Well i used to go with this boy and we stayed up hours on the fone at night with each other.One day we brought up sex and we even thought about having sex but i told him when i go to the doctor they are going to make me pea in a cup and that will determine if i had sex or not. then my mom would find out. but he said that they cant find out from that and ive been wondering if thats true.
2007-10-07 08:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by Lady'D' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 13 yrs old
2007-10-07 09:18:24 · update #1
Pee has nothing to do with it....when the doctor does an internal exam he can tell if you had sex because your membrane will be broken...that's your hymen....your cherry. No hymen means you had sex.....unless it was broken from extreme exercise etc.
Now let me give you some advice... boys don't want relationships, they don't want commitment...they want sex.... and they will tell you anything they think you want to hear...just to get you in bed.... so in 10 yrs when you get married.....try imagining what it would be like to tell your new husband.... I'm a virgin and i saved it for you....instead of I gave it to some guy...and then he dumped me.
2007-10-07 09:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell from a urine test, unless it just happened. You would most likely have a torn hymen afterwards, but many things such as a tampon, or vigorous exercise can tear the hymen. I don't know how old you are, but would highly suggest waiting until your ready to have sex, and accept the responsibilities
2007-10-07 08:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are WAY too young to have sex. Everyone knows your parents can tell by the look in your eyes.
2007-10-11 08:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by jelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its true...but only you can decide when it is time for you to have sex...go with your thoughts and what your heart says. I am not encouraging you to have sex or deny your mom but what else can she do but run her mouth. But think about what you really want to do. sex is a big step. And at times it can make things complicated.
2007-10-07 09:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are far too young for this consideration!! Relax & allow yourself to mature for a few years 1st!!
2007-10-07 15:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not true hun email me ill tell you the truth ok
2007-10-11 08:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by bi_pet_grl_18@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋