Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

I know every girl is different, but here's the question:

If a girl likes you, will she "give it up" to you? (generally speaking)

Give it up: Have oral/vaginal intercourse with you

2007-12-27 19:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me as I am very confused. I transfered into my school in January 07 and one of my RA took an interest in me. He was from Kenya and was very cute and popular. I had never actually dated a guy since I was always moving as a teenager. Essentially he made me feel like he was a great catch and was a good person. Two months into the relationship I began to realize that something was not right with him. He barely called me for example when I went to visit my parents in Italy and when I went on his Face book he was talking to some girl at another college. When I got back to the states I found out he was talking to another girl, and almost kissed her. He cried and pleaded with me to stay with him and told me a sob story about how he was insecure about himself and thats why he did it. I knew he wore a wig and stuffed his shoes to appear taller so I forgave him out of pity. Two months later he does the same thing again. He gives me same excuse and like a moron i forgive him.

2007-12-27 19:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by adastra1000 1 in Singles & Dating

ok,
my problem is..
im dating two guys..kinda
one of them i can see occasionally.
the other idk when i'll see.
maybe not for a very very long time...
well, i think im in love with the one i dont kno if i can see.
but i also like the one i can see sometimes.
but...
i cant keep "dating" them both...
because as expected neither of them are happy about it.
i just cant break up with either of them. idk why.
i just need some help.

2007-12-27 19:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basically when do i know when she wants it

2007-12-27 19:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by devin e 1 in Singles & Dating

usually we both pay fairly. im unemployed these days and hes a student who will be unemployed next semester. lately I've noticed that I've been paying more often than he has. today he wanted to go out for lunch but when we went I offered, at first he said no but then he just handed me the bill.
he did take me to a fancy place for Christmas eve and give me gifts ..but then I feel odd when he just hands over the bill to me knowing Im probably as broke as he is!
am i overanalyzing or is this normal??
we've been together almost a year

2007-12-27 19:38:16 · 16 answers · asked by kera 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-27 19:36:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss my ex but the only interaction I got was with his friends and people and my work that I hated and did not like . I only got to see my friends a couple times a month because they figured I was too busy with my family and they like to go out they have kids too but r not married. I guess now I feel stupid for leaving so I could go out more and go to nursing school. Let me know what you think?

2007-12-27 19:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a sarcastic guy and just wondering as titled above.

2007-12-27 19:32:09 · 24 answers · asked by Ge1st 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved three states away, we reconciled, I moved three states back. She says she still has problems with me, OK< and she says, Go Away from me, don't call, don't write, don't darken my door. I did. Now she sends all manner of e-mail, I have responded once, out of ten. She has called at 6/am, twice and won't speak, but the caller ID says it's her. I have not called, or initiated contact. Should I , and the love has cooled on my end. This woman inflicted herself on me, and now seems to think I owe her more explanations. Still three states away, and safe. Thanks.

2007-12-27 19:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Tacit Hue 5 in Singles & Dating

please read my previous question . .
I just broke up with BF via email
ITS OVER :

The damn text isn't going through so I'll make this
really clear, I want out.

you know what? I want to believe that this could work
but sorry . . everything inside of me is screaming
that I should let you go and that I deserve better
than this. I am here and you are there and this makes
no sense and why are you driving upstate with a girl
named Ashley?? . . would you like it if we were going
out and I drove upstate with Chris or Kyle or Peter or
Dustin . . . I don't think so . . . and why don't you
ever call or return my calls. I remember when I was
really worried about you, you had cut your head on a
rail road track and I left that worried message and
you never never called me back not even to say you
were ok. If you liked me that much than why don't you
think about me as much as I think about you? Why don't
you make me feel all warm and happy inside? You make
me feel really sad

2007-12-27 19:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by L.o.v.e 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i just broke up, but we are living in his parents house (crappy situation to begin with). and im like 3000 miles away from home and just got offerd a job i really wanted, so i dont want to go home. all he does is treat me like crap, and now his parents too. i dont want to leave my job! i dont have enough money to move out, there is no answer to this, i just have to save money and live in this hell hole till i can escape. the funny thing is, he doesnt work or do anything and hes 30! wow i picked a winner i cant wait until this is over. he doesnt even have a valid reason for the breakup, i guess i was the one that started it all, but he doesn't do anything and i work my butt off. I dont understand how someone can treat you like crap when you are hardly ever around. i dont even do anything to bother him? He sits at home all day and plays video games all day. Sorry i had to vent. Please dont tell me how stupid i am because i am already told that enough by the EX. i had to vent.

2007-12-27 19:28:20 · 11 answers · asked by Waitingforhim 1 in Singles & Dating

I went on a few dates with a guy I really like. He would text me from work, then stopped. Our first date, things went really fast, and we found ourselves saying, how did this happen? Now he stopped calling me. Does this mean he's not interested in me anymore?

2007-12-27 19:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Singles & Dating

...it doesn't mean they were given with any less love?

My finance's eight year old girl is with us, she just got her Christmas presents. We spent quite a bit on her but not as much as her mum who has far more money than us.

She's really unimpressed with what we got her. She looked at it all and wandered off to play with the ipod her mother gave her. She seems to think we put no effort in to it all and that the stuff we got her is crap.

How do we explain to her that even though these things cost less, they were still given with as much love?

2007-12-27 19:26:19 · 30 answers · asked by . 6 in Family

Do I tell her the truth or keep it from her so it doesn't hurt her feelings? She is already angry about the money. I love her.

2007-12-27 19:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Friends

apartment window. it's 2 am in the morining,,,, he waved his hands to me to open the front door of my building. confused about the situation and curious to what he wanted i went to the front and talked to him through our glass door. he kept staring at me and he didn't say a word. i kept saying what do u want and then he replied " can you come with me " and kept looking at me and kept looking and im like wtf im like go leave my house now and he walked so slowly out of my building and than before he left he kept asking if i wanted to go with him. im like dude get the **** outta here before i kick your *** and he walked away. i called the cops cause i was scared for my little brother, he was outside his building(infront of my street) the cops came and started BITCHING at me saying he might be under the infulence of alchol and that hes a citizen and thats his r

2007-12-27 19:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by garett65 1 in Friends

my good friend comes over at least twice a week and its great, thing is she brings her kids! They are little terrors! they run around my house tearing through draws, cuboards anything they can get thier little paws on! I love my friend coming over, but not her kids! What can i do? or more or less, how can i tell her?

2007-12-27 19:19:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-27 19:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by Vinny 1 in Singles & Dating

if i were to meet a woman(you) at a public place, bookstore, resteruant, etc. how should i strike up a conversation, without seeming like just a weird guy hitting on you?

2007-12-27 19:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

U have ever been on with someone? What happened? Did U ever get to go out on a second date with them & how did that turn out? If you didn't get a second date with them, did U ever see or speak to them again? Maybe even years later? What happened then? All shared stories would be kept in strictest confidence, U can even change the names to protect the innocent if U so desire -- I don't mind!

2007-12-27 19:16:26 · 11 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Singles & Dating

Theres this boy named daniel i met him about 4 months ago, i saw him all the time, and we would just smile and say hi, i had a little crush on him, and we would flirt a little. Then about 2 months ago I met a new friend named Leah. Leah and I aren't really close, but were cool. So I found out a month ago that daniel and leah go together, which was a surprise to me. Now I dont like daniel anymore, were all just friends.
Daniel and I have been talking a lot lately, about everything, even his relationship with leah. Were starting to be really good friends, even so much to where he invites me over his house, but only to kick it though, nothing else. I do know that i cant go over there without leah being there, so although we plan this stuff i don't plan on following through on it.
I just want to know what are my limits as to how close of friends we can be??? Were like getting to be best friends, and nothing more, but i don't want leah to question our relationship and think otherwise.

2007-12-27 19:11:52 · 1 answers · asked by I ♥ Jesus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 19:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend for 6 1/2 months now. I called her late last night and told her that I wasn't sure if I should call because she is probably busy. Her response was, I am your girlfriend and you can call me whenever you want. So if a girl says this to her boyfriend..would she cheat on him? I was just wondering.

2007-12-27 19:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 19:09:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for ~ 3 months. It hasn't been an easy road. >> He's my roommates ex (from 2 yrs. ago), which is how I met him + he just ended a relationship w/ a girl who had a daughter; he loved the child, but now the mom won't let him see her + he has some fairly serious health problems and a big hospital bill to foot. >> I've tried to take all this into acct., but he's so odd sometimes. He lies to me about little stuff, telling me some big story from his childhood only to say later, "oh, i just made that up". >> + he insults me in small ways: telling me I dress sloppy, telling me not to "mark my territory" (hickie) when i was just trying to kiss his neck, and today he says "i always go for girls who look like little boys..ha...you could totally pass for an asian boy".>> All of his good qualities (there are some) are starting to fade in my mind. I've forgiven him up to now b/c of his "sad circumstances". But maybe he's just an asshole. And maybe I need to hit the road

2007-12-27 19:07:06 · 8 answers · asked by clearly here 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-12-27 19:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25; She works at People's The Diamond Store. I was there in September to thank this older lady (Jane) for helping save my life (very bad car accident). She wasn't there, but I struck up a conversation with this nice brown girl in her early 20s. We talked for 10 minutes. I came back 2 more times that week. Each time the brown girl was there, she was nice, smiling when seeing me, and we always talked for a few minutes, some flirting. But I had a gf at the time.

I am no longer in a relationship...I stopped by today to say hi to Jane, she wasn't there...but the brown girl was. I was 10 meters away, but she recognized me after 3 months, gave a big smile, and waved me to come over (she actually already helping a customer). She said the Jane is coming tomorrow. I grinned, and asked if she was going to be tomorrow as well. She smiled and said yes.

Do you think she's interested or being nice? She’s never tried to sell me anything, even stayed a bit after her shift in September to talk.

2007-12-27 19:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I get over this jealousy and pain? I just cant pic him with another women makes me mad we should had stayed married so i didnnt have to go through this.

2007-12-27 19:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

hes a gym rat, loves going to the gym and kinda watches what he eats in terms of high cholesterol or high sugar foods. I'm 5'3 119lbs. Today we were together and in his converstaion he goes "like you r not thin" which made me mad and I asked him if he thinks Im fat and he said "ur not fat ur average"..which makes me madder cuz I think Im thin ..average means between thin and chubby...what do u guys think??

2007-12-27 19:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

ok like i just wanna go to sleep and not be bothered after sex and she wants to snuggle and stuff and i dont wanna do that. how do i get her to leave?

2007-12-27 19:00:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well my birthday is on saturday and the BIGGEST crush i have ever had is comming (him and his brother) and i have now clue how i should act around him last time we hung out i was really flirty and it kinda worked but not really so i need some flirting tips things i should do (like hold hand and stuff like that)

plezzz help!!!!!


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2007-12-27 18:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by <3 Allie nash :) <3 3 in Singles & Dating