, sweetest lady ever)it alway's ends up in a hudge screaming match, then very her mouth,with it ending that she wants to leave, that "WE" are the stupid one's ,saying "yeah, It's alway "ME" It dosen't matter ,even awaking him saying, come baby lets get outa here, very loudly saying , they don't want us here..
Is there any other Mother's Father's,Gaurdian's,parent's, that have or do feel this way ,if so what is this feeling all about?can anyone tell me if this has happened to them?,I feel like a very mean person/mother ,my mom is ill and is in no condition to have to endure such verbal abuse,as well as myself, I'm on disability,...It also breaks Mom's heart knowing what I feel and feels for grandson and greatgrandson..I really hate having to feel this way especially about my own child,
I don't or could care aless if I ever see her or talk to her again, However I love my grandson and my other daughter and Mom do to..
Every xmas this has happened for the past 6 or 7 yrs..
We did live in the same town after the baby was born, as she had no where to go, we orginally lived in Toronto, then I brought broght my Mother up to the North as well 2 yrs after I came up,This Daughter moved to Toronto, after moving 3 other places in our town,she's very lazy, she come's, first thing, grabs the phone ,goes into my other daughters room ,I don't see her til she say's im leaving now...This so horrible, I loved her so so much in her younger yrs,,raised her the best I could, being a single mom.
She has her father to talk to now, that never gave her anything,she thinks of him as a god.
my 15 yr old hasn't a father now,he passed, even still, he lost custody of any kind before passing,she was and still is terrified even though she knows he's dead.I feel like I'm a terrible Mother,but I could care aless if I see her ever again, my grandson yes, boy would I love him so ss much and loved to keep him full time, he's so sweet.everytime he knows he's leaving he cry's so hard wanting to stay,she won't allow him to.
Every Xmas,Easter,Birthday's,ect ect this has happened for the past 6 or 7 yrs..
We did live in the same town after the baby was born, as she had no where to go, we orginally lived in Toronto, then my Mother and I bought seperate places about 2 hours north of Toronto,she moved about 1 year ago back to Toronto, after moving 3 other places in our town,she's very lazy, she come's, first thing, grabs the phone ,goes into my other daughters room ,I don't see her til she say's im leaving now...This so horrible, I loved her so so much in her younger yrs,would move mountain's for her if I could, I fought long and hard for her in court and recieved full custody of her, as well as my 15 yr old,I raised her the best I could, being a single mom.
She has her father to talk to now, that never gave her anything, He chooze his 2nd wife over her and her kids and forbidded her to enter his home , when is wife was around, other then to drop off our grandson.she thinks of him as a god.(my dad this, my dad that)
My 15 yr old hasn't a father now,he passed, even still, he lost custody of any kind before passing,she was and still is terrified even though she knows he's dead.I feel like I'm a terrible Mother,but I could care aless if I ever see my eldest Daughter..
Can sombody have any answer's why??
I was and am ill, do you think she ever asks how I am, or asks If there's anything she can do to make life easier for me and Mom..
NOT!!Is feeling this way not excetable ,?Am I being a bad Mother?
Every xmas this has happened for the past 6 or 7 yrs..
We did live in the same town after the baby was born, as she had no where to go, we orginally lived in Toronto, then Iand my Mother bought seperate places about 2 hours north of toronto,she moved about 1 year ago back to Toronto, after moving 3 other places in our town,she's very lazy, she come's, first thing, grabs the phone ,goes into my other daughters room ,I don't see her til she say's im leaving now...This so horrible, I loved her so so much in her younger yrs,,raised her the best I could, Im being a single Mom , she was at that time a real pleasure being her Mom,I have been a single Mom forever
She has her father to talk to now, that never gave her anything, chooze his 2nd wife over her and her kids and forbidded her to see him when is wife was around, she wasn't welcome in their home, other then to drop of our grandson.she thinks of him as a god.
my 15 yr old hasn't a father now,he passed, even still, he lost custody of any kind before passing,she was and still is terrified even though she knows he's dead.I feel like I'm a terrible Mother,but I could care aless if I
Every xmas this has happened for the past 6 or 7 yrs..
We did live in the same town after the baby was born, as she had no where to go, we orginally lived in Toronto, then Iand my Mother bought seperate places about 2 hours north of toronto,she moved about 1 year ago back to Toronto, after moving 3 other places in our town,she's very lazy, she come's, first thing, grabs the phone ,goes into my other daughters room ,I don't see her til she say's im leaving now...This so horrible, I loved her so so much in her younger yrs,,raised her the best I could, being a single mom.
She has her father to talk to now, that never gave her anything, chooze his 2nd wife over her and her kids and forbidded her to see him when is wife was around, she wasn't welcome in their home, other then to drop of our grandson.she thinks of him as a god.
my 15 yr old hasn't a father now,he passed, even still, he lost custody of any kind before passing,she was and still is terrified even though she knows he's dead.I feel like I'm a terrible Mother,but I could care aless if I see ever again
sorry if i retyed some things..

2007-12-27 17:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by shelleywadden@rogers.com 2 in Family

So, I just HAD to ask, why does it seem like the only black guys that are "into" me (and by 'into me' I mean obviously really want to have sex with me) are thugs and ghetto dudes..Its so irritating because I love the way black guys look, im def attracted to them, but Ive never dated one..only white guys, which is fine because u cant really help who u like at the time, and I dnt regret any of my previous relationships, but I just wanna know..damn..where are all the black guys that ARenT thugs and why dont they like me?
>< the black guys I like..

love white girls..

of course..

:(

which wouldnt bother me if I didnt have to fight the thuggy guys off while Im chasing after the black guys chasing after them..


if that makes sense..
lol..

so I guess I just wanna know Where Do I Need To Go To Meet Some Good Black Guys that like Black Girls?

2007-12-27 17:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this boy. I added him on myspace last year. We sort of talked, and then he wasn't on my friends list anymore.
I think he deleted me, but I've had people off my friends list before who have said they didn't delete me, and I didn't delete them.

Well this year, this boy is in one of my classes. I constantly find him staring at me. I am so so SO tempted to add him back on myspace, hoping that we will talk.

Should I?

2007-12-27 17:44:00 · 11 answers · asked by woahman! 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like loves me but he is not rich.
My mom wants me to marry some guy I dont even know and Im even sure if she cares about my happiness.
What should I tell her or do?

2007-12-27 17:40:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce