Family & Relationships - 7 October 2007

My bestfriend is crazy in love with her boyfriend!! They have been going out, on and off for a year. Here lately he hasn't been talk to her or even loking her way, and has been hanging with other girls. Well he told me that he doesn't like her any more but is to chicken to break it off, and is want for her to break up with him!! So should i tell her what he said and what do i say??

2007-10-07 09:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it gets me SO frustrated. because i want a job, but my dad is the only person that drives in our 4-person family so i cant get a ride to a job, plus im only 14 so not many people hire a 14 year old. and the stores that i can walk to only hire like 16+. i need a new cell phone because mine is broken, but i cant get any money! and im so ******* frustrated. dont say "your only 14, just concentrate on school for now" or any dumb **** because no, i need money.

2007-10-07 09:47:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband has been in prison for 15 yrs. He's doing 25 to life. We have a daughter but out of the goodness of my heart have been taking my daughter to see him for those 15 yrs. (my daughter is 15) So, pretty much he's been locked up her whole life. We now only go to see him twice a year. He blames me for him not having a relationship with her. My daughter doesn't ask for him, he's never been in her life. I have raised her by myself.
I am tired of making the drive (2 hours each way to see him). I am totally drained out with his situation and his family who live in the east coast don't come to visit either. Help

2007-10-07 09:46:36 · 29 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyf will sit with his hands down his pants while watching t.v, on computer, whatever! he does this in the house constantly and even when his parents are around which I am mortified by! Why do men do this??!!!!!

2007-10-07 09:44:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a not very nice relationship,i gave my husband so many chances but he never change its all to do with drink,his abusive and violent,last thing he done was still money from my mum when she was here on holidays,he is inside and court is tomorrow one part of me dont want him back,but if he does not serve time and turn up what should i do???????Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-07 09:42:02 · 16 answers · asked by teresa 68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

doesn't grab all your money, doesn't make you do housework....Wouldn't this be Heaven on earth? Be honest, men, don't try to impress the local girls with your answer.

2007-10-07 09:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by americanhero_aa 2 in Singles & Dating

The physically attractive women always seem repulsed by me and I wonder if it's just a coincidence or is it something that I do on a consistent basis that scares them off?

2007-10-07 09:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It all started when i went to my bff jaclyn's birthday slumber party.And she has REALLY COOL best friends.A funny one,calm quiet one,the one to ask for advice and me,the hyper one.And i have friends that all like the same things,IT'S GETTING OLD!anyway,which would you rather have,A.really different friends or B. friends who like the same things?

2007-10-07 09:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by Nelly :D 5 in Friends

I want to know if there are any tips maybe websites or anything so i can be prepared when she wants to have sex. Cause i am inexperienced

2007-10-07 09:25:28 · 14 answers · asked by Benjamin 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems like whenever I am alone and not with one of my parents guys will stare at me more and are more likely to approach me. also if i am out with my friends then it is alot more also...why is that?? is this true? o and im 15. so does that mean when i get my drivers license in a month and will be alone much more often that more guys will approach me and check me out and make it more obvious??? help.

2007-10-07 09:22:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married nearly 4 years. For the past several years we have hosted his family for Christmas. Last year we also hosted his family for Thanksgiving.

This year I would like to host my family for Thanksgiving and host his family for Christmas. He is insisting that we need to as BOTH families to come for Thanksgiving. We have a decent sized home but that would simply be too much. I can't do both at the same time. I don't think crowding people into a space is a very pleasant experience.

Am I wrong to ask him to leave his family out? We have not included my family for years so I think this is only fair. Opinions?

For the record:
our family (hubby me and the kids) has 7 people plus two soon to be spouses totaling 9.

his family has 7 total people

my extended family has 12 people if they all come.

27 people??

2007-10-07 09:21:54 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer D 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy that I really like but hes confusing me. I'm 20, he's 21, and we are have talked on MSN for 2 years. Finally, a couple weekends ago we met in person, and since then we talk quite often and see each other at least once each week. He has also never tried anything sexual with me.
Well, last night before he left my house (we were just watching a movie) , he kissed me goodnight. Just a peck, but it was cute. Anyway, he kept saying how he didn't want to leave because he was having so much fun with me. Also, before he left he asked if I wanted to hang out tomorrow. I said yes and for him to call me after his football games if he still wants to hang out. Well today rolls around and he never called. I briefly talked to him on MSN(he initiated conversation tho) & invited him over but he said he would love to but hes too tired from his games and put a sad face. How do I know if he's really interested? I really like this guy. Any insight is appreciated. Plz be honest, I can handle!

2007-10-07 09:21:07 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle M 1 in Singles & Dating

THe town i live in sucks, there is nothign to do and everything closes down by 7. I really want to show her that i care about her. Some of my friends suggested the beach?

2007-10-07 09:20:41 · 23 answers · asked by nombre aqui 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly people alawys mistake me for being older.
&' it's flattering sometimes and other times it's just crazy. I am 13 years old and often people mistake
me from being 15 or 16.

I don't wear any slutty clothes. I am a jeans type of
girl and sometimes I get a lot of unwanted attention.

Like guys that are 17 or 16 that age range come up
to me and try to talk to me.What should I do?

2007-10-07 09:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by Laurie S 1 in Friends

Been dating an awesome guy for the past 6 months. Recently we decided to back off a little and slow down, but nothing really changed.... we still hung out all the time, acted like a couple in public, etc.

Recently he said he wanted to spend a lot more time togehter, so we did... for a week. Then he backed off completely and just called every other day or so. I assumed he was no longer interested. Yesterday I saw him out and he was excited and happy to see me and started acting like a couple again.

I told him I was confused, and he said he just doesnt' want a serious relationship. Basically, he is not dating anyone else, but wants me available as a girlfriend when the occasion calls for it... he needs a date, wants to hook up, wants to hang out, etc, but without the committment of actually having a girlfriend or being in a relationship. He is not seeing anyone else, that I am positive of... he just wants to play with his friends and not be tied down.

2007-10-07 09:14:35 · 20 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I met this guy online through a friend. She lives in another state (where I am originally from) and I am away at school. The guys asked for some pics so I took some. Which one should I send (if any...) Please help! Thanks :)

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2007-10-07 09:14:28 · 33 answers · asked by peachy 1 in Singles & Dating

has anyone been, treated so bad by someone you loved so much,that you no longer trust men,or have a dislike for them,he made me trust him,and he hurt me why do men have to make my life hell.

2007-10-07 09:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by micky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for 8 months to a great man. We are very young, I am 24 he is 21. We do not have kids and I am not expecting. When we got married he was supposed to take a semester off from college while we could get everything settled. I am done with school. Well we recently moved and I am in a pretty decent job but he hasn't been able to go back to school because instead of taking a semester off he dropped oud and owes some fees. He is very depress because he wants to go back and I told him I would help to get him back paying the fees and everything. He thinks that life is not fair because many of his friends do not have to work and can go to school while their parents pay their bills but he is from a low middle class family, He works since he is 16. He has gotten very depress for that and because his mom lives 400 miles away. He is not the same, depress all the time and even when he says that he loves me so much, he thinks I cannot love him because nobody can. What do I do?

2007-10-07 09:12:34 · 14 answers · asked by dianndeltol 2 in Marriage & Divorce

THere is this weird thing on my ear. It pussing and stuff and my mom says its cuz i look at girly stuff on the internet

2007-10-07 09:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by Ghimraab 2 in Singles & Dating

What's the best way to get a boy to like you? i mean. if you really like them.. but they don't like you.. what's the best way without being too obsessive?

xo

2007-10-07 09:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by SmexiiGirrl 1 in Singles & Dating

you drove 50 miles to see your parents and your dad spent all his time at your brothers helping him do his decking , fair enough i dont expect him to drop everything cause i am going to visit them , he spent all day there , came home for his tea and then went back there in the dark , you cant do decking in the dark ,i couldnt go and help them as my 4 kids would have been in the way , i see my parents every couple of months and my brother lives near them and sees them every day , i am really pissed off about this, would you be pissed ??xx

2007-10-07 09:08:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in eighth grade, and I've liked this guy for almost a month.

All I have with him is lunch and last period English.

If anyone wants more details, I'm okay with questions...I just want to know what people think. Thanks in advance!

2007-10-07 09:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsay 3 in Singles & Dating

sorry im having like a brain freeze and cant think of anything besides the usual stuff....skating, swimming, mall, movies, chuck e cheese e just went to cause we hadnt been there in YEARS and it was fun stuff....but we really wanna go soemwhere we havent been in a while or cant think of right now.......but yeah and i live in missouri and not by the beach so idk....any ideas?

2007-10-07 09:07:27 · 3 answers · asked by HiGhLiGhTs 1 in Friends

what should i do to him, in school or after school.

2007-10-07 09:06:12 · 16 answers · asked by Sports luver 2 in Singles & Dating

Well yesterday was my highschools homecoming dance. A few days ago I finally got the courage to ask a girl to the dance with me, and she said yes. She's in 10th grade I'm in 11th. Well she is very pretty and attractive so thats why it was kind of hard for me to ask her, but whatever.

Anyway at the dance, we met up and she started talking to all her friends, while I knew none of them. Some of them were nice enough to introduce themselves to me and I did the same back.

So about 40mins into the dance, my date pulls me to the side and she says "hey, can you give me a little space." i was like yeah sure. In my head I had no idea what was going on. I didn't talk to her the rest of the night and just kind of chilled wiht people in my own grade. My question is why would she do that??

2007-10-07 09:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 09:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Friends

i have been dating this man for a little over 5 months. he has become curious and has asked me about my sexual past. i told him (mind you, it has been 5 total partners, including him and i am 24yrs old; he is 31yrs old) and he is really upset with me. he even went as far to say he is disappointed in me.

i love this man and have cried for the last half hour straight and am fighting back the tears now. he even heard me cry over the phone and i asked him "what now?" and he said he didn't know. . .

men: what would you do in a similar situation if your gf told you news like this?

women: have you had this happen to you?

men & women: do you think he has reason to not trust me and/or be disappointed in me? anything else to add?

please answer with real thoughtful statements; i am ailing here.

additional info: he is peruvian, he is a bit jealous and not very trustworthy, but he claims to trust me. . .at least he did.

2007-10-07 09:04:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a man that is 1/2 mexican and 1/2 white has a baby with a girl that is 1/2 mexican and 1/2 white...what will the baby be?

It cant be whole white nor mexican and it cant be 1/2 because its whole so what is it?

2007-10-07 09:02:39 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a boyfriend but I am beginning to like another guy. The feeling is mutual. We are beginning to get to know each other but nothing physical. I am just exploring if maybe this new guy is the one for me. Is this considered cheating?

2007-10-07 09:02:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-07 09:01:25 · 35 answers · asked by Christy 2 in Singles & Dating