Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

If I could present all the happiness to her,

If I could absorb all her sadness forever,

If I could rid her off all the trouble in the world,

If I could help her sleep peacefully like a child in his mothers' arms,

If I could wipe all her tears dry and always make her smile

If I could bring the world at her feet, I would thank the man upstairs for helping me being a friend to a friend indeed!

2007-08-12 04:07:59 · 18 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Friends

I have no interest in any relationship and stay home on weekends.....Haven't had sex in almost 5 years and really don't care about that either. So, am I normal or a total loser?

2007-08-12 04:07:57 · 29 answers · asked by TriSec 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no interest in any relationship and stay home on weekends.....Haven't had sex in almost 5 years and really don't care about that either. So, am I normal or a total loser?

2007-08-12 04:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by TriSec 3 in Singles & Dating

Plese help. I am really mad at him too because her worst enemy is also my worst enemy! HELP!!!!

2007-08-12 03:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy i have liked for over 7 months has started giving good signs so he has a on and off girlfriend , it started when i went for a walk i came out of the house as he was half way down the street and i went s usual on the walk to find him a bit behind me with his dog then i went one way as he went another and then we met up at one end and he give me a heart melting smile while the dogs mingled , and then as i came to go down my home street and we met up again and i kept walking to realize my dog had gone and started fussing over people and he smiled at me and said i think your pup has some new owners but the thing is he spoke to me other than saying hi for the first time but there was something about the way he said it !!!

Do you think its a little bit suspicious!!!?

2007-08-12 03:55:56 · 1 answers · asked by Blondii 3 in Singles & Dating

In the United States, an immigrant may eventually become a citizen by marrying a US citizen. In our society - despite the number of unhappy marriages and divorces - marriage still symbolizes a most loving commitment. I question the connection between citizenship and marriage. In my experience, the danger of marrying an immigrant is that the motivation may primarily be citizenship. This danger is so great that the concept of a loving committed relationship is further dilluted. What are your thoughts?

2007-08-12 03:51:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 during scholl i get in to alot of fights i dont why but i usually win when i get in to trouble they usually say if i left bruzes on them their familly can press charges and i can go to JDC ho can i get into less fights

2007-08-12 03:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago. we talked pretty much every day up until recently when i started to feel like i was bothering him about getting back together, and he told me he just wants to be friends and still hang out and stuff. he tells people he doesnt know if I can change (we were together every day all day for 3 years- not a lot of space- not a lot of individuality- and we often got in nasty fights over stupid little things. i changed my number a couple weeks ago after he told me he thinks its done for good, and that he just doesnt want a relationship right now. not even a week later i found out he got my new number from his brother. but for the past couple weeks ive only talked to him about 2 times. everyone keeps telling me if i give him his space, and let him go for now, he'll come around. who knows how long that could take though. what can i do?

2007-08-12 03:48:17 · 3 answers · asked by mandersmo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 03:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by anonymous_01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this guy i like and he likes me. Whenever i ask him what he think we are he says we are more than friends. He says we are in middle of friendship and love. But then he says he loves me etc. I recently saw his dating ad on a website. I know he just recently created it on aug 7 and not yet logged on it. I am very much hurt by this.

Should I ask him about this or just stop talking to him or pretent like nothing happen what should do

no when he says he loves me its not friendship love. See i was joking and i'm the one first put him on that site and then i asked him to remove it so he did but then create new one. I don't know if he create to find out what he can get, or he was angry with me or he is interested in meeting others


since he invested 3 years in his previous relationship and it ended because of his gf cheating he says to me he needs more time. He is type of person who thinks he knows everything, has a lot ego etc

I asked him to give me a password to his dating ad he ref

2007-08-12 03:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've got a lot to worry about recently and it's taking a toll on my sex life, my husband feels like I don't "want" him anymore but I've been sick and I have a lot going on, I need some advice, how do i let my husband know i'm still interested in sex, just not right now (but without having him feel like I don't want him around?)

2007-08-12 03:44:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys: How do you feel about a single woman w/o kids? I thought if I had an education, career and held off reproducing, I would be more appealing to date. I have found it has made no difference. Uneducated woman with illigetimate children get more dates and boyfriends than me and most of my single, child-free friends. Do guys like to be heroes or feel needed? Is it because so many have kids themselves? Many guys make us feel like there is something wrong with us for not getting knocked up right after HS. It doesn't seem right. Is this one of society's loopholes?

2007-08-12 03:43:57 · 11 answers · asked by LAgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 03:43:57 · 1 answers · asked by sui juris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She left me last yr for a job overseas. I am raising my 1 yr old son. She said she will only be in overseas for a yr. She changed when i got into trouble with business. Now she says i did nt tell her everything abt my business and i hv nt truthfull to her. Well, i never in the 1st place talk abt work to her even before when we were dating...I done get tht. Anyway,she just left without saying anything and she says will be back. If it was nt bcos of my son, she wont come back. She says she has lost her love towards me. I dnt get that. How can u lose yr love just bcos i got screwed in business . My question is how can a woman just loose her love towards her husband of 1 yr of marraige. Does nt make sense. I love her like crazy and she says she lost the spark...its only one yr..i cant stop thinking tht she might be going out with another guy and tht thought is KILLING ME....i get too deppresed thinking abt tht every night. I just dont knw wht to do. My son is my only consolation.Pls advise

2007-08-12 03:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Ram 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She had OA so she isn't able to be a very good housekeeper. It grosses me out to see them eating on the floor. My son is now old enough to sit on his own and eat without a highchair and I DREAD having to deal with the situation when we go there next time.
MIL has 3 little dogs that poop and pee on the floor, plus, we walk around outside where the animals are and them come in a walk on that same floor they eat on. It's nasty. Her floor is black tile, so you can't really judge just HOW bad it is, but sometimes when they get up, the hiney of their clothes are dirty. EWWW!
I remember the first time I saw her do it. I was SO shocked.

2007-08-12 03:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I ask myself this a lot since my wife and I just fight all the time. Where's our common interests...did getting married and all the stuff that comes with it just drain the quality out of it?

Now we could split, but we've given it 4 years, she won't go counselling and has taken her ring off, plus she's quit her job and is going back to her home country for a while. It's a shame lawyers have to be the 3rd person in our relationship!! I just think now...was it all worth it?

2007-08-12 03:37:55 · 25 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 03:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-12 03:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by Chattie Evangelista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just because I don't want to go Serwankupfu with him, and would rather go to Nigwertuia. He's been acting funny ever since we left Gungulia after those monkeys nearly killed us. What's wrong with him?

2007-08-12 03:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and i think i'm old enough to have sex. Should i do it or is it a bad idea?

2007-08-12 03:31:14 · 20 answers · asked by Jayda™ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex b/f was totally grossed out by his own ***. if we had sex and he came in me he wouldn't do it again cuz it grossed him out cuz he had to touch it so if i wanted it more than once he couldn't come in me. is that normal?

2007-08-12 03:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by cheshire cat 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a modest person and I know lots of things but usually I don't say anything when a "know it all" person tries to talk all over me. I just let the person talk. Recently I was talking about Harriet Tubman because I love her spirit and I said that I once read where Harriet Tubman told people that she was Ashanti because both her parents were born in Africa and this woman that I know yelled out, "I've never read that! That can't be true because I've never read that!" I simply stopped talking and looked at her. This same "know it all" person butts into everyone's conversation. In my book I mentioned that the African women wore beads on their hair and this know it all person said, "Where did they get the beads? They didn't have beads in Africa!" Again, I just looked at her.

2007-08-12 03:28:06 · 19 answers · asked by Spirit Dancer 5 in Family

I have been married for 13 years. My husband had an affair 2 years ago and begged me to stay, swearing it would never happen again. about 6 months ago, I left a recorder in his truck and found out he flirts every day! yesterday he made a comment to his friend about a young girl that he would like to get her hair in his hands and "You know" Is this kind of talk normal for a married man? Does it mean he would cross the line? I am not a flirt and I dont understand this kind of behavoir.

2007-08-12 03:20:21 · 12 answers · asked by dana t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay.. we were suppose to move into a flat instead of the house that were in... now u all told me to leave him, but i just dont think i can.. we've been together 4 3 years..well now this other place we wantd we cant get because of him... he went to the bathroom in their house and i guess he made a big mess, thats what i was told.... so now we gotta be out by the 1st.. my parents want me to move back home and pay them 50$ a week and save up my money for my own place??? what to do? and no i really am not too happy in our relatinship???

2007-08-12 03:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is gona sound so stupid but ever since half way between year 2001 there was i girl who i became interested in but here is the thing ever since then i've been trying to get her out of my mind here is some facts

i have never gone out with any1
i have asked a few people out in the years
i've tryed to like other people or differnt things

but to this day witch is six years nd a month on she is still on my mind wat does this mean? wat should i do?

2007-08-12 03:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 02:45:53 · 7 answers · asked by daniel C 2 in Family

We've been married three years and I love him but it's hard sometimes. I work a full time and a part time job, plus I do almost 100% of the housework (he does his own laundry), I clean the pool, do the yard work and take care of the pets and all the finances and other household business. I try to talk to him about it but he gets mad and says I'm a nag. What am I doing wrong. I know that women agree with me but I am interested in hearing from husbands what they think

2007-08-12 02:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by susan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife joined a new company and the new colleagues organised nights out on Fridays. The group consists of both guys and gals which I know little about. She will return home way past midnights. Is this a reasonable outing to do so every friday?

2007-08-12 02:35:30 · 21 answers · asked by David 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Question: Am I over reacting or what is your opinion? I am 65 and my bride of 14 days is 24. In no ways is it an arranged marriage or other reason. She was friends with and had visited with college friends (she is Chinese and the friends are also Chinese) prior to the marraige. She has talked to them since the marriage and informed them that she had gotten married. Last night, a group of them (2 males and 1 female, a couple and a single male) called at about midnight after we had gone to bed. Just to talk. Yes, they did say to tell me Hi. All conversation is held in Chinese which I do not speak. After pleasantries, the non attached male friend asked for my wife to visit them about 500 miles away. She declined because of drivers license and finances and marriage. The first conversation lasted about 20 minutes, interrupted by call waiting on their end and the second call about 30 minutes. (continued)

2007-08-12 02:35:09 · 18 answers · asked by pocbr 3 in Marriage & Divorce

you were bi leaning toward gay but didn't want your family to know. you found a guy to marry who would put up with you but you never told him the reason you didn't want sex was because you liked ladies better. You grudgingly gave in once a week because that's what wives are supposed to do. when he finally says enough is enough and leaves you - do you put the screws to him for whatever you can get?

2007-08-12 02:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6 in Marriage & Divorce