Ok I'm almost 13 and my brother just turned 9.I love him so much and would do anything for him.But we always fight.I hate fighting with him but I can't help it.I know every kid says they started it.But no he usally does.Almost all the time.And I hate fighting with him he tells me he hates me and I'm the worst sister he could ever have.I never tell him I hate him or he is the worst brother because I would feel really bad.But I don't know what to do help!
2007-08-15 16:43:10 · 3 answers · asked by charlee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Little brothers always know how to push your buttons. The best way not to fight with him, is to figure out exactly how he winds you up and defend yourself from it. Just because he tells you he hates you, doesn't mean you have to tell him you hate him. In fact, you should never say you hate someone. Instead, kill him with kindness. Hug him and tell him how much you care about him. Compliment him every chance you get, and when he makes a mean comment, you make an overly nice one. Smile when you do it...it drives people crazy when you are nice to them when they are angry/mean to you.
2007-08-15 17:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by missbeans 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on keepin on ... he will come to under stand there are much worse sisters in the world later in life ... for know ... just know he uses the words and expressions he thinks will have the biggest impact on you ..... it's the shock value and his limited vocab that he strikes out with .... take it with a grain of salt ...so to speak ....
Just explain you gotta be you, and he's gotta be his own person too .... some times you just need to things by your self & for your self...... perhaps he will grow a bit inthe process ... I know you will.
Be Safe
2007-08-16 00:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol awe don't do a thing. He's young and at his age most little boys hate their siblings. Let him be. He'll leave you alone eventually.
2007-08-16 00:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋