k so he had a girlfriend when he met me yet he told me he dident. so he played us at da same time. I found out and i told her we call him up and ask what in da world is wrong w/ him thinking he can do that? so he says hes sorry i stop talking to him. Then like a month later he changes his cell number so i pick up he starts talking and me being too nice listens to him. Now he says hes so sorry he wants me back and he says & does da cutest things but i can't trust him. He ask me everyday to be his girlfriend. What should I do? One part of me is telling me to tell him to leave me alone and never talk to me again, but part of me still loves him. What part should i listen to????
2007-12-27 12:52:28 · 88 answers · asked by ♥Darinka♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NoNoNo .. Get rid of him.
I am speaking to you from experience .. If you take him, he knows that you will always take him back. He knows you are weak.
GURL, be strong and move on. There are plenty of great guys out there who know how to treat a woman right, and respect a woman.
Here are some songs by Alicia Keys to listen to:
A Womans Worth(play that for him)
AND ... Lessons Learned(new album)
Ommm Stay strong .. AND please .. Do not take him back ... That kinda behaviour is garbage .. Why do you think he is running back to you .. Cause things out there are BORING right now, but when they get better .. He will be up to his old tricks again!!!!
2007-12-27 12:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
OMG what is there to love about a jerkwad like this, sure go ahead take him back have his baby and live happily ever after while he is gone for days at a time working with orphans ,dump the jerk a get a guy that will like you for you and not half the neighbourhood girls,old habits die hard this gut will not change your just a number to him
2007-12-27 13:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by big nickel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he thinks he's a player or pimp and what does that meran you are to HIM thats right so go to school find a job you like expand the limits of your world and find someone thats not been hypnotized by the pimps of the world you could end up with a child by this person and what if he' out all night with somme one else he's a manho so find just a regular guy who works or goes to school maybe even church and dont settle for the scraps in life you find your special person and love them all the way OK an olde dude
2007-12-27 12:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm you can forgive him.. but dont trust him just because hes cute toward you..make him earn that back and take as much time as you need to do that. he really screwed up by cheating on you and you deserve better soo keep him around for a while but dont like officially take him back or anything. make him prove that hes sorry and hell be loyal from here on out..when youre sure that he is then take him back if you still want him and give him a little trust back..if he doesnt come through or put the effort into fixing himself then toss his sorry ***
2007-12-27 13:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by little miss sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you want to be cheated on again by someone who's got an established habit of doing so, start looking for a different boyfriend. You can do better. He's not that committed to a single relationship with you from the sound of it.
2007-12-27 12:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know you can't trust him - why is this something you're even considering?!?! I swear, I do not understand you women at all. You know he's a player, you know he's been unfaithful in the past, have no reason whatsoever to think he'll be any different this time. Have some self respect and get him out of your life.
2007-12-27 12:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by UNITool 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, it only makes since for Ms Perfect to be searching for Mr. Perfect. Just kidding honey! If you think he is sincere, proceed with caution and guard your heart. Don't give anymore than you think you are worth and don't get used. Young men can be very deceiving. Then again, maybe he realizes what he would be losing. PLEASE proceed with caution. This world has enough broken hearts who get mentally, emotionally and physically abused. If he won't treat you right now, what will he be doing in 10 yrs. if you make it that long? lol from someone who knows
2007-12-27 13:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you can accept that you will never, and I do mean NEVER be the only woman in his life, than go for it. If you want to be treated with respect, and be the only woman for a gut that loves you, keep looking, cuz that is never going to be this guy!
2007-12-27 12:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by ladyscootr 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. A man who cheats on you cannot be trusted. If you forgive him, you'll only reinforce that you're a woman who can be cheated on. Whether it's a week later or a decade later, it's pretty close to 100% likely that he will do it again.
2007-12-27 12:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Stefanie 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Which part do you miss? The lying cheating part? or the sneaky sly wanting you back part? The man you thought he was actually wasn't him at all... So, is it the "idea"of him, cause clearly it isn't HIM that you miss! Had he been true to you - you wouldn't be here asking this question!!!
2007-12-27 12:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by T. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋