Is it considered cheating to...?

Question

Is it considered cheating to fantasize about someone else while having sex with your loved one?

OR by really wanting to sleep with someone else but dont for fear of getting caught?

Answer 1

its not physically cheating but the fact that you're even thinking about it is a hint that ur not really focused on ur current relationship and you need to figure out how u truly feel about ur partner.

Answer 2

I don't think it's cheating to fantasize about someone else while having sex with your significant other, but it could get dicey if you accidentally call out the other person's name! As a wife, I wouldn't want to know that my husband was fantasizing about someone else.

And I think it's normal to really want to sleep with someone else. The fact that you don't do it for fear of getting caught is a good thing. When you get involved with someone, it totally screws up your thinking, even if you don't get caught. The risk is just too much to be worth it. It monkeys with your emotions, your thought process, and it makes you question everything about yourself.

Answer 3

I think its safe to say that most if not all people fantasize from time to time.. not sure if they do it WHILE they are sleeping with the one they supposively love or not..

But ur definatly tettering on the edge of cheating, because ur fantasizing while sleeping with ur significant other im assuming its the same person ur really wanting to sleep with but dont because of the fear of getting caught..

You call ur significant other "Your loved one" but if u truely "loved" this person you wouldnt be having these feelings about another person.. u may care for the person ur with, but its not love.. and if ur to the point that ur really wanting to sleep with someone else that badly its best just to leave the person ur with then to cause the emotional scaring that comes with being with someone that cheats on u, cause those scars last a life time, so if u care about that person u wouldnt put them through that, and just leave them before cheating..

Your definately on the verge of cheating..

Answer 4

It's one thing to fantasize about someone else while you're fooling around by yourself, but while you're actually having sex with your partner? Sure, it's not really morally or ethically wrong, but something about it seems like it's violating a basic trust in a relationship. How would you feel if you knew your partner was fantasizing about someone else?

But, "there is no crime of thought, only crime of action." Use your own judgment.

Answer 5

Just put it this way........if you knew that she's fantasizes about someone else while she's having sex with you then how would you feel? Now at this point you might want to ask yourself if you're happy sexually?........if not start talking to her tell her how you feel. If she doesn't care then its not worth being with her. Don't put yourself thru heartache and don't put her thru heartache. Its really not the right thing to do to fantasized about someone else other than your loved one not to mention sleeping with someone else. That's would be cheating and you won't be peaceful in your life.

Answer 6

while you're thinking, it possibly is. each time you experience an emotional connection with somebody else, any form of touch that feels intimate - must be only speaking or texting, yet feels close, brings you closer to that man or woman - is cheating. while you at the instant are not emotionally in touch, then those comparable issues are only friendly. additionally i'm assuming by utilising kissing you recommend a kiss on the cheek, by way of fact on the mouth or deep kissing is surely around the line.

Answer 7

it is not considered cheating to fantasize about someone during sex. but my question is, how bad is the sex that trying to focus on someone who is not even there possible? in the middle of really awesome sex I am concentrating on myself and not even the partner i am with.

wanting to cheat with someone is disgusting. if you want to, get the divorce and move on. let your partner move on with their life.

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

You are playing with fire, if you entertain those lusty thoughts about someone other than your spouse. Adultery is a sin and it has dire consequences. You know it is wrong or you wouldn't be afraid of getting caught.

God says let your own spouse intoxicate you.

Answer 10

i say yes to both answers. if you dont want to be with the one your with then save yourselves both the heartache and get out now before things get more serious between you two!!! and comment for the 2nd question...that is really shallow of you!