My ex and I broke up a long time ago, about 2 years, but we have maintained our contact with each other. recently she wanted to get back with me but i already found someone. Now that my relationship didn't work out with the new girl im trying to get back with my ex bc the feeling never went away. My ex is asking for time bc she is bitter as to what i did bc i went out with someone else and dissed her. She wants some time to think about it since her nursing exam is coming up and she wants to get her studying and family issues taken care of first. what should i do?
2007-12-27 11:05:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a girl who dumped me two years ago, but still came back here and there to see me but never wanted me back.
2007-12-27 11:14:31 · update #1
Just give her time and reassure her that you are there for her and will respect her wishes.
2007-12-27 11:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sippy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be patient with her and respect her time to get ready for her nursing exam and to take care of her family issues. She may be hesitant because you did cheat on her the first time. You need to think about why you did and ask yourself what has changed about you to keep you faithful this time. She also needs time to think about that also. When you get a chance you should talk about what happened. You need to be completely honest with her if you want to gain her trust and respect again.
2007-12-27 11:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Inspired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try. If is was meant to be it will be. Don't press the issue, if she is interested in doing something about the relationship she will. If not let her go and treasure the memory. A relationship built on the experience you have described is a recipe for disaster.
2007-12-27 11:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Zack V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude forget her. She is playing games. Stop trying. Stop calling her and watch how fast she comes around. The question is do you want some one who plays games like that. For me the answer would be no drama mama's. They will suck the life out of you like a friggin vampire. Does that sound bitter?
2007-12-27 11:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no this is harsh but ive been in this situation b4 and its time to put the realationship to rest if you were really that good together you wouldnt of spilt up in the first place whats the point in pro- longing the pain you no you can move on youve done it b4 theres other people out there go out and get one of them and leave this relationship as the past and a good experience
2007-12-27 11:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under age 30, go out with others and have fun. You won't be young forever. If you are over 30, sit down with your ex and talk it over. You didn't say whether this is your ex-spouse or ex-lover or what, and whether there are children involved. This should make a big difference on your decisions.
2007-12-27 11:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Tiger Hawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean what should you do? The woman has already told you to give her some time, so that's what you do. Or better yet, why not take some time for you. Be happy being single why do you HAVE to be in a relationship?
2007-12-27 11:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by phree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sounds like she is just a rebound......you didn't want her when you had someone else and now that you are alone you are coming up with this crud about the "feeling never going away".......yah right.
However, IF you really do want her back.......give her time...
show her you respect her.
2007-12-27 11:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient! Be a good listener and don't push anything. Think of this as a trial period. If you perform well as a friend, perhaps her negative feelings will mellow and she will fall in love with you. She needs someone who is supportive, kind and giving - not needy.
2007-12-27 11:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by whatzername? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and let her get her life on an even keel. She really can't focus on a relationship at this time, especially one that comes with built in distrust.
2007-12-27 11:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that. Just because it didn't work out with the other girl. Then she'll just be your rebound girl. DONT. Find someone new, someone interesting that you know nothing of. Have some fun and fall for someone new!
2007-12-27 11:08:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋