Why do people turn gay?

Question

it was said that a woman and man being together was right and normal. But i don't understand why people turn gay, is it because they can't find the right one, is it because they are waiting for love and love never really found them?

Answer 1

No one turns gay, they just are. You don't choose who you're attracted to or who you fall in love with. Your question is incredibly ignorant.

Answer 2

Being gay is not a conscious choice that people make...they're born that way. I have many friends who are gay, and it was absolutely not a "choice" for them. The pain and suffering some of them went through when they came out of the closet...no one would ever choose to go through that. It's been said by SOME that a man and a woman are the only "right" pairing. If you're going with the Bible reference on this one, then look at the passage so many conservatives harp on that supposedly says being gay is wrong. Then, turn to the next page. Literally, the next page begins discussing how each and every person on Earth is a child of God and should be accepted and loved as they are. Being gay is not wrong, or something that is chosen. Did you or I CHOOSE to be straight? No, you and I were born that way. The same thing is true of gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgenders.

Answer 3

well, it appears that some people are just born with it. Some people adapt it. For those that adapt it... it seems that they al have a variety of reasons. some feel hurt and betrayed by the opposite sex or they want to venture new waters.
I must add that those that are born that way.... my heart goes out to them. because they are rediculed by society and the truth is that God made them just the same. They have the same blood running through their veins and have the same number of bones too. God Loves all his children. We are is his creation. He condenms homsexuality but He loves the person. I know that it is hard to understand because I ask myself why do naturally gay people exist? It is a mystery even to scientist. But again, it does not exclude the fact that God Loves us all.

Answer 4

I don't believe people are born "gay"
(I do believe some are born evil tho').

Attraction to the opposite sex is un-natural, in fact the original term for attraction to the opposite sex is "unnatural affections".
(I call it perversion because they are just horndogs).

Birth is a natural thing, unnatural and natural don't work together, no matter what the chromazones of the DNA are.

Often people will turn to the opposite sex because it is less emotional to just have sex and not worry about being attached or feel obligated to fulfill the emotional needs of the other person. It is just fulfilling self indulgence sexually.

I have a hard time understanding homosexuality because I would not be able to just seek sexual gratification without being emotionally involved, and I have a thing for girls only.

It is also a matter of integrity...but I am probably unique to most people.

In ancient times people that were caught having same sex acts were put to death, partially to keep younger people that had not developed self control or discipline towards lust and to also to keep deceases from spreading..
Homosexuality was considered a sin and still is. It is also written that a nation that allows it is cursed for not putting to death to those that committed unnatural affections.

Males that have the strength and disapline to avoid such perverted lusts are the only ones to earn the title of being a "Man".
I believe that once a person has experienced a sexual lustful act, that they can be laiden with it like a burden; in other words, it is like an addictive drug, because of the chemicals released in the brain during the act, they have developed an addictive desire for it. (they get a rush from it)

Another thought:
we live in a time where chemicals that mimic estrogen are in food, medications, skin and hair products that alter the hormones in the body; paraben and laural sulfate are two of these chemicals, they are in mosts soaps, shampoos, lotions,etc. Many of these chemicals end up in our water supply, which we drink, cook and clean with.

Also beef and poutry often contain hormone altering chemicals, because corporations and ranchers use hormone additives to produce larger livestock.

Males today have less testosterone(male hormone) than men twenty years ago, and females have more testosterone than women twenty years ago.
Males with the absence of testosterone have more estrogen(female hormone), this could explain why opposite sex attraction has become so common and open.

I have often wondered if it was a government conspiricy to make it easier to keep people under control and make the men weak and non -aggressive so that they will not retaliate to having thier freedom stolen from them. Men are weaker and more passive now compared to past decades.

I also believe that men should not consume soy products and women should not consume whey products.

I am a health and fitness fanatic and I enjoy feeling like I am super human so I have always kept a special diet that keeps my testosterone levels higher than normal, and also blocks estrogen. I also don't use products that contain paraben or laural sulfates.

Answer 5

People dont TURN gay

Its in their nature

I'm Bisexual

But I swing more towards girls,

I didnt choose to be this way, But Hey, I am

And if anyones turns gay because of these reasons, well they're faking themselves.

Answer 6

People don't turn gay, they're born gay. Sometimes they try to hide it, or they're afraid of it, but ultimately it catches up to them.

Answer 7

people dont turn gay they are born gay

Answer 8

People have different reasons. Domestic violence was a reason for one person I know.