am i doing the right thing?

Question

my g/f plays on the varsity soccer team and she's doing this on a sprained ankel, i really cant stop her from playing that but should i stop her from playing a pick up basketball game. she sometimes will play basketball with me and some friends and im telling her no so that she doesn't risk further injury and she's being stubborn about it and insisting that she plays. so wat should i do i guess is wat im asking, thanks.

Answer 1

You express your feelings about it, if that doesn't work, you've done all you can. I mean YOU could tie her down, but that might strain the relationship. Just speck your mind, tell her its because you care, then drop it. Sometimes caring means watching the ones we love do something stupid.... gives you that all important oppurtunity to say,"Hey hunnie I told you so, maybe next time listen to me?" That everyone says from time to time in a relationship.....