I have really high expectations when it comes to who I want to date. So, of course I am very picky-and because of that I haven't dated or found a lot of guys attracted etc. But is it worth it to wait?.. Do have you had a success story?...I know in time, he'll come to me, but with me being so picky..you know, some say I might as well wait until I'm old-because it'll be a lifetime before he comes etc.
2007-08-15 18:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you sound a lot like my gf,she passed away this year but she had her standards set to high in my opinion.i told her that often too.he had to have clean fingernails,clean cut,his own home,bank account,perfect teeth, and the list goes on.lol.if you love someone you love them for who they are not what they have or can give you.don't get me wrong because i love a clean cut man too but i don't care as much about some things as i do others.i've always been told that he'll show up when you least expect it so i am waiting.lol
2007-08-15 18:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on your dreams! That being said...
I think most people that are really happy with their mates realize that they didn't really want "Prince"/"Princess Charming," they wanted their mates and who they are.
Personally, I did and still do subscribe to the "I need a hero" mentality. My boyfriend doesn't have a horse. He is not tall, he smokes, and he studies Economics. But he is good honest, sweet, and loves me. And I am crazy about him. He has flaws--some a little more serious than the smoking--but underneath I think he is really a hero. Sometimes princes aren't ready-made, after all; you have to support them to get there (Note: this is not in any way a suggestion that you go out, meet a guy, decide he is good enough, and begin a regiment to make him better. I've done that too. it doesn't work and it's horrible for everyone once you realize it).
People always have issues. Look at yourself: are you perfect? Who you are tells you a lot about what kind of person you attract.
2007-08-15 19:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of being picky, but you are overlooking potentially great guys. You just never know who you might meet. They may not be your "dream" guy, but sometimes you will be surprised how some guys surpass your expectations in numerous ways. Don't discount the ones that don't fit into your perfect or ideal guy, because he might not exist, and you might miss out on meeting some just as good, if not better.
2007-08-15 18:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that fairy tales and Prince Charming does not exist. Don't be too picky nobody is perfect or else you'll end up as a spinster until the end of your days...
2007-08-15 18:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by tastesofheaven 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by finnigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it like this, if you werent so picky youd just dump majority of the guys uve been with anyway.
What you should really do is think about the characteristics you can put up with and scratch them off ur no list. open up your options because whoever it is you end up with will not be perfect. unfortunatly.
2007-08-15 18:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Aisha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When u quit looking they will find u. I had given up on dating and finding that special someone, when i started work and i met a friend who told me that she wanted to set me up on a blind date with someone who was my type of man. so i agreed as long as it was at their house and we all could be together. and there i met my hubby. he was charming and sincere and he was funny, and emotional and honest. we have been married 10 wonderful years and i am as happy as i have ever been...
2007-08-16 02:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont have a fixation and notion about prince charming.. dont expect him to be very good looking or rich... fiind a guy who loves to make u smil.. trust me.. thats your prince charming
and FYI.. hopefully u are the princess he is looking for.. cause the way u judge .. u shall be judged {}
2007-08-15 18:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by who ?? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All humans are flawed. You need to decide what you can and cannot tolerate in a person and take it from there! :-) Trust me..I met a great guy that way!
2007-08-15 18:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Itz Hipnotik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to be picky than to settle for someone that you won't be happy with. Never settle.
2007-08-15 18:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋