Ive had an absolutely AMAZING boyfriend for a year and a half. Honestly, i never thought id find a guy like him- hes a dream come true and treats me like a princess.
HOWEVER- before him.. i was severely hurt by an ex years ago. When i was 19 and young and stupid... i got pregnant by him.. and lost the baby.. and i never really... even five years later.. have gotten over him. I think it is more of wondering "what could have been" u know?
Well.. i recently broke up with the current b/c i was having feelings for the ex... i needed time to think bc we were getting into engagement territory.. and i knew he deserved better then me having doubts. I took my time.. realized that ill always have the ex on a pedestal.. but.. he will never treat me like the current and.. i know what i want.
I want to make it work with the current- i need to GET OVER the ex once and for all. My question- do i tell the current how i feel? Do i tell him my history and why its hard? or is that selfish?
2007-12-27 15:34:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you managed to find a guy that treats u that good and you want this relationship to go somewhere then show him the same respect and be honest
2007-12-27 16:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only known this guy a short while. You're not really sure if he will wind up being someone sigificant to you over the long run, so it's not necessary to tell that to anyone you're not totally comfortable being that vulnerable with. In time, maybe....and you get to decide when and if that is.
2007-12-27 23:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋