Is love worth all the pain? I've been in love twice (still am) and I've enjoyed it...but it always ends in pain for ME. I'm tired of girls playing with my heart when they don't mean to. I don't blame them, I'm just mad at the situation. Is love really worth breaking my heart again and again?
2007-12-27 15:00:34 · 42 answers · asked by Not done with love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only you can decide if it's worth it. if it takes pain to find "the one" then do you think it's worth it? and are you dating girls that maybe you already know will never be "your one"? because then you are just setting yourself up for a disapointment. don't settle for girlfriends you can live with, wait for the one you can't live without.
2007-12-27 15:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is worth everything and more, with pain there is pleasure we all have been in love and we all know there is the good and there's the bad with love. But i think that love is what you make it, if you want to stop feeling the pain in the end you should take things slow and communicate with your partner and find out your likes and dislikes about them and yourself and remember take care of you b4 you take care of anyone . so if that means that you take a break from love so be it, that is something that YOU need to do for yourself. And remember " IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED THEN NOT TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL"
2007-12-27 15:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Feisty2You 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth getting used. That's what I'm forced to think now. I used to be all optimism and enthusiasm. Of course love is worth it!!!! So callow. I shudder at how green and gullible I was.
I WANT to believe love is worth it. I just don't know who to trust or where to turn. Guys are always breaking their empty promises to me....using my up until there's nothing left. Got what they need and leave me without anything. They'll let me build an emotional investment, and then tear that way, unrequited, unanswered, empty. It hurts so much.
But I'm willing to try. That's what, ultimately, I'm saying to you. Yes, you're going to get hurt again, and again, and again. It's foolish to put yourself up for it willingly. Masochistic and stupid and weak, to hurt yourself. But more foolish still by far to wall yourself away. Because what if one of these times you're afraid of getting hurt, and it's really for real this time.... and you won't know? Well, we never know. But you can you find out if you won't let them in?
So no matter the pain, you can't ever give up hope. I know how hard that is. But there really isn't any other way.
2007-12-27 15:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is yea u keep going through the pain 2 get 2 the one u will fall in love with and marry n neva want to be apart from. it is then u will see that all the pain n the in and out of love was worth it, to reach the right 1. thats what the trip is 4. but hey my opinion but is surely ok 2 take.
2007-12-27 15:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by T-Ruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's not. Maybe you should play a few games and when you find someone you really want to be serious with, maybe you can give it another shot then. For now, play the field. Enjoy yourself. Be honest but if you break some hearts, that's life. Don't focus on love right now.
2007-12-27 15:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your pain. yes love is really worth it,when the right woman walks into your life you will know deep in your heart she is the one! Don't give up,OK?I had the same feelings that you have about love,all i wanted was to be loved and for me to give all my love to someone. and one day it happened, i met the most wonderful man,we got married 3 months later on Valentines Day 02/14/02, almost 6 yrs. later we are just as happy as we were with each other from day one!! so it will happen, think positive!!! Good Luck!!
2007-12-27 15:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by A.F.1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had my heart broken more times than I want to talk about. 2 1/2 years ago the woman of my dreams and wife of 11 years said, I love you, you are a great husband, a good man, etc, etc, BUT I am not in love. It absolutley crushed me. I prayed, I talked with my minister, I went to counciling, I cried. I almost gave up on life and love. Ask me if I would do it again, to love another like I loved her. I have asked myself that question over and over. YES. to love someone unconditionally with all your heart is the greatest gift on earth. When you love that much, do you stand the chance of being hurt? Hell, yes you do. But why would you want to love without giving it your all? I was so afraid to give my heart again and then six months ago I met a lady that loves like I do. We married 2 weeks ago. I dropped the shield that was protecting my heart and handed my heart to her and said, "it's yours, be gentle with it". I think of how God loves us. His love has no reservations. Your's shouldn't either. Good luck.
2007-12-27 15:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is all the medication for sadness though it is ironic and can lead to depression. For it is not planned or reasoned. People get overwhelm when the love is not return back, but they meet other people and move on. In life you will meet Losers and Jerks. But remember that time will do the healing.
2007-12-27 15:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's worth it.
All the pain in the world could not possibly measure up to the happiness you feel when you are truly in love.
2007-12-27 15:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know
Ive been married 2 times
I ve been in a long term relationship ( 8 years)
all of these relationships broke my heart
I dont know if I am willing to try again as I dont want to ever get remarried,
I dont want to live with someone
I dont want to share my $ with anyone
I did marry for love ( the first time) and had a wonderful son by the guy
2007-12-27 15:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋