Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

but here is the problem... im 14, virgin, live in a town of about 7,000 people (mostly retired old farts) and i dont have a gf. So if someone has any ideas (oh and no hookers either) otherwise r there any girls 13-15 in Sheb.Falls Wis. wanna do it plz answer!!

2007-08-15 17:14:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ha everytime i ask another if i should go out and look for a lady friend and have no luck they say to me "oh stop looking wait for them to come to you" but other people i know say "keep looking ,try a club, church group" etc.....

do you wait or look?........seeya

2007-08-15 17:13:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-15 17:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does he like the questions? i think not,i mean i ask quite avg questions. does he like me?how can it be?never talked to him, he does not know a thing bout me n me bout him. to get points? may be.so i was wondering.....y???? mebbe he himself will answer this once again.

2007-08-15 17:10:31 · 31 answers · asked by puppet 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 17:09:27 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends dad is always saying dirty things about other women to my boyfriend right in front of me. such as: Look at the [t i t s] on that girl.. His dad is like 50 years old and is a married man... Well today, he sent a picture of my boyfriends,brothers girlfriends breasts to my bf's phone. And underneath it said "check out Ryans new girlfriend".. I dont have a cell phone so i picked up my bf's phone to call my parents & seen it. I said in reply to him, "Dont ever send a picture like that to chris again. Are you proud that your son has a trashy no self respect girlfriend? Grow the **** up" Now he is flipping out on me. Threatening to kick me out of their house [I live with my bf & his parents but me and my bf are on VACA in another state] he's calling me c*nt and b*tch and saying that I need to apologize to him or he is going to make my life miserable. This man is always talking down on me and i dont believe he deserves my respect. Should I apologize for what I said?

2007-08-15 17:08:59 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister and here boyfriend just broke up. She told me she ended it because when he came home from work he went to give her a hug and she pulled away because she felt not disgusted, but that she was not in love with him anymore. I have been in my relationship for 9yrs. and I do love my husband. How do you know when you are not in love anymore? How does someone just one day say I'm not in love anymore?How can one be so strong?Please help me. It is something I need to know.

2007-08-15 17:07:49 · 3 answers · asked by lcherriesr@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this question is not a joke. i expect a bit repect when you ans.thanks.

when i was very young say 3 year old, mum left me and my dad for some other other guy and married him. now with the grace of god my step mom who was with me since i was 4 yrs old was loving towards me like any other normal mum out there and is my best friend now! now shifting towards my problem-

my bf recently said to me very rudely -" its in your blood to cheat on husband". truth is i never cheated on him. he had been doubting on my friendships with my male friends even though i go out of my house very rarely. i feel hurt very badly and dont know what to ans execpt crying. isnt it a painful thing to hear? is there any truth in is words? should i be treated like this? i dont like justifying my loyality towards him all the time. its been 3 years. he has doubted on me, misunderstood my equation with my male friends,called me b i t c h, desperate girl and w h o r e, refused to hear anything from my mouth.

2007-08-15 17:06:07 · 41 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 17:04:58 · 2 answers · asked by Rosy 1 in Singles & Dating

At what age is it appropriate for me to reveal to my son, if he asks the question as to why mommy and daddy no longer live together, that his mother while we were married cheated on me? He's four now.

I told my ex that if my son would ask the question I wasn't going to withhold the truth from him, but someone has cautioned me against that.

Please be advised that my relationship with my ex is amicable, and I have no hard feelings as a result of what's she did in the past. But history cannot be erased or ignored. Therefore my inclination is to divulge to my son what his mother did. I just know is coming as he is very inquisitive and very intuitive.

I am torn cuz part of me says to go ahead and reveal, but the other part says to refrain. Which side is right.

What would you do?

2007-08-15 17:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by ahe03 1 in Family

my little sister is 13. she has been living with my bf and me because things with mom are no good for her. she was in bed and i was here chatting with some friends. i took a quick break and she was walking towards the computer room. i asked her whats up and she said my bf went into her room and turned the tv on. my bf watches adult movies at night. was he going to watch one right there in front of her? he's too lazy to fix the other tv. what else could he have gone in there for? i'm seriously thinking about leaving him and taking my little sister to stay with my best friend. she is single and hardly has guys over. also the troubles with mom would be less to worry about. other reasons for wanting to dump him wont be said. just the fact that he's a bad person.

2007-08-15 17:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BE HONEST.
im 17 and im 5'5 - 5'6 and 124 pounds
this boy i really liked named john said i was chunky

do you think i should lose weight and if so how much

??

2007-08-15 16:56:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what moves of the girl that can make you hot!!

2007-08-15 16:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by merlina h 2 in Singles & Dating

my mil lives with her sister..my stepson moved in her house..she pays all the bills including his cell bill. he pays child support and gets his child twicw a month..me and my husband live next door. we keep up both homes litterally..he does nothing but drink and drug..while his child is with him...he does not listen to a thing that we say. when hes not at work he is on his motorcycle. my mother in law will not put him out...we've tried. any solultions..anyone????? we are all upside down since he moved in.

2007-08-15 16:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by princesswhitepaw 3 in Family

He tells me that he loves everyday but goes back to his ex everyday and tells her the same thing then his friends are coming back and telling me that he says that to her and when i ask him he tells me he is doing it to get his bill payed off! What would you do?

2007-08-15 16:51:07 · 37 answers · asked by sarah b 1 in Singles & Dating

Mom is the guilt trip queen. She guilt trips me about not comign to visit her often, and my plans to move four states away. (1) she always put men before my brother and I (2) no showed at my wedding she says because her new husband instigated a fight with her and convinced her not to go (3) I finally forgave her and am civil and invited her to my husband's military retirement ceremony which also invloves me (sort of a second chance thing to bond) She sent us a gift 4 months before saying in case you couldn't make it... Guess what she made an excuse and didn't. (4) She started a war with her brother's/ sisters built a privacy fence between her house and theirs pissed them off then left the house to rot which was the home I grew up in. (5) expects me to call the home she shacked up in with her husband instead of my wedding my home. I am tired, going to school and working full time. Does she need to pull her head out of her *** or what? They have not once visited us.

2007-08-15 16:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Weddings

Ok I have a friend that was my past college teacher and we have become closer friends over the past few months through email. She just had a baby and I would have never ever thought... but she asked me to come over and see her and her new baby at her house. She also emailed me in the middle of the night after feeding her newborn and told me she just wanted to ask me if I could come over because she was thinking about me. She is a great person and so nice and I really look up to her but I never would have thought she would invite me to her house... So do you think she cares/loves me as a FRIEND?? What do you think??? Oh yea and I am going to see her!

2007-08-15 16:46:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mom is the guilt trip queen. She guilt trips me about not comign to visit her often, and my plans to move four states away. (1) she always put men before my brother and I (2) no showed at my wedding she says because her new husband instigated a fight with her and convinced her not to go (3) I finally forgave her and am civil and invited her to my husband's military retirement ceremony which also invloves me (sort of a second chance thing to bond) She sent us a gift 4 months before saying in case you couldn't make it... Guess what she made an excuse and didn't. (4) She started a war with her brother's/ sisters built a privacy fence between her house and theirs pissed them off then left the house to rot which was the home I grew up in. (5) expects me to call the home she shacked up in with her husband instead of my wedding my home. I am tired, going to school and working full time. Does she need to pull her head out of her *** or what? They have not once visited us.

2007-08-15 16:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Family

Ok I'm almost 13 and my brother just turned 9.I love him so much and would do anything for him.But we always fight.I hate fighting with him but I can't help it.I know every kid says they started it.But no he usally does.Almost all the time.And I hate fighting with him he tells me he hates me and I'm the worst sister he could ever have.I never tell him I hate him or he is the worst brother because I would feel really bad.But I don't know what to do help!

2007-08-15 16:43:10 · 3 answers · asked by charlee 1 in Family

2007-08-15 16:39:45 · 4 answers · asked by jamie p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He works at a store on a busy corner and this happened around 3 p.m. on a Saturday afternoon while he was working. Would you think it was some random thing or that someone who knew him had a grudge? My husband acts like he has no idea who did it and he wasn't interested in calling the police to file a report. I ended up calling the police to see if there was some gang-activity in that area, which they said there has not been.

2007-08-15 16:33:40 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

By the way, the relationship started off as sex only and now they talk about their lives. It has been going on for over a year. How much longer before someone falls in love with the other. They are both married.

2007-08-15 16:30:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 16:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by neetah22 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 & my parents are divorced. I heard my mom & her boyfriend doing it. help! they are so loud! i tried going downstairs & i cant still hear it. no matter where i go, i can hear them. neighbors have been complaining about how loud they are. what should i do? im so grossed out! everytime he is over, they are at it. i cant play any music. im not aloud. i will get introuble. i dont have earplugs. sometimes at night, i wake up & hear them. they have been doing it for an hour & they still are. whats wrong with them. i dont want to tell mom this. help! im so grossed out! im never going to have sex!

2007-08-15 16:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 17, 300 pounds (5'9), beats women, wears silk robes, and wants to be a monk in Greece. Previously, he wanted to be a freemason, and a mobster. What do I do?

2007-08-15 16:29:08 · 29 answers · asked by Scoogle 1 in Friends

I have been recently widowed and as I do not have any children too, I feel very lonely and depressed. I am 51 years old. My sisters are supportive but I still miss my husband. Can anyone help?

2007-08-15 16:28:18 · 27 answers · asked by shameem356 1 in Family

Why would you want to have to pay for someone... and are they even any good, what is it like to be with a prostitute?

2007-08-15 16:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-You aren't friends with the girl
-She looks at you a lot


My friend is like this with a guy, and I'm not entirely sure he likes her.

so yeah.
guys: would you look at her at all? ignore her? act like she doesn't exist?

thanks for answering!

2007-08-15 16:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been doing things that my guy absolutely love. Should I attack him when he comes home from work? You know, just rip his clothes off and do him like a porn star? Or should I start off with using toys on myself and making him watch?

Which would get you guys the hardest???!!!!

2007-08-15 16:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by B.B. 3 in Singles & Dating

What is coregasm I heard its like a feeling but what does it really make u feel like?

2007-08-15 16:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating