THe town i live in sucks, there is nothign to do and everything closes down by 7. I really want to show her that i care about her. Some of my friends suggested the beach?
2007-10-07 09:20:41 · 23 answers · asked by nombre aqui 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you allowed to cook on the beach? If so, it might be fun to cook hotdogs. Find out if she prefers going with another couple. Some girls like others around to liven up the conversation when on a first date with a new guy. Have fun!
2007-10-07 09:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First pack a nice picnic basket, make sure to include stuff like "sparkling grape juice" (I am guessing that you are under-age) make "finger sandwiches" without the crust, include grapes, crackers, fancy cheese (no velveeta slices) put in the finer things in life. Bring along a CD player and a Barry White CD or equivalent. Then take her to a Cemetery right before dark. Don't tell her where you are going. Odds are that at first it wont bother her, but as it gets dark, she will need comforting. If she is the "girl next door type" try another area. Call her mother and ask her (on the down-low) where her favorite place to go is. As long as it isn't somewhere corny, you will be in like flint (I don't know what that means) Believe it or not the Cemetery thing has worked for me before. If she is Goth, you will be the "MAN" so to speak. Don't be AVERAGE, that is the kiss of death. Also, don't act like that you are love sick. Girls had rather be involved with someone who could care less one way or the other. How many girls do you know who date complete jerks? Girls like attitude, why? I don't know. But they do....Not all girls are the same though so play it by ear until you figure out her type...Good luck....
2007-10-07 09:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by drenchzgrinch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure where you live ... but the fall weather allows for some good date ideas. Also don't know how old you are ....
**Go pick apples at an orchard -- come home and bake an apple pie together (from scratch).
**Find a fall train ride or fall colors tour -- bundle up, keep each other warm ... very nice
**Take a walk -- the beach, the woods (be sure you're safe), around a park
**Do you have lots of parks in your town? Go on a nighttime park raid and visit however many you can. Swing or go down the slide at every one.
**Pumpkin carving ... go pick our your own pumpkins ... at a store or go pick your own at a farm/orchard. Carve pumpkins together. Maybe carve her name in one? Silly but cute!
**Go out for ice cream ... never a bad idea
2007-10-07 09:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Chicka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The beach is very nice to enjoy the waves and use the time to share thoughts and dreams. But you two can seriously cook a meal together, from shopping to cleaning up.
One memorable date (or three) I had with a man was at a cemetary where we went looking for the oldest headstone or the one with the coolest sayings. One of those times we discovered a long-lost relatives buried place and were able to share it with family.
2007-10-07 09:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the next town over and get icecream, or go to see a movie, or bowling, or something you guys both like. have a movie marathon at your house! thats always a blast. OUr town is basically the same way, so whenever I go out, it's either to the town next to ours, or we book a whole day doing stuff in town before everything shuts down. It's october and haunted houses are fun! Take her to one, should be a great time, I think thats what I'm doing with my bf [of sorts] and maybe a couple friends tonight ^^
2007-10-07 09:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A walk on the beach is super romantic. Staying home and renting a movie can be nice too, as long as no one else is home. If other people are home, then there's too much of a chance of you guys getting interrupted and then the romantic atmosphere would be ruined.
2007-10-07 09:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a nice restaurant or cook a nice meal yourself. Another option is to go to the movies. Whatever other guys tell you, girls do NOT like to go to scary movies on dates. They don't hide in your arms or anything dorky like that. Beach might be ok, but what are you going to do there? Watch the waves for an hour?
2007-10-07 09:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by SH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what area you live in, but as you suggested, a trip to the beach would be a very good date. You could watch the sunset--that would be very romantic.
2007-10-07 09:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't show you care by being a big spender, all you do is show off.
Try asking her what she would like to do; that will get you more points than spending wads of money. Show her you care, involve her in the planning of the evening. Whatever you decide to do make sure you do it for her not you.
Good luck.
2007-10-07 09:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww the beach is lush hunny
can u make up a picnic?
haha if nt get ur mum to help:P
find out her favourite lil snacks and pack them :)
she'll love it and if you go at night u can watch the stars =]
gd luck and enjoy hun :)
xx
2007-10-07 09:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋