I believe the person you will marry or stay with the rest of your life would benefit if you have had a good number of sex partners in your past. They will benefit from the experience you would have gained from past partners. Not to mention there wont be anymore curiousity.
2007-08-15 19:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Truthfully, I fully agree with you.. Now most people won't though.
I have became the "best" (as many women has said) from having a lot of sex. You can't get experience w/o doing it, so.
Now one night stands vs. friends with benifits.. That's a tough call but I have to say over all I like one night stands best.
You know nothing about the person, you know you will never see them again, or talk to them again.. (just be safe, use a rubber or 3)
With the whole friends with benifits thing, It's went bad on me too many times. Start out as friends, know each other, then f**k and 1 of the 2 norm happens... Things gets odd between the two and the friendship goes down hill, or the girl starts having strong feelings for you and wants to be mor than just a friend with benifits.
Also this is gonna make me sound stuck on myself but trust me that's not what I'm trying to do..
If your good, and you make the woman really come and come hard then it always seems like she starts falling in love with you after that... Don't know why that is, but it's happened to me quite a few times.
2007-08-15 20:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by chevyraceman_383 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you are after. I had a few one nighters and it suited me because i was coming off of a very long relationship that was choking me. The brief flings released me from his hold. Out of those, believe it or not, I found a man I have been with for 8 years. I wasnt looking for him at all, he was just there and I eventually grew to appreciate him. I think one nighters have their place if you know what you want and have an open mind. If you have experienced a lot of people, then you arent as curious and that opens you up to a long-term relationship all by itself. Some people need this and some dont. If you do, i recommend you do it early on and get it out of your system. This is from a female who has been with 3 major life partners and about 50 flings, male and female. Experience it all and then settle down is my advise.
2007-08-16 03:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful!! Sex can kill now, and you could fall in love with SEX, I did!! I always looked for little nymths, and forgot the reason I was there,except for the sex. And the best lover,isn't always the best mate!! And you mite spend the rest of your life comparing a 1 niter to your soul mate. You can't make a silk purse from a sows ear!!
2007-08-16 03:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Some people say it is better to wait for it and some others say sexual exp is a good thing. Depends on the people..
2007-08-16 03:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you.
2007-08-16 03:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋