Do I tell her the truth or keep it from her so it doesn't hurt her feelings? She is already angry about the money. I love her.
2007-12-27 19:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hell no you dont tell her .
2007-12-27 19:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lord, man! The truth is usually the best thing but you should have done it in the beginning. Now, well, you would have lied to her and that will make it worse, hell, she might just cut your buddies off and I don't mean from getting any.
She might suspect anyway since you went to Vegas, but I sure can't advise you to say anything about it now...way too risky. $2800 for a piece of a$$! Are you that desperate. Damn! I spend a lot of money on my wife but it averages out not to be anywhere near that much per event and she does about as good a job.
Besides, if you really love her that much, you would have spent the money on her and got a lot for years to come or at least really gambled and then serviced yourself. No excuses for adultery...yes, it is still cheating no matter how legal it may be, unless she is there with you and okays it or joins in.
Good luck and be sure to sleep with one eye open. Your seeing eye that is.
Fyrfytr
2007-12-27 19:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by n2dfyrigo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you love her it sounds like you need a new hobby. She'll more than likely find out what you did anyway. Us wives have a knack for being curious about what our beloved husbands do, especially with $2800. If she has to find out herself she'll be irate, if you tell her she'll be irate. Either way bud, you're in big trouble. If you just let it go, it'll come back and chomp you in the butt down the road. It may be years down the road, but if you let it go that long it tends to not just bite you, but take a chunk out of your hide as well. I'd tell her if I was you, start trying to work on whatever problem there is in your marriage for you to be running off and spending your money on trashy hookers.
2007-12-27 19:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wives and girlfriends are always bound to find things out and yes we will be mad at you for what you're going to tell us but us having to find out ourselves no matter how long it is down the road will be much worse. Just get it over with and tell her what happened and tell her you are sorry. Plus if she doesn't want you doing it anymore than don't. You have to respect her wishes and she should do the same for yours.
2007-12-27 19:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i be responsive to somebody who SUED the on line casino using fact of an intense loss. They knew that the customer grow to be no longer a "intense curler" as they say.. yet took income of him. yet howdy - in case you cant try this. pass see your monetary employer - look into refinancing (or remortgaging) all costs (credit enjoying cards / mark downs) and so on into your place loan. Get a 2nd activity and commence saving (yet tell her previous to beginning the greater activity.. or she will think of you're having an affair) So - you have taken care of the funds, have been given a 2nd activity, now tell her
2016-10-02 11:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by karcz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth for some of you who don't no what a "bunny ranch" is it is basically a strip club. It mate hurt her feelings a bit.
The reason you may have went there is because you and your wife don't have a very good sex life
thats how she might get hurt sexually not physically.
2007-12-27 19:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
why did you go there if you love her? love is more then just sex! being faithful is lots more love then anything! come clean and let her decide if you are out or staying! i know i would kick you to the curb! i hat e cheaters of any kind!
2007-12-27 19:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by momma_m_47280 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't love her very much if you'll lie to her and cheat on her and waste the money on trash.
2007-12-27 19:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her Air Force Amy stole it from you...
2007-12-27 19:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
idk but are they as good as there are on tv???????
2007-12-27 19:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rob Rogers 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋