im 15 & my parents are divorced. I heard my mom & her boyfriend doing it. help! they are so loud! i tried going downstairs & i cant still hear it. no matter where i go, i can hear them. neighbors have been complaining about how loud they are. what should i do? im so grossed out! everytime he is over, they are at it. i cant play any music. im not aloud. i will get introuble. i dont have earplugs. sometimes at night, i wake up & hear them. they have been doing it for an hour & they still are. whats wrong with them. i dont want to tell mom this. help! im so grossed out! im never going to have sex!
2007-08-15 16:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow you got two stars for this one. maybe hide your moms vibrator from her.
2007-08-15 17:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes life sux. Just isn't fair. Being a teenager - almost an adult - and being in a situation like that is tuff. The best way to mentally survive is to find a peaceful solution - which sounds like you are at least partially doing. You should become Marsha Brady. Seriously. If you're still getting spanked at 16, your mom is probably feeling nothing else will work. Become the perfect daughter. You only have 2 more years until you can move out, and if you spend that 2 years being perfect - you may find your parents willing to help you get set up in an apartment at 18. I'm not just spouting BS. This worked for me. Many, many years ago, I was a teenager who hated my ignorant parents and wanted nothing more than to be as disagreeable as I could. Someone gave me this advice at 14 and I gave it a try. After a few months, i was getting more freedom and respect. Eventually, when I moved out, they paid my first month's rent.
2016-04-01 15:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the ear plugs somehow.
It might seem such a touchy subject but part of being mature is being able to talk to family about confronting issues... you have a right to be grossed out, and this is not fair behaviour for you to have to put up with. But only by talking about it with your mother, at least to come to some understanding that when she wishes to be with her BF that you can go elsewhere and have your own space - and that she should tell you - and make some arrangement.
Your a teenager - your expected to be confronting to your parents, tell your mum you want to move out (don't have to literally) just to make the point that it is your home too
2007-08-15 16:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, you have the right to be grossed out. I'm sure you already know that your mom and her boyfriend most likely were having sex, but I'm sure you didn't exactly want to hear them going at it. Okay, I would say you should talk to your mom in private (no boyfriend around) and tell her how you feel. She should feel somewhat ashamed of her loud performance and tone it down the next time around. And, there's a chance she might be upset and even tell you to get over it. If that's the case, then get yourself a set of headphones and drown out the sound with music.
2007-08-15 16:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by EV 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ick well if your mom is that open about her sex life than i would confront her about it...and im sure that while she is in the middle of having sex she isnt going to hear a little music... If you cant talk about it with her than i guess you will have to find another way, but just try that way first, communication is usually the key
2007-08-15 16:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok you have a couple of choices....first tell you mom to be quieter... or you can just try to get over it...or wait until ur older and do the same thing back to her...but my advise is to sit down and talk to her....just tell her at night you hear noises that wake u up and wont let you go back to sleep... you dont have to mention that the noises you hear are from her having sex she should catch on and try to be quieter..if that doesnt work you can always try and buy some ear plugs they sale them at most gas stations or grocery stores...danielle!
2007-08-15 16:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
AHAHA!!! oh man! that sucks!! I'd go spend the night at a friends house, or have one of ur moms friends talk to her about the screaming. Bro i feel bad for you. Best of luck!
2007-08-15 16:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by hotsauce_ross7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to tell her, or just turn the music or TV up loud that should be a hint...
2007-08-15 16:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG! You poor thing! That would permanently kill me! That is so irresponsible of her to do that! She should know better than to do that to you! I would just say something to her, maybe in a sarcastic way, to let her know that you can hear her!
2007-08-15 16:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
dont say that cuz u r wen u get older and just kncok and say be alittle quiet or try to stay over a friends house
2007-08-15 16:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by kim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay tell ur mom to stop being a whorE and to just Sotp moaning so loud shell understand its not her boyfriends fault he has such a big penis... =] good luck!
2007-08-15 16:41:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋