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Question

i have self esteem issues.... i really think low of myself mainly because of them men i have had ... currently looking to end 3 year relationship... and just wondering what other men think of me... take a look at my myspace.. it explains a little about me... thanks.....
http://www.myspace.com/browneyez2269

okay for one... im not looking for people to tell me im hot, or anything like that ... looking for friends... i wont be dating for a long time.. just want aquantinces...... for all of the smart *** remarks.. i am a big girl and know not to date over the internet...

to the mom of 2.. thank you.. i know i have to love myself first.. i do love me, i just dont love my life.... and i cant make a life for myself with someone else in it right now.. thanks for ur advice.

Answer 1

'Im not conceited, im just aware of my sexy lil self'

Sorry but i couldnt help but comment on that from your site. I study psychology (and i fought with what you had during my younger days, it pops up once in a while, but i handle it better). Its well known that those with self esteem problems often like to act otherwise, to cover up their weaknesses so to speak, and quotes like that are a dead giveaway.

The only way you can get better self esteem, is for YOU to start feeling good about yourself, for who you are. To do that, you focus on the things that are going for you, not what isnt going for you. The 'self' in self asteem means you yourself, thus it can never come from others around you. You may feel good once a person says you look great, but i bet you go back to square one once someone says otherwise.

It is only you that can make yourself feel better, no one else.

The two guys below me hit the jack pot btw, you try to cover your self esteem by looking 'fun' and all that. But all thats creating is a sense that youre rather..dirty to be honest. Sorry. This in turn may cause the wrong type of men to go for you, then treat you bad, and then you feel worse again. Then the cycle continues

Answer 2

First of all you are a woman and you need to
always keep your head held up high and never
let any man make you loose your self esteem. You
need to know who you are within yourself and
go forward in life of you being you and not what
others want you to be. You are what a man needs
in this world, as you are the opposite sex and
you as a woman can comfort a man and meet
his needs, and I am not talking about always sex
either, I'm talking about companionship, a listner,
someone a man can have support from, and
many other things. That is why you should be
proud that you are a woman, as you are what
a real man needs in this world. All woman should
demand respect, hold their head up high, strive
for goals to satisify their needs,and then look for
a man than can enhance them and not tear them
down. I have such a woman and am proud of her
and that is why I have been married to her over
20yrs, and I would never dis-respect her and I
always encourage her to help her always keep
her high esteem that she has. Good luck.

Answer 3

You are extremely vulnerable right now. By making an Internet reference to your self-esteem issues and the fact that you will soon be available, you are inviting contact from predators and losers--some of whom may well be dangerous.

I would suggest, for your own safety, that you take down your question and block anyone who responds.

By the way, I'm 25 years old, and take time out from my busy schedule as a professional counselor to travel the world, drive my sports cars, and do my body-building.

(NONE OF THIS IS TRUE, BUT YOU HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING THAT IT IS NOT)

Answer 4

Girlfriend...take a look at yourself. If you do not like who and what you are, only a real jerk is going to want you. I do not say that to make you feel worse, but to make you realize you have to love yourself FIRST.

Women who take care of themselves, like themselves, and DO NOT NEED a guy to make themselves complete are beautiful in the eyes of all "REAL MEN".

End your relationship and then stay away from guys until you are completely healthy, mentally and physically.

Good luck.

Answer 5

so how many relationships well you end until you realize the problem is not them but your lack of control of them .a woman owns a man if she is Abel to make him feel like a man .there is not a man on earth that well disagree with me when i say that a woman that must make her man first by making herself first .if what you do is to please everyone you lose and so do they as your not doing from your heart with all your soul your half way doing it ..you probably were not taught how to take care of a man by thanking care of yourself .most family's let the school of hard knocks teach there girls how to own herself a man .remember god made woman to help man not be his slave and not be a problem .

Answer 6

nothing grand about ending a relationship, however you have to live for yourself first. Once you are happy and content with yourself than all other things will fall into place. remember you and kids family come first but always pray to God for guidence and he will help good luck

Answer 7

If I were twenty years younger I would have a relationship with you. Go do what your heart tells you. You are young so think of our future and if this guy isn't part of it, then move on. good luck!

Answer 8

Not my type. A little to ....fun-loving...for lack of a better word.

Answer 9

is that little wayne!!!!
real talk you seem like a cool person

Answer 10

You can E-Mail me if you like*..