i'm 17 and i want my parents to trust my boyfriend so bad... but i, or my boyfriend, don't know what else to do. my parents dont trust me alone in a car with him...so they wont let him drive me ANYWHERE... it sucks so bad.... i dont have my license... and he is a very respectable guy... my parents are very over-protective... and i hate it.... all i want is for them to trust him... and us... we havent done anything to show that we are not responsible or trustworthy.... any advice.... im juss holding on by a thread here.... thanx
2007-12-27 15:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your parents are not so old that they do not know what hormones can do. This site is full of statements like: "I did not mean to, but I may be pregnant".
This is not to accuse you or your boyfriend of anything. It is just part of life. Years from now you may have a daughter asking "Why don't my parents trust me and my boyfriend?".
2007-12-27 15:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by hamrrfan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well try having your boyfriend over more or as much as possible for not you but your family. all your parents are thinkin about is...how this guy prolly just wanna get in your pants. h ehas to spend time with your parents so your parents can feel comfy. he should call your mom and ask for advice. he need a relationship with your parents. play the game.
2007-12-27 23:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
try having him over a lot. If they see him and get use to him they will begin to trust him more. And if they see how he acts around u they will begin to have trust. I wouldn't trust someone I didn't no either. Just let them get used to him.
2007-12-27 23:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by questionable 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They're just trying to protect you. It doesn't mean they have anything against either one of you.
2007-12-27 23:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋