Ever since i told my best friend that i was in love with this guy, she keeps talking about him and flirting with him and now im pretty sure he likes her more than me and its tearing me apart. what do i do? Should i say anything at all? please help!
2007-10-07 08:40:07 · 19 answers · asked by SilentScreams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend is overstepping the boundaries of Best Friendship. Take her aside, look her in the eyes, and say something to the effect of , "I told you in confidence that I liked So-and-so, why are you trying to attract him when you know I want him?"
If she defends herself, it's time to step back from your friendship with her, as she's chosen to put her desires ahead of yours, not even cutting you slack when you trusted her. If she realizes she did wrong to hurt you and apologizes, see if she changes her behavior and maintains your friendship.
It's all about loyalty here. Don't stay close to her if she's not looking out for your feelings.
2007-10-07 08:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's not really a friend i'm afraid. why don't you ask her why she's doing this - if she gives a lame excuse e.g. i love to flirt with everyone OR if she denies everything ditch her there's better friends out there that can actually respect your feelings and who you can trust not to ruin your chances with someone. I've had the same problem in the past you just have to move on people like that aren't worth the time or energy. x
2007-10-07 08:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he the really one? I mean if he isn't just find a new guy. Even though why would u're friend be flirting w/ the guy u like anyways? She should know how u feel inside, also talk to her why does she flirt w/ him everytime? Also maybe she isn't really your true friend at all!
2007-10-07 08:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Aman's gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because of fun you wanted toplay. It is always not good to flirt as sometime it may hurt somebody's sentiments. Avoid it as far as possible and try only on those who are brave enough to sustain.
2016-05-18 01:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend, that you don't like when she keeps flirting with him. Try to flirt with him more than she flirts with him. You never know who he likes until they are actually going out! Don't let it get you down, try harder and better. He might like you. But just saying, you can't make someone like you. Good Luck!
2007-10-07 08:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by always smile. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call your friend a "*****" because she is certainly acting like one.
In all seriousness though, speak up but try to be calm and non-threatening. Don't throw out accusations, just try discussing it with a level head... wouldn't want to lose a friend over a guy now would ya?
2007-10-07 08:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by iRok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt more than her be more physical about it. Send a clear signal your ready to fight for him and maybe she'll back off. She might have liked him longer than you and now she knows shes got competition she may be trying to mark her territory.
2007-10-07 08:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask her if she likes him, because for all you know she may have liked him before you told her, and when you told her she felt threatened and went for him harder, but you should talk to her cuz this is not right. she should have told you if she does like him, but you should still flirt with him, until you find out what is going on, and talk it out
2007-10-07 08:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her at her own game... act like u couldnt care less 4 the guy while u secretly try 2 win him over... thats just the way girls are...
2007-10-07 08:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, if she's a real friend she'll stop, if not, revenge is beautiful, get her back... with her guy, or ask this guy out or flirt with him more.
2007-10-07 08:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by scsmith478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋