well i have a bf, and theres this one boy from another state and he likes me ALOT. He knows i have a b/f! But he won't give up, on myspace he says, "Did u miss me? I love u!" and crazy stuff like that i tell him i have a bf and he askes me sexuall qeustions and it makes me uncomforatable and i don't wanna b mean cause i hate being mean. AND also on myspace he made a profile just about me....
Like the layout is my default pic and theres a whole bunch of pics of me in the profile,In the 'Who i'd like to meet" Thing says "I love this girl so much. We have so much in common. She was born June 2nd 1992 i was born one day before her. she was born in france nd i love french im taking french three this year. she loves getting into food fights just like me she loves watching sunsets nd sunrises same here she loves watching the stars me too she loves mexican food nd im pretty much mexican i love it all she's the nicest girl i've met i would love to just be with her one night."
What do i do
2007-08-15 18:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by [Streetlight Contagious] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GOSH! He sounds lunatic! Tell your bf about him! This is considered sexual harassment. Next time, save those mssgs of him asking you sexual questions for evidence if happens that you wanna report him...be careful!
2007-08-15 18:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by tastesofheaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is ignore him. It won't be difficult because he lives in a different state. Simply erase him from your friends list, and that's that. You told him you have a b/f, and he's obsessed with you. That's a good enough reason for you to ignore him. You don't have to confront him, so you won't be mean, but at the same time, you have to get the message across that you want to be left alone. If your boyfriend is the jealous type, I don't think you should tell him. Get rid of this obsessed guy on your own. If he ever shows up at your house or something, then there's a reason to tell your boyfriend. Does he know where you live or your phone number? If he keeps this up, you should tell someone for your own safety.
2007-08-15 18:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be loyal to your bf- not to this stranger who is a creepoid that you know nothing about. You obviously gave him enough information that he knows about you. Obsessive can be flattering at times, but for him to devote a whole page about you and stating he loves you..... CREEEEPY! plus both of you are young, what do you really know of love?
Let me ask you a question- how would you like it if your bf was talking to a girl and then she dedicated her whole page to him. I dont think you would like it. What you are doing is being disloyal and obviously your either craving the attention to be giving this stranger all this info or you really are not thinking about your bf feelings and leading this out of state guy on.
what to do....
BLOCK HIM!
end of story and your not being mean. just do it.
2007-08-15 18:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by smlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you feel uncomfortable with things that he is saying on his myspace. (that is kinda creepy and would be really annoying) i have a guy who is obsessed with me to, and he is asking me out all the time and says i love you in public and i finally sat him down and said i like you as a friend, but i want to keep it there and not have it go any farther. he is way more layed back and isn't in my face all the time. he still likes me, but since our conversation, things have gotten better. just sit him down and talk to him. and if that doesn't work, spend that one night with him and say that its not going any farther than that and being friends. good luck!
2007-08-15 18:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a little creepy. If you block him, it's not being mean it's actually being safe. You should never allow anyone male or female to make you uncomfortable. Make your profile private and block him, this will not only keep him away but also keep away anyone else that might do this. I suggest only allowing people you know to become your friend.
2007-08-15 18:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Steph~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha if you told your boyfriend he might beat the crap out of him. But if you tell your bf he might be happy that you trust him, and at the same time your bf might get jealous and be more protective of you. I don't see a reason why not to tell your bf unless you don't feel like it's a major issue; but not telling him might bring up trust issues.
2007-08-15 18:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things a Lady needs to keep in her heart...... just for her to know.
Guys get jealous and most wont under stand the fantasy life you visualize in your head about this guy.
We are simple creatues ... try not to confuse us.
2007-08-15 18:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it, tell him so and be firm. It's got to get worse before it gets better, and you need to make him know that you're not open- that you don't like what he's doing at all and you want him to stop.
If you do like it, well, decide if you like him or your boyfriend more, lol.
2007-08-15 18:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are also obsessed with him! AH! Oh my God! I can't believe it's true!
Or else why do you not tell him that he is hurting you. If he does acutally love you then he will stop. If he is just obsessed with you then he will not care that he's hurting you and will continue.
2007-08-15 18:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by gentlest_theirsintheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam thats a little bit too much, he could get into serious trouble u know, you have to tell him your serious and if he don't listen then just totally ignore him
i know cause i kept writing to this girl from where i used to live cause i was in love with her, and believe me she put up with me and i don't know how lol
so better thing is to either tell him and do it demandingly or just plainly ignore him
like i said he could get into big trouble
2007-08-15 18:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by ‡ Edgar ‡ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋