Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

2007-08-12 06:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by leazngurl 5 in Singles & Dating

She left home with my Son 3 weeks now. Not a single messege. Trust in the women refuge hands. Verbal argument made it a case of abuse. Waiting is frustrating. What would happen next.

2007-08-12 06:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by SAS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He asked for the money back, I told him no becasue you told me it was for me and my daughter's future. Well he has since sued me for the money. There was nothing in writing on both sides and basically it's his word against mine. We both have attorney's. What do you think the outcome will be.
Serious answers only!!

2007-08-12 06:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by haptay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got involved with one of my old professors who is 30+ years older than me. I didnt know he was married, but ended it as soon as I found out. Now im left with the aftermath, and things are becoming very clear. I see him at school, and I feel so used/manipulated. Im almost unable to function. I dont know what to do, but I fear that he will do this to some other girl.

I feel very stronly that I need to let his wife know what is going on while he is at "work" so that it never happens again, and so that I can move on with peace in my mind. I already spoke to a counciler at the college and they told me there is nothing they can do about it since it was consenting and since i was not his student at the time.

Please help!! I really dont want this to happen to anyone else, but I know that it will if i dont do something to stop it. (and i know its happened before...he has a system down pat).

Do you think telling his wife is the right way to go, and if so...how?

2007-08-12 06:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by wandering aimlessly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she does not go out much ...but day dreams about finding a husband !!! Think she is a bit too picky as she wants only an Italian guy ...and most of the ones she meets are married !
Question : How do you think I can help her become more active get off the sofa and get herself a life ...in that way finding someone .?

2007-08-12 06:19:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I so wish that I could go back in time and change so many things. Man ,oh man,if all the thoughts of it all would just go away and leave me alone

2007-08-12 06:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 06:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy on the net about 3 years ago. we can talk constantly or we can go for months without even saying hi, and everything will still be fine. well in the past 5 months or so things have changed betweens us. he told me that he has like me since the day we started talking, and no matter how many girls he goes out with, or tells me about, im the only one he really wants. im nearly 18 and hes 21, when we first started talking he thought i was 18 when i was really nearly 16, i came clean about my ages about a year ago and he didnt mind. he thinks the same as me, age is only a number. so anyways, with the amount we had been talking lately we decided to meet up. he lives in wales and im in essex, seeing as i cant drive yet, he came down here to see me. all the time we have been talking he has literally been my perfect guy. he makes me laugh, hes kind, always there for me, can talk about anything with him, hes basically my male best friend. he is also good looking. basically everything i want in a guy. the only thing i dont like is his teeth, but surely im not so shallow that i cant have feelings for him because of that? so he came down on friday, spent most of the day with him and my best friend (who he also knows through me) and then we went out that night to hit the clubs. now, my mum and step dad really like him, he was talking to them most of the time i was getting ready. when we got into town, my dad was out, my dad really liked him (which is extemely rare! my dad hates every guy i know)...so hes my perfect guy, gets on with my family and is besotted by me, he even compliments me constantly, calling me beautiful! not fit, or hot, but beautiful. so whats the problem? why dont i like him? i personally think its because hes to perfect, my parents like him, so i want to rebel. i also think hes too needy and clingy, although that could just be me. i work really well in long distance relationships as i usually need my own space. but at the same time, i want someone who lives near by so i can just go round and cuddle up too when i feel like it. now when i was out, he told my best friend that he really cared about me. he would leave his life in wales to be with me, or he would come down every weekend if i still wanted my space. he said its not just because im 'beautiful', but because of the person i am, im honest, down to earth, and because we get on so well! so i just dont know what to do. my friends say its because im afriad to get into another relationship because i got hurt in my previous two. but i know he would never do anything to hurt me. i really want to like him, maybe even love him back, i just dont know why i cant. the only things i can think of is because of the clinginess and the fact that he gets on with everyone. any ideas?

2007-08-12 06:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by cuddleybutevil 2 in Singles & Dating

the other day my boyfriend told me he watches porn(which he knew i wouldnt like as i have told him i wouldnt like it befor. so anyway i have decided to just exept it as i hear all men do it and its not like he is cheating. please can anyone tell me how i can feel a bit better bout it, maby a man can give me his point of view so i can see there really isnt anything to this porn thing, thanks , jane

2007-08-12 06:04:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're planning to have a noon wedding with a nice lunch buffet. What alcoholic drinks (if any) would people expect? Just champagne for a toast and possibly a couple of glasses of wine with lunch? certainly no one would expect a full bar at 1:00 in the afternoon, right?

2007-08-12 05:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by SE 5 in Weddings

I want to have children one day, but not now since I'm just getting my career started and want to live and go places first. But I still would like to have sex. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-12 05:49:46 · 19 answers · asked by i use Y!A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 05:48:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is 16 years old and she is very still, she smell, is she dead?

2007-08-12 05:47:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok now for the people they dont see black women stereotype must not live in america becuase this one guy was talking about black women arnt like that i asked where he lived he said germany. But in america it has truth to it. Heres the syereotypes
black women are over weight
sassy
ghetto
obnoxious
bitchy
now we know all women of othere races have this but when your trying to date black women you'll keep on running into these walking stereotypes. The stereotype about black women being over weight is 70% true im america
70% of black women are over weight in the USA
(((NOT ALL BLACL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS)))
BUT WHY DO PEOPLE ACT LIKE IS JUST A LITTLE STEREOTYPE AND THERES BARELY ANY BLACK WOMEN LIKE THIS BUT WHEN I GO IN PUBLIC I SEE IT AND RUN INTO IT ALL THE TIME?
P.S we as black people need to get it toghether i will talk about the brothers to and there problems but are problems all connect
IT DOSNT ALL REST ON ONE GENDER IT REST ON BOTH BUT PEOPLE DONT LIKE TO THINK THAT WAY

2007-08-12 05:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by cow man 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a job and earn enough money to buy stuff for me and my mom has money to buy food, clothes, phone and utilities. I have bought so much stuff on eBay and other sites that my mom is making me pay for food and utilities. I tell her I have stopped the excessive buying but she still wants me to pay for all the food and utilities. She will not let me touch the emergency money even for food and utilities and during the winter if I don't have enough money for food I will not eat and she will not let me use that money in the bank. How do I compromise or do I run away and find someone else's mom to help me?

2007-08-12 05:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by initmador 3 in Family

The parents are still married, separated, but nothing filed. The mother wants to move to NC with the 2 kids (14 & 17). How can he stop the move?

2007-08-12 05:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by jilyzs 1 in Family

my husbends brother died when he was 15 years old of cancer this has caused his familey a great deal of pain . twice a year his whole family gos in to a deep depression, on his birthday and the day he died. when we first started ti plan this baby he went to his mother and asked if it would be ok with her if we tried to see if we could have the baby born on his birthday to celibrate his life insted of morning on that day. she said it would be fine. when we learned that we had opertunity to indouse the baby on that day we went to her again to ask her and she said it was fine but went to the rest of the fanily behind our backs untill his sister screamed in the frount yard of our home and told us we hade no right to do that among many other disrespectful things in frount of my mother! when I asked her to stop yelling at me her mother defended her I was verry proud of my self all i did was ask them to leave my husbend dose not want them at the birth and I agree we dont need the drama

2007-08-12 05:41:01 · 8 answers · asked by lilly v 3 in Family

i have uk credit cards

2007-08-12 05:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by john a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she carried her own weight. he did it because he wanted to. the things he bought or gave her she didn't ask for. the biggest question here is why? why do men meet women and not give them the whole story and a year two years later it all comes crashing down. WHY?

2007-08-12 05:40:43 · 4 answers · asked by yourgirldp 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this before and I only got 3 answers, so I'll ask again... please answer!

Basically, to cut a long story short... I really like a guy my friend introduced me to, but she also likes him a lot.
I was going to tell him how I felt, but then she told him how she felt about him and he told her he was interested in someone else.
His friend said he was only interested in her because she approached him first though, as he's very insecure.
He has shown some small signs of interest towards me though... so the question is shall I go ahead and tell him I like him anyway, or should I just leave it be and move on?
I really like him, and I don't see myself getting over him anytime soon.
Thanks.

2007-08-12 05:40:35 · 27 answers · asked by cosmicmoon 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay so here is the 411, I am trying to help my mother out a little bit here. My mother lives in the state of Indiana and is currently in the middle of a divorce. My 14yo sister was living with my mom and step dad was able to see her anytime or pick her up anytime. Well after a year my sister wanted to live with her dad, closer to school and friends. Mom had no problem as long as she could see her anytime as well. Not the case now, she moved in with him and NEVER sees her mom now. He's playing the game really dirty. He is now dating a woman and just packed up the house and is moving and after 3 weeks of NO contact we are just now finding out they are moving. My mothers name is still on the house and still has items in the house. We believe he is going to sell the house and we were told they are having a huge garage sale and just letting people come in and select what they want and pay for it. This cant be legal! We have a lawyer but still wanted other oppinions. Help!

2007-08-12 05:39:39 · 6 answers · asked by Vice Hunter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And what typical qualities would cause a girl/female to not like a guy.

2007-08-12 05:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Harry Balsac 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting divorced. Is her exhusband's 15 year old son still her stepson? If not what is the correct terminology?

1. Former stepson.
2. Ex stepson
3. Stepson once removed.

She doesn't care if she ever sees him again. Please help.

2007-08-12 05:19:16 · 13 answers · asked by LAgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

then gave custody to us and the mother(my husbands sister)also signed the agreement and found it was in her daughters best interest, even though she has never had custody. mom consantly would leave her with the granparents(my husbands parents) even when they would say no. She would say things like , fine i will take the baby but i am going shopping and wont have time to feed her, and things like that to guilt them to keep her. When they would babysit for her she would not always come back when promised, sometimes for days. She went to her moms for a week as her mom has the right to see her, although she doesn,t bother to call or come to see her very much. Now the mom has said she is not coming home and my neice wants to stay with her. My inlaws are furious with their daughter. How long can we prevent this from happening legally since we have custody?

2007-08-12 05:17:03 · 4 answers · asked by dragonfly 2 in Family

2007-08-12 05:13:03 · 26 answers · asked by txpsychchick 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We got into a huge fight earlier and we both said some things that we didnt mean.

2007-08-12 05:10:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend says that she has to have more control for it to work..
She says I can have control at work, at my job and she can have control in the household.. But I didn't think control in the household meant to sit around and have her cook for me, tell me how to dress, tell me how to spend my money, tell me what we're going to do, want to take the remote away from me while I'm watching tv to put whatever she wants on the tv, tell me what to eat and what not to eat, and etc.. is this healthy in a relationship? I am all for giving females more power in a relationship but is there a time when they abuse it? I can imagine that giving them more power means they have more decision making abilities with the kids and everything.. but should it really be near dominination? She says that it has to be that way for a marriage to work..

2007-08-12 05:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by Nathan H 1 in Singles & Dating

we can paint in paint booth with 50% of cost model of accent crdi

2007-08-12 05:06:41 · 1 answers · asked by dinesh k 1 in Friends

I dont mean still married, I dont mean in love, I mean passionate.

2007-08-12 05:06:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 04:59:27 · 28 answers · asked by Black Beauty™ 4 in Friends