I asked this before and I only got 3 answers, so I'll ask again... please answer!
Basically, to cut a long story short... I really like a guy my friend introduced me to, but she also likes him a lot.
I was going to tell him how I felt, but then she told him how she felt about him and he told her he was interested in someone else.
His friend said he was only interested in her because she approached him first though, as he's very insecure.
He has shown some small signs of interest towards me though... so the question is shall I go ahead and tell him I like him anyway, or should I just leave it be and move on?
I really like him, and I don't see myself getting over him anytime soon.
Thanks.
2007-08-12 05:40:35 · 27 answers · asked by cosmicmoon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really do like him that much, tell him! Go ahead and besides you could joke around afterwards and say that you were just kidding about it if he says no.
2007-08-12 05:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he is not interested in your friend you shouldn't, under any circumstances, tell him how you feel. Well, that's if you don't want you and your friend to have a major arguement. You should forget about him and move on to someone else. Your friend probably isn't over him yet either and if you told him you liked him you could lose your friendship. So, which is more important? Friendship or one lad.
2007-08-12 12:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she know that you liked him too? If she knew how you felt and told him anyway, she wasn't being a very good friend. In that case I would tell him how I felt about him.
If she didn't know how you felt, you should tell her that you like him too. Tell her that you really want to see if he likes you too, because you have gotten the impression that he does like you. If she is okay with you going after him, you may be able to save the friendship and get the guy you like.
2007-08-12 12:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should leave it be...dont mess a friendship because of a guy..if its meant to be, it'll happen. but for now, just go out and meet other people. but if u REALLY want this guy, do what u think is best. tell him u like him but that u dont want to mess up the friendship with u and ur gal. that way he will know how u feel, and also respect that u are a loyal person. goodluck.
2007-08-12 12:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things that will ruin a friendship are love and money, if she likes him too, this may be a bit of a strain on the friendship.
But, if you really want to know, then by all means say something to him, he was honest enough with your friend, he should be the same way to you.
2007-08-12 12:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him a.s.a.p. you will find that the best romances are the ones in your head that never happen but you can imagine if they did. If it's going to come between you and your friend it's not worth it although if he makes the first move you'll probably think again anyway!!
2007-08-12 12:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by kayleigh e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think friendship is above all else. If you care about your friend and her feelings, don`t do it. There are a lot of boys out there and I don`t think you should sacrifice your friendship for a guy. If you approach him and the relationship between you two does not work you`ll also loose a friend... and I don`t think it`s worth it.
2007-08-12 12:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by stephan rs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he already stated to your friend that he is interested in someone else, I dont think its a good idea to tell him how you feel. Just leave him for this time and see how does it go!
2007-08-12 12:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is trick especially as your friend likes him too.. but if i were you id ask one of his friends if he has shown any interest in you... and id ask one of them to put a word in for you.. no doubt your friend feels a little stupid now that her feelings havent been returned so do have a little respect for her feelings too....
but if you cant let him go then do something about it now.... tell him.. if he dont feel the same then it will be easier to move on wont it?... best of luck x
2007-08-12 12:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about instead of telling him you like him. Ask him out on a date. This will allow you 2 get to know each other on a romantic level.
2007-08-12 12:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know how you feel? Because if she doesn't, you need to tell her first. Make sure you have her blessing before you tell the guy how you feel. There's no use ruining a friendship over a guy.
2007-08-12 12:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋