me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now and he wants to do "you know what" over the phone i have a couple of times but i dont know if i should keep giving to him.what do you guys think?? and truthful and not pigs!!
2007-08-12 08:13:41 · 17 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he lives in michigan and i live in orlando
2007-08-12 08:26:20 · update #1
Well...sure, why not. If you love each other and are in a relationship...why not do it? It's a private thing between the two of you......you should not care what others might say or think.
2007-08-12 08:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you deserve better than this. Hang up the phone and call someone else. You are asking for trouble, because the next thing he will say is this...
"You know all that stuff we talked about over the phone, well I want to do it for real, and if you love me, you will do it, no matter how you REALLY feel about it.... "
It will happen.
2007-08-12 15:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joe G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not like it? I mean, heck, there IS a positive to it.... he might be away from you and horney, but it IS still YOU helping to satisfy that craving. At least he isn't going 'elsewhere' to satisfy those urges. So things COULD be worse. I've heard alot of complaints from women over the years, worrying about whether their other half was being faithful when not around.... you can bet they would have been happy to be in YOUR shoes.
As someone once said.... be careful what you wish for!
2007-08-12 15:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by wer30snfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mimi.
If your relationship is physical when you are together, there is no great downside to phone sex now and again.
If it isn't physical, then you are going down a path that will put you in an uncomfortable position when you do meet again, with expectations set at a demanding level and you should control it.
Good luck, Steve.
2007-08-13 08:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Steve J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. most guys can actually do without the phone "thing" but if he likes it and it doesn't harm anyone.. then why not?? i have a feeling that if you don't fulfill that part his fantasy then he might end up calling those 1900 numbers.. but if it really makes you uncomfortable then you should really talk to him about it.. let him know that it bothers you.. the only downside is that chances are he might never break this habit..
2007-08-12 15:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its no use over the phone coz what do u get over it i think you should wait for that special time when u can do it for real and stop playing yr desires so when that time comes it will be like a new feeling and will be better too.
2007-08-12 15:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jahil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there no harm over the phone
my gf used to love it
some times it was her who asked for it
2007-08-12 15:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy "doing it" over the phone, then keep doing it. If it makes you unfortable, then tell him you don't want to do it anymore... Honesty is key.
2007-08-12 15:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jay L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy the phone sex too? If you do then keep going, if you don't, then tell him and stop.
2007-08-12 15:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tom T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf is sick and you should find you a bf that respects you and would not ask that of you.
I would stop now and see if he sticks around...but you really should dump him and find someone that respects you.
jeese...
2007-08-12 15:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋