i m in love with a girl,she's my peer,she was going around with a guy and she says that she had a breakup with him 2 months ago,we all 3 work in the same office but still i observe her talking to that guy and i feel that they r still going around,and i m not able to figure out abt wheather she have a relationship with guy or not..could any of u sggst me what should i do to kno that ?sometimes i feel she also like me but sometimes i feel she's treating me as a freind ....plz help me out ....!!!!!
2007-08-12 04:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by Nash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, I guess u will have to adopt a wait & watch approach , painful as it might be. Do u really understand the woman ? is she firm in her resolve ? Talking to him does not really prove that she has had a break-up.
U should not be spoiling any relationships including ur own. Look for signs & body language between the two as well as individually. If u feel really confident on her statement, then maybe u could invite her out for a movie or just do anything she would enjoy doing & drop in ur feelings subtly. Tread carefully assessing the situation. I am sure she will pick it up, if she is intersted in healing her emotions & initiating a new relationship.
God Bless....
2007-08-12 05:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u must have good relationship with her which u misunderstood as love. U might have felt bad when she talks others and there will be some hot exchange of words on ths issue between u both.
Now my advice is be nice for her don't feel bad if she talks or goes with others. Keep a little distance thinking her a good friend. In due course of time u will see u will get back. But in the mean time u show an extra ordinary performance in ur work.
2007-08-12 07:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by monika J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is how can you say you love her when you are indirectly saying you do not believe her when she says she had a breakup? If she says she had a breakup with this guy why do you need to "figure out" anything? If you cannot believe and trust her, you cannot love her. And just because she still talks to the guy, does that mean to you she is still going around with him? Can they not be friends? If you really want to know if she is going with him and/or how she feels about you, here is a novel thought....... why not ask her? Do not leave the "dirty work" up to a friend..... step up and you do it! But regardless of it all, be careful about eating where you .........
2007-08-12 06:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by ezgoin_newyorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she tell you that she had broken up with her boyfriend? Or you came to know about it from someone else? If you have known about it directly from her, you may ask her whether they have patched up again or not. If their relationship is still broken, you can slowly and carefully manoeuvre yourself in her life to take the other guy's place. And for that you need to be more than just friends. So work yourself methodically and talk to her to decide on your future course of action.
2007-08-12 04:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they did go out,it sounds like they departed ways as good friends especially since they have to work together. The only way you willever know for sure is to ask her out and see what happens. But then if they re stillan item, she willtell this guy and then youll feellike a real jerk who may have to find another place to work. Life is fullof chances and unless you try,youll never know. Good luck
2007-08-12 04:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 01:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend,
You donot seem to be sure of this girl and she donot seem to be keen either. if you are really keen ask her directly on her current status and intrest in you. how ever, I personally would say"what the heck" and move on to find someone else i can be more sure of. some things happen in life for good though it might hurt at the moment.
2007-08-12 08:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jus remember one thing u said they broke up and now they r still close so a relation ship gets stronger if its broken once adn then reattached.so dont be late tell her that u love her and if she has no objection u can proceed if no then its a bit dificult but its a condition better than wat u faces later if u r in still depper love than this and a hopeless condition where u cant live without her.so.... go right now and tell her
ALL THE BEST!!!!!!
2007-08-12 06:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by crazy vivek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say that she told you that she broke it off with him, so why would she lie?
they may still be friends and sense they work together they should stay on friendly terms yes.
ask her out and she will most likely tell you.
but also be prepared to be just friends because that may be all she wants.
2007-08-12 04:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by just another man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha Ha
coool....!
this is simple to find
just phone to her tell (pretend as unknown)
tell something about good about you
and prepare future plans for her
2007-08-12 04:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by an indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋