Family & Relationships - 7 October 2007

I was downstairs on the couch, and he was in the bed.
When I went upstairs to say again that I don't want to cuddle and invited him to watch the movie with me, (Good Will Hunting) he said, "I've seen it 30 times, you go and watch it."

So I did.

Now, my question is this: Our therapist told me that I shouldn't do anything out of guilt and not to feel guilty for saying no, but it's difficult to do.

Should my husband eventually start to comply with the therapists suggestions at some point? Because it is driving me away. It's been a month since it was suggested.

2007-10-07 09:01:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my g/f plays on the varsity soccer team and she's doing this on a sprained ankel, i really cant stop her from playing that but should i stop her from playing a pick up basketball game. she sometimes will play basketball with me and some friends and im telling her no so that she doesn't risk further injury and she's being stubborn about it and insisting that she plays. so wat should i do i guess is wat im asking, thanks.

2007-10-07 08:59:37 · 1 answers · asked by joedirt 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife cheated on me. I am a torn man. It is something that I can't comprehend. I went to COSTCO with a friend to get some food for a little business meeting. My wife called me and told me my friend had stopped by I said Id be home soon. SHe gave me 4 calls in thirty minutes asking where i was at. When I came home one my friend was sitting on the couch. when the business meeting was over and the guest left my house, I went in the room to make love to my wife, I put my hand on her shoulder and she started freaking out. Thats when I noticed hicky marks on her chest and a bruise on her leg and her lips were chapped. I played it off and took of her panties and they were full of ***. SHe did some stop drop and roll **** and started yelling like I was committing domestic violence, I never touched her. I left the room and calmed down. I called the dude who was at the house with her he didnt answer so went to his house and socked him in the mouth as I stood over him ready to stomp his head.

2007-10-07 08:59:17 · 23 answers · asked by Athol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the Past Couple weeks it has been rough with my Girlfriend. She goes in these moods where she just wants to be alone. She says she thinks were spending too much time together. We used to spend almost everyday together so we cut it down to 3 a week. For the past 2 weeks she has been really stressed out about school and work and other things. When She stresses she gets really down. it takes a toll on the relationship and it seems like sometimes she just doesn't care and it makes me feel like crap. I now she cares else we wouldn't be together but her being upset all the time and stressing out isn't helping. When she isn't stressing everything seems perfect. I just want things to go back to normal. What if she continues to act like she doesn't care... should I break it off?

2007-10-07 08:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by frankcala 1 in Singles & Dating

my problems:

1) i said i made out with two guys named roger and kyle when i didn't. and my friend was with me and she knows i didn't make out with them. i have to keep all of my other friends (sarah, jen, katie, and a whole bunch of other people) from telling the girl who went with me when i didn't make out with those two guys (her name is jessie...same name as me) the problem is jessie is friends with sarah, jen katie, and all those other people and i'm afraid they'll get on the subject. i already told them not to tell her but i don't trust them.

2) i play soccer and have never scored a goal but i told my friend becca who lives in rhode island (i live in ct) that i score a ton of goals all the time and i'm really good at soccer. she's coming down to ct this weekend and she'll be hanging out with my soccer friends with me and chillin with my parents who know i've never scored a goal. if she mentions anything about me scoring a lot i'm basically dead.

yep. i'll add the rest later.

2007-10-07 08:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by Jess 3 in Friends

so my girl is gonna take off for a vacaten next week and she packed a bunch of reely short dresses an stuff. She says its just ger and the gurls but my hunch tells me that theres somethin more. I mean, who brings a string bakini to England? Anyways, I think im gonna dump her like a sack of patatoes.

2007-10-07 08:55:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ghimraab 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 08:53:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i used to go with this boy and we stayed up hours on the fone at night with each other.One day we brought up sex and we even thought about having sex but i told him when i go to the doctor they are going to make me pea in a cup and that will determine if i had sex or not. then my mom would find out. but he said that they cant find out from that and ive been wondering if thats true.

2007-10-07 08:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by Lady'D' 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am ordering monogram stickers for our wedding invitations, I'm not sure what letter to use. I'm guessing the first letter of HIS last name?

2007-10-07 08:51:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-07 08:50:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't stand this.
I don't understand, i never get to do anything fun. The fair was this week and ALL my friends hung out with guys, and every weekend they come to school and tell me about all the guys they meet, and i don't understand why guys never talk to me. it hurts me so bad, because i'm 14 and i've never had a REAL boyfriend, and i want one, and no guy gives me the time of day, but ALL my friends get attention but me, they've all had their first kiss, except me. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG?
am i that bad, i mean i feel left out of everything, it's not fair.

2007-10-07 08:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by a 3 in Singles & Dating

im 2 shy 2 do nefin abwt it? i dint lyk him @ 1st bt nw i do bt he dnt tlk 2 me or nefin nw! wht do i do

2007-10-07 08:49:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or if not, then what?

2007-10-07 08:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by CMW 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my algebra 2 class
he won't stop staring at me!!!!!!!!!!!!
everytime i look his way he'll just stare! or he will turn away so quickly! even when hes talking to his friends he will turn around and look my way!
he'll also get up the same time i do to get tissue or sharpen pencil.
and he'll even leave the class sometimes if i do like if i need to go to tha bathroom or get water!!!!!
help is he a stalker!!!!?? dang im scared lol

2007-10-07 08:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Singles & Dating

Alot of guys in my class stare or look down really fast then look back up. I tend to catch them tohugh, Why do they do this?

2007-10-07 08:45:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071006/ap_on_fe_st/odd_wal_mart_wedding

I wouldn't. What about you?

2007-10-07 08:40:45 · 17 answers · asked by S 7 in Weddings

Ever since i told my best friend that i was in love with this guy, she keeps talking about him and flirting with him and now im pretty sure he likes her more than me and its tearing me apart. what do i do? Should i say anything at all? please help!

2007-10-07 08:40:07 · 19 answers · asked by SilentScreams 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i was waching some vids on youtube, and i somehow ended up waching about this girl who died from cancer of some sort. and i wached like three vids of her, rly sad. and i dont know i just felt so sad, then on teh last one i wached at the verry end it said she was born on the same day as me! isnt that wierd? i dont normally wach vids like that eaither. but its rly sad i wish i could have met her. oh well. *tear*

2007-10-07 08:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by failurebydesign 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are REALLY controlling, all i wana do is go out on the train to a town about 20 mins away, every weekend.
Got loads of friends there.
What i want it to be able to say that I can go out when i want, because i have that right.

At what age do you get this independance?
thanks for help.
I am 15 by the way.

2007-10-07 08:32:03 · 33 answers · asked by barbedwireribbons 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 08:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need help. He is 20. It was the first time in my life I felt so right. I felt he was the person i want. I knew it was not proper so I wasn't very initiative. But we had some good time together for like a year. I had to leave him to go to another place to live because I thought this thing could't go anywhere, he knew it too. I haven't keep in touch with him much. But before I lose him completely, I realize that this is a lifetime chance. Should I give him away completely. Can I take any action. (p.s. he is latin i am not)

2007-10-07 08:27:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In your working day would you say you flirt with the opposite sex?

2007-10-07 08:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by skaska 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know it's an age-old question, BUT.. here's some background: she's very focused on her body and weight - to the point of distraction. She won't eat meals with us - she has her own special food and special times to eat, exercises compulsively, is 52 and still shops in the "junior" section (you know, short skirts, low cut tops, push up bras, the whole bit). She loves drama, and creates it when she can't find it. She doesn't have anything good to say about me, doesn't spend time w/our two young girls unless it's a holiday or she's trying to impress someone else that she's a great grandma, doesn't clean her house, is not at all dependable (showed up 1.5 hours late to my daughter's 1st bday party), etc. My husband wishes it were different, but has accepted that she just isn't going to change. Can we slowly just sever ties? She's not a good influence on my girls (always talking about weight and calories), and she promises to do things w/them and then doens't show.

2007-10-07 08:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live with bf, have lived here about a year. Moved an hour away form my family and friends to be with him. Heres the deal. I don't have a license, and if I did it wouldn't matter anyway. No way to buy a car. I did have a job, but picking me up and taking me to work conflicted with his work so I was constantly late. Well, he works 20 hours a a week, and basically just gets to sit on his butt all day works as a computer tech. He also goes to school, online classes right now. I am enrolled fulltime online classes too, so yes I stay home all day. But..... I'm expected to do everything, . I clean the house everyday, he leaves his dishes pop cans .laundrymat-i do them, than have to put them away On weekends, he sleeps til 5 at night. i dont mind it most days. i cook or we don't eat. But even when we go to the store, i have to make the list up,than put them away right now there is 6 trash bags in the kitchen.i just want a lil help! if i mention it, he says im nagging

2007-10-07 08:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by cnhand84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

our first anniversary is getting close and i dont know what to do me and my husband drive a truck together and we are together 24/7 i cant go shopping alone i dont even go into a truck stop alone what can i do for him for our anniversary something that he wont ever forget?

2007-10-07 08:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by don & robin e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you look for in a guy personality wise and phisically?

2007-10-07 08:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by Sh00ting_St@r! 4 in Singles & Dating

in which we discussed what it meant to have children and a marraige,i thought marraige was about two independent individuals that partner and nurture each other and help with the other's growth,to my father it is an obligation,i thought one should only have kids if one so desires it and really wants to love and nurture those kids,my father again sees it as an obligation so i said you shouldn't have kids if thats all they are to you, and he says '**** happens' now does this very much sound like he has said that his 'decision' or lack thereof to have children was a complete accident and mistake and wasn't planned for or is my imagination being funny?

2007-10-07 08:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm married to a guy that I love to pieces, and I have 2 young girls that I stay home with. So why do I feel lonely? Why am I always hoping men will notice me -not for an affiar, but just to be noticed? What's up with that?

2007-10-07 08:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my fiance more than life, but he doesn't get along with my 14 year old son, and I think we may be headed for a train wreck because even though my son is no angel, he is my son, and I am the only parent he has ever had. I feel like I'm choosing between my fiance and my son. I guess I know the answer, but I want to get your thoughts.

2007-10-07 08:18:21 · 22 answers · asked by Kitten S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-07 08:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by C-DOG 3 in Marriage & Divorce