Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

Dont you find that women tend to communicate better and are quicker. Men, for some reason tend to be slow if they manage to communicate at all. What do you think?

2007-08-15 21:11:44 · 19 answers · asked by CW 1 in Singles & Dating

meet her motherboard first?

2007-08-15 21:10:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not sure what the protocol is here. Can I have a bridesmaid or two...my man will be having a best man.
What have others done? Did you still carry flowers?. It is an intimate wedding at our home. Was thinking of having my older sister. She means the world to me. And if I did, can I just tell her to get herself any dress she would like? I really dont mind what she wears to be honest, it is not about the clothes but about the ceremony.

2007-08-15 21:05:44 · 13 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Weddings

Ok me and my bf been together for a year and 1 week now i love him to death and i want to be his wife but this the thing he live in cali and i am in chi town and , he is 17 and i am 14 about to turn 15 in oct , his my everything but we been fightin i know its normal but ones we broke up and he email and we got back together it been 3 times we broke up and back together we try to tack a break from each other but we to in love to tack a break or leave each other alone . I dont know wat to do I dont want to leave him and i dont want him to leave me and i been waitin for the time we see each other cuz we meetin up to see each other this year . Pls help oh yeah we met each other on yahoo answer . thanks

2007-08-15 20:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Bre Bre H 1 in Singles & Dating

That is what i keep hearing

2007-08-15 20:31:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has a really big crush on this guy. I don't think the crush will last and she doesn't even know him but i'm in the same position and i don't know him either. I dont' like every guy that comes along and she does. The guy would be really great for me, and my bff agrees with me. I wrote for my friend on the guys facebook, and she's not even telling him that it was me that wrote what was said. I feel like I have been betrayed but at some point have to forgive my friend because she truly has no idea she's hurt me. At the same time, I really like the guy, but I feel like even if I were to pursue something with him, that I would feel guilty all the time. What should I do?

2007-08-15 20:28:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law is a complete bully to the extent she has bullied (from pressure to almost threats) my wife to agree to have her as her support in the delivery room. The hospital only allows one person in and its the womens choice. Mt wife just says it will be easier this way in the long run. If i miss it i will hate her mother forever so i don't believe in will be easier.
What do people think i should do?

2007-08-15 20:20:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a student so I went to the counselling place on campus hoping they could help me with these issues. The counselor basically said to join a club and that I didn't need her help. What else can I do to work on these things in my life?

2007-08-15 20:05:25 · 1 answers · asked by earwaxyness 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iam 40 years old. married 7 years ago. since child hood i had stammering problem. so i avoided people and?
particularly girls. i lost my father when i was 4 years old. i lived with my mother. she too stammers. She is always self pitiying and not bothered when i was 33 i became desparete for sex. i could not contiue with shagging alone. i met her once in an office. became friendly and she came to my house. my mother was not there at that time for 3 months. we started having sex. i enjoyed it. but did not want to marry her because my child may stammer. but she forced me into marrying her and now my son is talking well to my relief. but i found that her family is very worse. her mother ran away with a neighbour after having 4 children . her father married again and the 2nd one ran away with an auto driver. the second wife used to treat her father like a dirt. she used to even hit him Now my problem is my wife is also treating me very harshly and she has no attachment for me. just wants my money. what do i do now. nothing is going to change her attitude.i love my son very much

2007-08-15 20:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey, i was just wondering if the mother of the bride actually buys a gift for the newlyweds.....since the brides parents pay for most of the wedding. Is it rude not to, what is expected of the brides family?

2007-08-15 19:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I believe the person you will marry or stay with the rest of your life would benefit if you have had a good number of sex partners in your past. They will benefit from the experience you would have gained from past partners. Not to mention there wont be anymore curiousity.

2007-08-15 19:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have never talked to anyone about this, but i know for a fact that my grandpa is cheating on my grandma. my sister and i both know this.

we always see him on the phone talking to this one lady. in fact, he talks to her in front of us, but in tagalog (filipino) because we can't understand it. but we hear him say "i love you" and talk about someone finding out about them.

and also, he uses either one of our computers to email, and i see him emailing to one particular person saying "i love you", "i miss you" etc. he calls her his "babygirl".

my parents and my grandma don't know about my grandpa cheating. i was thinking about telling someone, but im afraid that there might be some problems if i do... my grandparents stays at my house and drives us to school when my parents work, and if i tell, my grandparents might divorce, they won't be around my house much, etc.

what should i do, tell a family member about this, or just keep secret?

2007-08-15 19:52:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 19:27:14 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Muscle Man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He was in superior court in suffox county a misdeamer - found the list on line. but no further info on location or phone. Step Father number for him is dissconnected and the mother's phone is disconnected. Bood fatheis ill and wants to have contact.

2007-08-15 19:25:56 · 1 answers · asked by S B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So me and my friends are always talking about each other's moms......

"Your mom this Your mom that".....

I have this one friend who gets really upset if we say anything about his mom......

Should I respect this Or tell him that his mom is a hooker....

LOL!

2007-08-15 19:21:15 · 23 answers · asked by demert858 2 in Friends

I need to talk to a friend who I haven't spoken to since December, because I got upset with something she did and how she acted. I never told her I was upset..I assumed she knew. But we only chat via technology since we live in different states. I want to talk with her via aim, about the incident and tell her that she made me upset, but how do I tell her without being clumsy--I guess I could get straight to the point, but I need a tactful way of going about the issue, so she can realize why I haven't spoken to her-she thinks I'm busy etc. Or should I just let it go, since she hasn't even made an attempt back?..*I just feel like I should tell her why I was mad and see if she even gives a damn-then I'll know she is a true friend etc. What do you think..? Should I beat around the bush and break it to her easily or say it flat out?..

2007-08-15 19:20:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-15 19:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by hardybody111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok in school im know as the smartperson 8th grade straight a's in algebra and spanish one and well im short but powerful... also im like not able to talk to my classmates because i use my vocabulary and they dont understand me, which is why im always becoming friends with juniors or 10th grades...but well no one in my grade likes me likes me... but when im out of school im know as smart but i mean i get juniors trying to date me ... i mean i went with my moms bf to their car workshop and his friend thought i was dating the 33 year old ... i look and act older than i am (most of the time) ... also my mom is kinda worried bc of this... with my courses i will have 2 classes in th e high school and well she thinks something is going to happen... soo is all this strange??? to you

2007-08-15 19:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it considered cheating to fantasize about someone else while having sex with your loved one?

OR by really wanting to sleep with someone else but dont for fear of getting caught?

2007-08-15 18:49:55 · 20 answers · asked by tkessandoh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So how do you know when its really over?
how do you know that the love is really gone, or if your just going through a rough spot?
When do you put your foot down and say i have had enough im leaving?
how do you leave when you still have so many ties: ie: lease on a house, dog and a car loan in my name that is really his car?

Im just tired of all the arguements over the same things, and the un willingness to comprimise or change.
one day my heart says stay and one day it says go... im so confused, i just dont know what to do.

I think the problems we are having is because we moved in together too soon.. and now we are finding that we dont really have much in common...
but now that i have been with him for 4 years its hard to just say goodbye he tells me he will change... then does for about 1 week then its the same thing all over again.

And i have no friends or family here but i cant move to another town because i have a great job please please help i feel so helples

2007-08-15 18:44:37 · 8 answers · asked by dawn a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Friends with benefits. Someone always develops feelings regardless of the type of understanding that was put out there in the beginning.

2007-08-15 18:44:04 · 10 answers · asked by simply_ch0c0late 4 in Singles & Dating

hes never said something like that before. I've never had a guy say that to me before, as i'm not the type to use such language. maybe it was a slip of the tongue?

2007-08-15 18:41:05 · 9 answers · asked by talkingator 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me to go with him to an attorney for collaborative mediation. He is depositing his checks into a separate checking account now, but says he will put enough money into our joint checking to cover bills. He told me to take him off of all the credit cards (he's only an authorized user).

Why would he do this, but continue to live in the same manner as before?

2007-08-15 18:40:55 · 19 answers · asked by I do 26.2 4 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP

2007-08-15 18:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i have a bf, and theres this one boy from another state and he likes me ALOT. He knows i have a b/f! But he won't give up, on myspace he says, "Did u miss me? I love u!" and crazy stuff like that i tell him i have a bf and he askes me sexuall qeustions and it makes me uncomforatable and i don't wanna b mean cause i hate being mean. AND also on myspace he made a profile just about me....
Like the layout is my default pic and theres a whole bunch of pics of me in the profile,In the 'Who i'd like to meet" Thing says "I love this girl so much. We have so much in common. She was born June 2nd 1992 i was born one day before her. she was born in france nd i love french im taking french three this year. she loves getting into food fights just like me she loves watching sunsets nd sunrises same here she loves watching the stars me too she loves mexican food nd im pretty much mexican i love it all she's the nicest girl i've met i would love to just be with her one night."

What do i do

2007-08-15 18:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by [Streetlight Contagious] 1 in Singles & Dating

I have really high expectations when it comes to who I want to date. So, of course I am very picky-and because of that I haven't dated or found a lot of guys attracted etc. But is it worth it to wait?.. Do have you had a success story?...I know in time, he'll come to me, but with me being so picky..you know, some say I might as well wait until I'm old-because it'll be a lifetime before he comes etc.

2007-08-15 18:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 18:36:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im Only 13 So I Cant Just Get Up And Leave When I Want To. I Dont Have A Job And I Dont Like To Go Places With My Older Sisters. So Most Of The Time Im At Home. I Get So Tired I Want To Get Up And Walk Out The House. Sitting Around The Same People 24/7 is Really Making Me Upset. I Dont Know What To Do. Seems Like Im Going To Explode Soon. I Already Read Books And Write Stories{24/7}. My Mom Doesnt Have Money To Send Me Away So Im Just Here Bored.....
What Can I Do?

2007-08-15 18:35:40 · 1 answers · asked by Da_Hottest_Honey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out my wife has almost $100,000 between two bank accounts and she doesn't know i found out. The thing is I've had to bust my ass working (she works too, but hear me out) to cover the normal expenses any marriage has and sometimes she has even asked for help in covering the cost of some of her expenses. For example, i just covered half the cost of her new contact lenses, cause she asked me for help on it. The thing is, I've had to hold out on buying a new car (I'm driving around in one that constantly breaks down) and buying things for me that I like because I was under the impression that she really needed help with her things and all the while she was hoarding all her earnings while I have exactly $397 in my bank account right now. For all these 7 years she has been hiding this from me and I've never hidden anything from her. I can't believe she didn't trust me on this. Should I confront her? Could she be saving that money to buy our house? Why not tell me? What should I do?

2007-08-15 18:35:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the child is 12 and is abused and there are no other whitnesses.

2007-08-15 18:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by playglass 1 in Other - Family & Relationships