my little sister is 13. she has been living with my bf and me because things with mom are no good for her. she was in bed and i was here chatting with some friends. i took a quick break and she was walking towards the computer room. i asked her whats up and she said my bf went into her room and turned the tv on. my bf watches adult movies at night. was he going to watch one right there in front of her? he's too lazy to fix the other tv. what else could he have gone in there for? i'm seriously thinking about leaving him and taking my little sister to stay with my best friend. she is single and hardly has guys over. also the troubles with mom would be less to worry about. other reasons for wanting to dump him wont be said. just the fact that he's a bad person.
2007-08-15 17:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend doesn't seem to really care about your sister. I don't know him personally & I could be wrong, but from what you wrote, he doesn't sound like someone your little sister should be learning from.
If you feel that your relationship with this guy isn't as healthy as you'd like it to be, take your sister and get out of there. It's great that you care so much about your sister & the best way is to get her away from this guy ASAP.
Good luck!
2007-08-15 17:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by mademoiselle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sorry you are in this situation, having to be the adult for your little sis, BUT, your "bf" is obviously quite perverted. You have to protect your sister! It sounds like you have your mind made up on what the RIGHT thing to do is already. Get your sister and go! RED FLAGS flying EVERYWHERE in that scenario! Protect your sis and get rid of him! Best of luck to you BOTH! ;-)
2007-08-16 00:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by christy7801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait any longer. leave that could have turned into something that could never be brought back like your little sisters innocence. you know what you need to do. and if you do leave good for you and your sister always stick with family.
2007-08-16 00:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that you sould leave him then do it got you and yoursister if he is that bad like you say he is then you both shouldnt be near or around him.......... he doesnt sound like a nice guy..watching adult movies what do you think he would be doing while watching them and in your sisters room how long has this been going on
2007-08-16 00:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should leave him, but if you really love him talk to him about it, you could of just asked your sister what he was doing in there. :)
2007-08-16 00:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her the truth about what he was watching. And yeah, if he was watching porn in there, I would definitely get out know before you get involved with a messed-up guy like that. I don't know of any more elaborate way to put it.
2007-08-16 00:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by TheHonorableReese 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it.
Dump him.
You didnt mention any good parts.
Protect your sister. Thats important.
2007-08-16 00:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait until it is too late to act on your suspicions. If you think something is/maybe going on and you wait and something will/does happen. You will never forgive yourself and neither will your sister.
GL
2007-08-16 00:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by bullheadbrawlers2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you should dump him then do..but if its just becasue you THINK he watched a movie with her then i think you need a better reason..but since you said you had other reasons then leave him
2007-08-16 00:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by manda 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, shouldn't you have this discussion with your bf?
2007-08-16 00:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by The Coug 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋