Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

2007-08-12 04:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i discovered that my husband loves to sex chat in the internet and every nite visits pornography to be aroused. Is this normal to husbands? I want to understand why as well.

2007-08-12 04:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by Desperate Wife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres what happened:
my two friends (both girls) invited me to the movies, only because they needed a ride, and one of them just got a new bf and she cant go to the movies alone. so i said ok fine ill go...only because i didnt really hang out with them at all yet this summer. i have a bf too, but he gets jelious kinda easy...and like i knew if i went to the movies with them he would probably want to come...so i invited him, (they said it was ok if he came) plus we have been going out for almost a year. well the bad part is that my two friends that went and my bf dont really get along that well. I am way to much of a people pleaser and i always have to make everyone happy so i told him we could meet them there then go to a different movie....and them come find them at the end of the movies.....
so at the end of the movie we looked for them....but we couldnt find them.....so we left and then i get a really mean couple of txts from them saying like where were you guys! and that were

2007-08-12 04:52:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have self esteem issues.... i really think low of myself mainly because of them men i have had ... currently looking to end 3 year relationship... and just wondering what other men think of me... take a look at my myspace.. it explains a little about me... thanks.....
http://www.myspace.com/browneyez2269

2007-08-12 04:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 years old and my boyfriend (4months) proposed to me on my birthday (august 11). He is sixteen and going into grade eleven. I am 14 and going into grade nine. We talked about the details and we have come to the conclusion that we want to wait until high school is out for both of us. I'm not sure what to do though because he bought me a ring and everything... i know that i am very young to be engaged but i love him. Can anyone help me???

2007-08-12 04:51:17 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend who left me for this 12 years younger trailer/trash honestly i have seen her, dusky looking skin, 5'2 slim, ponytail the worst old car i have ever seen. But love is beautiful so he must be in love.
however, and that's where i am confused he keeps calling me telling me he loves me and misses me and soon he will be back with me ! All so weired and i am concidering all of this maybe even taking him back sick !
i haven't seen him since 4 weeks and he doesn't want to see me apparently. I still miss him we were together for 6 years.
he is 42 i am 47 sick to my stomack and heartbroken.

2007-08-12 04:50:48 · 12 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We live in Michigan... I was hoping we could do this without an attorney since all parties are willing to do this.... My husband is the only father my daughter has known(she's only 5) and her bio -dad had been in prison and/or jail for the last 4 years... He finally realizes he isn't a "father" for her and wants my husband to be her real dad now.we've went to court several times proving my ex is not a fit parent.(domestic violence against my son, broke a glass on his head, drugs, strong armed robbery, assaulting police offer, malicious destruction of property, stalking, the list goes on... Now he is finally taking the childs own well being into consideration..... I want to get this paperwork going asap, before my ex goes on another crack binge and changes his mind.. any advice?? thanks

2007-08-12 04:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by jen e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

telling them for example that i want to spend my week-ends at my bf`s place or things like that....i really would like to get rid of this feeling and i would need some advice,because it`s really frustrating...why do i feel this scare when it comes to telling them things like these?

2007-08-12 04:45:05 · 2 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Family

Not meaning to sound like a ***** or anything but ive noticed that even the best looking men seem to be instantly attracted to the chest of any woman even very ugly ones.what so great about them???

2007-08-12 04:43:32 · 25 answers · asked by Poxy 2 in Singles & Dating

everytime we talk? he says that i should prove to him why he should want to see me and he cheated on me and now he's rejecting me i don't get? help

2007-08-12 04:43:15 · 7 answers · asked by monigees23 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm referring to couples that are dating for over a year or more and then the couples start talking about their future together and kids all that stuff. Somehow you have this doubt you know as if to say "what if we can't make" I'm asking this cause of my girlfriend I sometimes feel that that and sometimes she feels like that. Here's the thing that gives me hope is that I love her compnay and if we were to break up I would be with anger jelousy seeing her w/someone else. Thinking about the other enjoying her kisses touching her body that would kill me of anger! sometimes she says what if and I tell her " Look we can do it if you have each other and want each other then there is nothing that we can't do" I want to go into the unknow with her but we're both scare b/c we don't know what to expect I love this girl very much and I want to be the guy that gets to enjoy her kisses hugges enjoy her body everything I just don't want this efforts to go in vain

2007-08-12 04:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Mobius1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is really stupid but I know that it's like a sin to look at porn and stuff but is it a sin to see your spouse naked 0.0 Really dumb just wondering

2007-08-12 04:39:05 · 24 answers · asked by i use Y!A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay ive been freinds this girl for almost 5 years and we sorta dated but it was middle school so nothing big but i have a girl now and now im confused bout how i feel .. i realy trust the first one and have a crush on her now but what do i do bout my girlfreind of almost 2 months

2007-08-12 04:37:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do girls like the most physically on a guy? Abs, hair, eyes etc...

2007-08-12 04:36:56 · 11 answers · asked by C A 2 in Singles & Dating

I separated from my ex almost 6 years ago. We had been together for 9 years and have 2 kids together. For most of the relationship he treated me very badly and made me feel like I was worthless. i have finally moved on and found someone new, and so has he. The thing is when I see him with his new girl he treats her very well and is kind, caring and compassionate towards her. It makes me feel like there was something wrong with me because he obviously is capable of showing these emotions, yet he never treated me that way. My new man is the exact opposite and treats me like a princess, yet these feelings of inadequacy are hard to silence. Has this happened to anyone else and how did you deal with it? Any advice or experiences would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-12 04:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lostlove 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend and i like him alot and i think he might even likes me or liked me in the past but i know nothing will happen if i dont do anything. so should i tell him i like him or weight for him to come to me?

2007-08-12 04:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal.. my husband got a motorcycle while I was 1 month pregnant. He rode me at first with no problems until he started hanging out more and with this other guy. (which was fine at the time since I was getting bigger). I had the baby and mostly stayed home so he was free to ride and do what he wanted. Now he has a problem riding me anywhere and never likes for me to get a babysitter. I have my figure back (I'm looking good!) and I want to go out more every now and then. I feel he tries to keep me a secret from his new crowd of buddies. I think it's time his buddies know he has a nice, pretty, petite wife that likes to have fun, too every now and then. What do you think would happen if I were to start popping up with my girlfriends every now and then where he is? Nothing drastic, just a quick pop in and out unnannounced of course.

2007-08-12 04:30:44 · 10 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 04:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by Chad 1 in Singles & Dating

This really isn't a HUGE problem but my husband it making it one. We were invited to a BBQ for his mother's birthday at his brother's place. It was supposed to be next week but instead was pushed up to one week. My mom lives in Buffalo, USA (I in Toronto, Canada) and she only visits every other weekend because her boyfriend takes his children for the weekend and they come stay in Toronto. I still don't see her much because I work Saturday and Sunday. I'm 5 months pregnant and have had some very bad days and she has come down to stay with me when I've needed it. Well my mom is down for this weekend for the BBQ. her boyfriend is leaving to drop off his kids to their mom and visit his parents and other relatives and my mom will be left home alone until late at night and will be leaving tonight to go back to Buffalo. I really want to stay with her but my husband told me he wants me to go. I already told him I'm staying with my mom and he's upset. Is my decision wrong??

2007-08-12 04:27:20 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 04:25:53 · 12 answers · asked by Keith S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife ran into a old high school friend. she told me about it but didnt say that they swaped phone numbers. well thy started talking alot. about 400 calls from her alone in one mounth. all hours every day. she even snuck one to him on chistmas. then snuck out on new years too. none of this did i know till jan. in jan i went to fld with friends to decide how to deal with my wife taking me for granted. she called him before i was even on the plane. on the fri i was down there she let him watch our 9 year old daughter alone at our house. when i found out that day who watched her i let her know how mad i was. fri night he came over to watch a movie with them. sat he took them to the mall with his kid. i talked to her when she was with them and she lied to me in front of him. about who she was with. she said she cried about lieing to me. yet she left our little girl with his so they could go to the cosino. sun he was at my house till after 2;30 mon mourning. she said he was just a friend.

2007-08-12 04:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by jd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is addicted to adult porn and dont want me maybe 3x's in 2wks. I had twin's almost 2 yrs. ago and I still have not lost all the weight but most of it. He tells me all the time that he dont want to be with me and I am fat and that we would have a better sex life if I were not fat then he wouldnt need porn.Then the next day he is fine and all lovie? help please! Do I stay and hope it get's better or leave him?

2007-08-12 04:22:20 · 25 answers · asked by Liana W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for guys to ask u out and expect u to say yes but u dont even kno them???

2007-08-12 04:21:46 · 6 answers · asked by ((Laura)) 2 in Singles & Dating

i've got a gf in my hometown,but now im movin to another country for my student exchange program for 3 months,and here i have a new crush.she's damn pretty!(call her "G")we're in the same school,the problem is she was playin hard to get,but im not gived up on her.after some step,finally i got that chance,and we became a really good friend,some of my friends thought we're datin,but in fact we're not yet!soo,i dont know why its so hard to ask her to my gf,.althought im sure enough thats what she has been waiting for.Then this girl(ms.D) came to my life,and im getting to know her more.
Gosh,im sooo confused about my feeling towards them!My relationship with my gf in my hometown is goin to be over.Which girl do ya think i should go with?

2007-08-12 04:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by PARTTIMEROCKER 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I recently got engaged to a guy I've been with since 6th grade. We have an 11 month old daughter together, and would love to raise her together and have a life with each other. He's 18 and going to college locally, and so we plan to marry after I graduate in July 2008. However, I am being extremely discouraged by family and friends that I'm making a bad decision. They all tell me that we are too young and it would never last... and also I am Jewish and he is Catholic so my family holds that against him, and they are against us marrying for that reason... I was just looking for some opinions as to what I should do in this situation..

2007-08-12 04:16:52 · 27 answers · asked by Lexi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend decided to host a dinner party for a few couples last night. I had to beg my fiance to come, he has really bad anxiety , they live and hour & a half away & he's a really picky eater. He finally agrees to come, mainly because she is going to be in our wedding in 2 months. We go & everyone drank a little too much wine & got a little goofy. My fiance I don't drink at all.The conversation quickly turned to ball s@cs, warts & all kind of disgusting things. Then, another friend who was there asked us to drive her & her boyfriend home & she was lying in the back of our car with her feet on the window cussing every other word.

My fiance was a trooper. He was very nice, but just kind of quiet. When we got home he went off on how classless they are and how horrible the night was and would not stop for like an hour! These are my friends and it really pissed me off. He wouldn't quit saying terrible things!Should I blow it off because he came for me or do I have a right to be mad?

2007-08-12 04:16:25 · 24 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been to couples counseling but I imagine they have you do certain "exercises" when you go in. Ya know, like to make you communicate and things like that. Does anyone know of a book that has exercises like what you might do in a therapist's office? My man and I are having communication difficulties in an otherwise perfect relationship!

2007-08-12 04:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by That girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are girls sensitive about their weight?

And if she openly tells you her weight... does this mean she trusts you? Likes you? Or what?

(and then she doesn't tell her weight to anyone else)


The incident in question... we were taking this driving class together... and were talking during one of our breaks.. and somehow she just started talking about how she went from (insert #) pounds to (Insert #) bcs of the school lunches... (hell... i sure couldn't tell she gained weight.. she looks dang good to me! She's the best looking girl i've ever seen personaly :) ).. so it wasn't like she was showing off her weight... and i had NEVER heard her talk about her weight EVER! I was sorta surprised! thanks!

2007-08-12 04:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m in love with a girl,she's my peer,she was going around with a guy and she says that she had a breakup with him 2 months ago,we all 3 work in the same office but still i observe her talking to that guy and i feel that they r still going around,and i m not able to figure out abt wheather she have a relationship with guy or not..could any of u sggst me what should i do to kno that ?sometimes i feel she also like me but sometimes i feel she's treating me as a freind ....plz help me out ....!!!!!

2007-08-12 04:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by Nash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even in cases of infidelity? I am refering to a very STRONG catholic.

2007-08-12 04:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by annynoumous 2 in Marriage & Divorce