Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

Most of the questions are no interesting but i answer them to get points. I think of something that might be of interest and ask a question. I like it when people answer my question eventhough the answers doesn't help me at all.

2007-08-12 08:35:57 · 31 answers · asked by oana g 1 in Friends

a girl you think is so beautiful and she really liked you too, the problem is you are mutual friends with her brother and her ex(her x and brother are best friends)although her x cheated on her thats why the are not together.you are extremely attracted to her but cannot have her even though she wants you too.So over time you move on and begin a relationship with someone else.a year later she send you and email asking to get together for a drink,would you reply?even though you are with someone else?would most men take the chance?

2007-08-12 08:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 08:33:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy who has a rep as a player. But he spends all his free time with me since we started dating and is very attentive and everything, the way a non-player would be. This has all the signs of a relationship but I'm being cautious because I'm scared to get any deeper with it. I don't want to get hurt if he really is just playing me. Can't stop thinking of that line "Players only love you when they're playing." Is is possible for people to change and get serious about someone who makes them want to change? I just don't want to be deluded.

2007-08-12 08:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by FallenBird 1 in Singles & Dating

sexually what are the fantasies. what would you love 2 do.
does blindfold, dress up, chains/roped, dominating, roughness fall into the list. because thats what my wife likes
i am asking because i want to keep suprising my wife, can you please give me anymore advice ideas, or tips thanks,

2007-08-12 08:28:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so here's the thing.
A couple of weeks ago I went into my sister's room, and she wasn't there, but her diary had been left out.
So...I had a quick read of it (we can talk about the moralising later, let's stick to the question for now) but it seemed as though she had a "secret boyfriend" - there were a ton of references to this mysterious guy.
Anyway, today, she asked me to install a program on her laptop while she went out and (please don't hate me, I've bought her a king-sized chocolate bar!) I had a quick look at her files, trying to find out about the secret boyf.
BUT it turns out she's totally made him up. She's got a whole profile on him, how old he is, his likes and dislikes, how many kids they have together etc.
Is this normal? My sister is 15, and I dunno... seems like she should have left this thing behind her 10 years ago.
Should I say something?
If so, what? I don't want to hurt her.

2007-08-12 08:28:18 · 44 answers · asked by Legate Tatiana 3 in Family

i like bounty hunting. its fun.

2007-08-12 08:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by Elle 5 in Singles & Dating

still raising the kids, so u have nothing to do with them, other than be with the mom of course.

2007-08-12 08:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

this story goes back to two years ago when i caught my x cheating and left him,i ran into a mutual friend of his one night and he was so sweet by listening and understanding me being upset,he had drove me home that night and held me till i slept.i really liked him and he really liked me,but my x was so scary crazy over me so the timing was terrible.a year went by and i called this guy and told him he was'eating me alive'he said he had no idea and he wished he had known but he started seeing someone,so i let it go.then a couple weeks after i ran into him and he was all about me and we had kissed,i stopped him when i rememebred his girl,he continued to tell me im the most beatiful girl alive and he wished he had known how i felt.so here i am 5 months later and i sent him an email asking him to meet up for a drink,bad idea?I really dont even think he will reply..do you?

2007-08-12 08:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well this guy that I really like keeps texting me. We talked for about 7 hours yesterday. We talked about things like what we want the person we will marry to be like, how old we want to be when we get married, and how many kids we want. We talked about school and lots of other things. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. If you need more details, just ask me for them. Thanks! This will help me a lot.

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4 minutes ago
Well he has a girlfriend, but I don't think they're very close. He told my friend that he thinks I'm really pretty. He always tells me hi whenever he sees me, and makes a point to say it loud enough so that everyone around us hears him. For the past week we have talked almost every day. I'm just really confused, because why wouldn't he be talking to his girlfriend like he's talking to me?

2007-08-12 08:19:33 · 7 answers · asked by Aqueus 1 in Singles & Dating

had the worst day ever today...i was at my bf's last nite..this morning his ex who he left me for came round to pick some more of her stuff up, my bf told her she couldnt come in and when she reliased i was there she put her hand through the glass to open the door and broke in..she started screaming she was going to kill me and started scratching my bf's face...i was upstairs so i called the police who came within 5 mins. both me and my bf were shaken but whats worse is hes lost faith in himself now and says hes not strong enough to be with me...i love him so much and i dont want to let this come between us. he says he shud go back to her and make her hate him so she will leave of her own according but i know that wont work. ive told him im going to stick by him and make this work but its hard to stay strong for the both of us when he has so much doubt...its like hes broken. i wish i could ease his pain and make him see she wont be like this forever. what else can i do?

2007-08-12 08:19:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...do you wonder or think that something must be wrong with the girl?...or is it good that she doesn't have any baggage?...or do you even care about her past?

2007-08-12 08:17:54 · 20 answers · asked by Smiles 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so yesterday I went to the mall with my friends just to hang out - nothing more. I was walking out of the store when this guy glanced at me and I glanced back. In a nanoscecond I recognized him. He is in my Spansih class. So, i thought, big deal - he's not that important., I mean, he is hot and all but i wasn't goignb to act like a 'bad girl'. anyways, he calls out my name and stops me and starts hugging me, He goes u look so nice andf pretty, wow, i've never seen u like this. this he hugs me agian and i hug him back - (i didn't want to reject him - it was just a hug).
then, as i was walking again in the mall, we saw him agian, this time, he really shows attraction. he goes u look so sexy and hot and i say thanks u do too and he hugs me and says i love you and i'll see you next week. he also gets my number.

Anyways, i was wonderign if this menas anything?? does he like me or is he just toying with my feelings??
What do u thinK>>>?

2007-08-12 08:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anne 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now and he wants to do "you know what" over the phone i have a couple of times but i dont know if i should keep giving to him.what do you guys think?? and truthful and not pigs!!

2007-08-12 08:13:41 · 17 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

I just had a really big fight with my mom right now i'm really infuriated what can i do do help from screamming my lungs off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-12 08:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by -->[[Katie]]<-- 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your Spouse Was Going To Be Played In Your Decision To Marry him/her?

2007-08-12 08:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

would you give a couple just before they walked up the aisle.

2007-08-12 08:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known some guys who would watch me from a distance and smile. I am always afraid to speak because I don't want to start anything if that is what they are thinking but I try to be nice to them.

2007-08-12 08:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and i am sick of guys just using me or being not right for me. I have never dated anyone over a month long! I just want to settle down and find my "Soul mate" lol :) I am scared i know it sounds silly, but i would love to find him sooon :( :( ! What should i do :(

Thanks x

2007-08-12 08:02:25 · 6 answers · asked by Dont Look Back In Anger 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well this guy that I really like keeps texting me. We talked for about 7 hours yesterday. We talked about things like what we want the person we will marry to be like, how old we want to be when we get married, and how many kids we want. We talked about school and lots of other things. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. If you need more details, just ask me for them. Thanks! This will help me a lot.

2007-08-12 08:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by Aqueus 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 08:00:21 · 20 answers · asked by neha b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and i are close friends. we are still into each other but he wants his feelings to grow more before we go back out. We hang out a lot. But sometimes i get to carried away and start texting and calling him non stop. He doesnt answer. But calls me back a while after for a little. He works, and his grandparents are down aswell as his cousins. No he is costa rica. I didnt get a chance to say buy to him because i had to work. he sais we will hang out when he gets back. But i feel like im crowding him. How do i make him chase me, and not seem so desperate.But hey i cant help it i love this guy and the tought of us going back out is what i have prayed for for a while. YES im a christian girl. So please dont use any sarcasm. Thanks for the advice!

2007-08-12 07:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mindy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 07:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Saeeda KM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When we come home from work we are both so tired, but he used to want to make love even though he was tired. What happened?? How can I regenerate interest?

2007-08-12 07:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing a guy for about 4 months and he was my first. he said i love you and was so sweet to me. after a while he started getting distant and all of a sudden stopped returning my calls. after 3 weeks i got a hold of his friend and his friend said that he said he didnt know how to tell me but he has a new g/f and he said hes sort of blowing me off. i dont understand how a person can do that to someone, after everything, just make them wonder and hurt them like this. i would of never known if it wasnt for his friend who told me. i didnt think he was like that at all and i feel stupid and i feel used and horrible about myself. it bothers me that im so hurt by this but hes already done and over it and has already forgotten about me like nothing happend. how do you get over something like this??

2007-08-12 07:49:28 · 15 answers · asked by LilyC 1 in Singles & Dating

i've always wanted to fall in love... even at 15(i know im young)but i have my own little dream world. i always believe that there is such a thing as true love, but people tell me im dreaming. i believe this so much and that i dont have to have 100 boyfriends or sleep around to find a guy and that true love will come one day. am i crazy or will i hopefully someday be rewarded for my hope and belief.

2007-08-12 07:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my husband and i both agreed the passion we once had for eachother was missing and that we are now bored with our relationship. I love him to death and i really dont want to lose him but im not sure what i can do to get the passion back and be satisfied with our relationship.

2007-08-12 07:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am wanting to move back to my home state there are alot of things I miss let alone my son my wife wants to take a job 2 1/2 hrs farther west I do not want to move and will not I love her but this is not going to happen what should I do

2007-08-12 07:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by J M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 07:36:35 · 29 answers · asked by swannyvonny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband asked me to do set payment dates on a card. I figured he had the site on favorites because I have a folder for important stuff. He had a lot of porn and he already knows it bothers me, he swore up and down he wasn't into it when we first got together 3 years ago. Anyway I checked the history to see how often this has been happening (wouldn't want to get mad over little stuff) and I saw this started last week and has been going on every other day. there was also hook up sites meant for sex and sex only. My husband is the last person I expected this from, so I am floored and very hurt. He left for training the night before last so I haven't talked to him and he gets back in sep. Not sure what to do till then, I have no proof of anything. I can't see if he has profiles on those sites or not or anything. What should I do?

2007-08-12 07:35:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce