hi , Everytime i get into problems with my sister she always say , " YOU WONT BE ANYTHING IN LIFE " she says im rude with her . but she is the one that always screams at me . she is 23 im 14. Im ONly rude with her , im passing all my classes at school , i have alot of friends and nobody but her says i wont be anythinh in life.what could i do to show her i will be something in life?
2007-12-27 15:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well - she's probably feeling bad about herself, so she's insulting you
don't take it personally, because, come on, she's 23 and she's still fighting like a kid with a 14yo, she's the one who needs to get a life
hang in there :)
2007-12-27 15:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael in Colorado 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go about your business and become what you want. She really shouldn't be speaking to you like this, it's abusive. Either way, she sounds mean so just be the best you.
I have to wonder just how successful she is if she's going after her 14 year old brother. Has she no life? She's probably still angry at the fact that you came along in the first place. Just what in life has she become anyway if she's at home at 23 and harassing a kid?
2007-12-27 23:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by c d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has she done with her life? Why do you care what she says?
By bro is 10 years older than me and always thought he was the boss of me. He would tell me to do stuff and I would tell him no and he would get mad and say mean things to me like your sister. One day I just decided to ignore him and I didn`t talk to him for 4 years. He finally got married and we still are not close. But at least we talk now when we see each other.
My parents thought we were both being juvanile, but I felt better and he couldn`t fight with me because when he was there I was elsewhere.
So to answer your question.......make something out of your life by going to college or a trade school and getting a good job or starting your own business.
2007-12-27 23:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If that's not good enough for her, then it'll show in time. Take what she says and use it to push yourself further, but don't rub it back in her face when you do get there. She'll see herself she was wrong. Also talk to her about why she thinks your rude with her. Try to work it out. Ask her what you can do to clean that assumption up.
2007-12-27 23:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by tldarktemplarlt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can really tell yuh is to keep yer grades up... friends really have nothing to do with what yuh are in life... basically yuh just have to prove her wrong. maybe yuh should sit her down and have a serious talk with her. ask her why she says that. and try not to be rude about it. tell her how it makes yuh feel and see if that can make things change. hope i helped!! need anything else just e-mail me at angelfanc420@yahoo.com
2007-12-27 23:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by <3ilovemybullrider<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to show her is to do something with your life. If she's 24 and still acting so immaturely and living at home she's the one with problems, not you.
2007-12-27 23:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by odandme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being the ADULT in the situation and not acting out at her, you show her everytime.
Down the road, being forgiving of her will ultimately give you the benefit of having a sister who loves you.
Sorry it sounds so corny.
2007-12-27 23:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Carol T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun u dont need to do anything to prove her wrong. just be yourself and act like the adult in the situation. keep passing in school and keep going on with ur life.
2007-12-27 23:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by shake it ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to prove anything to her!
She is only saying that because she is mad.
You know that you are doing good so it shouldn't matter when she says that.
2007-12-27 23:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Eula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hot gf
2007-12-27 23:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Theanswer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋