Family & Relationships - 27 December 2007

whenever someone asks how she is she always says "ok, i guess" then she like frowns. then the person is like "oh whats wrong?" and shes like "oh its nothing... i guess"
she always does this, no matter what how happy or sad she is! she could be having the best day ever and she always acts as though she has the worst life. whats up with this?

2007-12-27 13:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by going [[nowhere]] fast 5 in Friends

she has hurt my feeling seens the day she could no more hurt me physically...i have two scars in my face that she did to me when i was younger...now that im 16 and she cannot hit me anymore she hurts me with words...i just had a fight with her...we were watching this program of fat kids and i just said well good thing im not one of those kids i weight 6 stone and im happy with it...and she said...you ugly thin or fat it doesnt matter...and you worth nothing you never will its not point for you to go to college anymore you will no gain nothing out of college...i can predict your future and you know where would it be..in the fuc king streets you dont have any other choice...this time she has realy hurt me...and now im extremily depressed im starting to think of killing my self i have done it twice and didnt suceed hope this time i do....i cant take it anymore and i have no one in this fu cking life that loves me or cares about me...what can i do???help....

2007-12-27 13:09:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey guys!

i have an issue with my fiance. first of all, i love him madly. the thing is though, the way he dresses sometimes embarrasses me. sorry for poor spelling. he has a hard time finding pants that fit, so when he bends over to pick something up, well... need i say more? i mention that he might want to wear a belt, or that the only one i want seeing his bum is me, that kind of thing.

keep in mind, his mom died when he was fairly young, 21, and his twin brother died when he was 19. so there was a lot of trauma, not to mention moving halfway across the country to be with family. so he has had a lot of stress and depression to deal with. i know he has been depressed so i have tried not to be a ***** and to be very kind and loving about the issue, for the most part not mentioning it at all.

love is love so i am madly in love with him no matter what he looks like. i will not leave him at all no matte what. but it bothers me some. what should i do?

2007-12-27 13:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my friend what this girl's e-mail address was. (My friend is also a girl.)
I am planning on asking her out through e-mail, cuz I'm too shy to call her, or anything.
Would you think it is "stalkerish" to e-mail her, and say you got it from a friend?

2007-12-27 13:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

form of sex?

2007-12-27 13:05:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is having it on jan 5th and she verbably invited me today while we were at work.
Jan 5th is my birthday and we joked around about it being both of our special days but she also said
oh well if it's your birthday i guess you already have plans so it's okay just forget about it
and i said actually i don't have offical plans yet so i'll have to talk with my parents about it

It's kind of far away and i'm not terribly close with her so she wouldn't be upset if i didn't attend
she invited a few people from our work but i don't know any of them too well either so i would know the bride and one of her brides maids and mabye a handful of co-workers

also, if i do attend would i go to the reception too?
i mean she only invited me a few days before the wedding and wouldn't they already have all of the food and seating planned out by now?

if i do go i'm assuming that it would be propper to get her a wedding gift right?
how much should i spend

2007-12-27 13:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Weddings

And what percent of the time?

My wife climaxes first 99.5% of the time with us. Guess she's selfish in bed -- or knows I'm not going twice!

2007-12-27 13:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was 12

2007-12-27 13:00:19 · 22 answers · asked by amazingtastic 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 12:58:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean from the parents to the siblings. Mother-in-law, Father-in-law, Sister-in-law, Brother-in-law. Why or why not? What do you do to deal with them when your spouse is very, very close with them but you see right through them?

2007-12-27 12:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by New Moon Daughter 6 in Family

must perform and act as maids for the first hour of the party! LOL!
BTW some of us bridesmaids would have had to perform at thier party had we lost!

2007-12-27 12:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-27 12:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so he had a girlfriend when he met me yet he told me he dident. so he played us at da same time. I found out and i told her we call him up and ask what in da world is wrong w/ him thinking he can do that? so he says hes sorry i stop talking to him. Then like a month later he changes his cell number so i pick up he starts talking and me being too nice listens to him. Now he says hes so sorry he wants me back and he says & does da cutest things but i can't trust him. He ask me everyday to be his girlfriend. What should I do? One part of me is telling me to tell him to leave me alone and never talk to me again, but part of me still loves him. What part should i listen to????

2007-12-27 12:52:28 · 88 answers · asked by ♥Darinka♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My GF and I are in love, we have a great relationship and we get along very well. We are contemplating at some point in the near future moving in together, but first things first. I have an issue with her that she does not seem to think is an issue at all...here is the deal. We are together literally 24 hours a day, I sleep at her house, we go out together or with friends, I keep clothes at her house and then go to work from there, she goes to school, etc...The girl is a born flirt...when we go out, I am not one of these needy guys that needs his GF around every second, and she will talk to a guy, she will even point me out and say that is my bf, etc.but there have been times that she exchanges phone numbers, we are both in a college city, so she says, they study the same thing, or they go to the same school, when anyone calls she says "Come out with us as a group if you like but I have a bf like i said and so not interested in a date like I said i have a bf." Is this Cheating?

2007-12-27 12:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when your only 13 how far is like way to far to go with any guy???

2007-12-27 12:52:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 12:48:45 · 24 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm on holiday with my family in Switzerland right now, and my girlfriend's birthday is on January 1st, what do i get? I'm going back to Chicago (she's in Chicago, but goes to a School in Toronto like me. We go to separate boarding schools, one is all Boys (mine, lol) and hers is an all girls school. She went to spend the holidays in Chicago, so I'm going because I want a little more of a break be4 going back to School in the Frozen North...lol.). Anyway, I'm just here (in Switzerland) for 4 days and though I should bring her back something. I'm going to Chicago do some site seeing (been there more than 3 times though...) and was wondering what to get her. She's 15 teen (or will be on the first, I'm 4 months older than her) I don't know, clothes, from Switzerland? My sister is here, she could pick somethings out for her (myself, like most men hate and suck at shopping). I dunno, or should I get her from "Louis Vuitton" in Heathrow..or one of the other "fashion" shops, I dunno, my sister rants on about them...and spends hours in them...everything in them looks the same to me...What do I GET my girlfriend?

PS. Just to make it clear, my 16year old sister (not my 10year old one. Lol.) would be the one picking the clothes. Lol. I suck at that stuff...

2007-12-27 12:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Brayden 5 in Singles & Dating

ok well, im not a virgin but i gave up sex and its been about 3 yrs or so since i have had sex and im thinking about starting to have sex again with my boyfriend, but im really nervous since its been a long time and hes a virgin. but im mostly afraid that its going to hurt, i think my vaginal wall is really small or something because even when i was having sex and i quit for a little bit , it would hurt and bleed a bit the next time i had sex, how do i well...loosen myself up so i wont hurt again or bleed again?

2007-12-27 12:45:24 · 27 answers · asked by Brittany L 1 in Singles & Dating

I know you are suppose to love someone unconditionally for who they are. I do believe I love him. Yet I feel there are things that he needs to change in order for us to move intogether or move on to the next phase of our relationship. We have been together for four years now and I'm ready to settle down. I basically want him to be more responsible with his money and be more cleaner. I ask these things because I feel that these things would turn into huge issues when we move intogether which would cause us to break up. I try to talk to him about these issues, yet whenever I do he gets defensive and angry at me, saying that he doesn't plan on changing and that he shouldn't have to change for me, that he wants to be loved for who he is and be who he is. It's not that I do not love him like I said, but I want more then we have now...I just know that I would be unhappy with the way money was handled and all. Is it wrong for me to ask him those things? Does he have a right to be angry withme

2007-12-27 12:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for any place within 30 miles of New Holstein WI to host my wedding reception. We're having just over 200 guests and I would like it to be nice, but not overly expensive. Fond du Lac, Appleton, Sheboygan, Kiel, Chilton, New Holstein, and anywhere in or near those towns will work great!

2007-12-27 12:43:09 · 1 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3 in Weddings

i dont know what to do my sister is always sneaking out of the house, drinks, smokes, and parties alot and my dad has no clue. my dad is really stricked and if he ever found out it would be really bad. i hate that my little sister does these things and i dont know what to do. sometimes at night i wake up and my sister is gone and im always scared somethings going to happen. i found out she took a pregnancy test. please help me i dont know what to do

2007-12-27 12:41:57 · 120 answers · asked by *mexicanprincess* 2 in Family

Ok, I drove past this girl who was standing on the sidewalk. She was on her phone and she and I made eye contact for several seconds until I passed. I knew something was there. She was all right. Anyway, because of the eye contact I turned my car around and drove back past her. She seemed like 17 or 18 and I am around the same age. Anyway, thinking of what Will Smith would do, I shouted out of my car door window, "Hey baby! Can I have ur number?" She just had this sort of shocked look on her face and turned around and walked away a little bit. What did I do wrong? I know this is what Will Smith would have done? I think I looked fine. I know she seemed to have been giving me eye contact.

2007-12-27 12:41:55 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 12:41:45 · 22 answers · asked by Alistair 6 in Singles & Dating

do you think?
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2007-12-27 12:41:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been in a relationship for 2 years and everytime we have an argument, I always have to be the bigger person and say sorry. He's 24 years old and I am 20 years old and he has never been in a relationship.H e has never been man enough to say sorry even when he is wrong. Is it okay to sometimes be the better person and apologize when I am not even wrong?

2007-12-27 12:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by aleshabooboo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-27 12:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old.Over 2 years ago I met this guy online & we started talking.Everything went great.We are from two different countries though.We have met up with each other and spent a couple months together in each others countries.He is great.We love each other so so much and I know it's real.Neither of us have a problem with this long distance relationship, until we can figure out a way to be together properly. But I feel my mom isn't that supportive of it. She hasn't said anything bad about it, but she doesnt really talk about him much. and when i mention him coming over or me going to see him, i get the feeling like shes holding something back, that she doesnt want to say to me. But i already know what shes thinking. Shes worried about the long distance and scared for me incase i get hurt in the long run. I hate how she looks at this relationship, because she doesnt consider our feelings towards each other. and it makes me feel insecure about myself. how do i think more positive?

2007-12-27 12:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

thankss

2007-12-27 12:35:56 · 39 answers · asked by Perfectlygoodheart:) 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.
I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit before s, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute

2007-12-27 12:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-27 12:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Munga Kakodes 1 in Marriage & Divorce