And what typical qualities would cause a girl/female to not like a guy.
2007-08-12 05:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Harry Balsac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drinking,gambling,cheating,lying,cursing,stealing and doesn't show respect to me,doesn't treat me like a lady and abusing me means like hits me like a punching bag
2007-08-20 04:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its difficult at all to get girls to like you. Be open minded, a good listener, maintain yourself well and try to have as much fun as possible and then the only other thing to invest is time...when all of these things come together people just naturally have affection. If you try too hard it is repulsive but natural fun, time spent together really does bond people so take your time and give love freely and you are almost guaranteed to get a return one day :) Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-08-20 11:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it would be...
If he was scanning the room for other girls while he's talking to me.
If he's a 'show-pony' (oh look at me I'm so hot and I know it) - huge turn-off!
If he says a lot of negative things about him of his life or his ex etc... the guy with baggage.
So pretty much if you're showing interest in the girl, are confident in yourself but not so much that you're kissing your arm muscles, then you've got a good start in my books!
2007-08-12 14:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
getting a girl to like you is not that difficult when
a) that girl is looking for a relationship and not otherwise involved..
b) you are really interested in HER and let her know it..
girls (usually) have a long list of qualifications when looking for a guy, but a lot depends on her personal tastes... you really cant do much if you aren't her type or if she isn't yours..
personal preferences vary from girl to girl, like i hate guys smoking but my friend loves it... but, there are some things that most girls have in common ..
R-E-S-P-E-C-T...not just for her, but also for her thoughts, tastes, beliefs and opinions..counts for a lot..(you dont need to agree with all she says ...just dont ignore what she has to say)
rudeness, lack of attention (please LISTEN to what she has to say!), disrespect, lack of affection (find out what she likes...you dont need to do what ever she wants, but can avoid doing things that she hates...), lack of personal gestures.... these things can be a big turn off...
want to get a girl to like you??.... dont generalize her likes and dislikes with all female kind... take a personal interest.. find out more about HER... you dont need to give her what she wants, but TRY....that should do it..
luck :)
2007-08-20 12:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by naray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy that had some confidence, can laugh, make me laugh, and enjoys watching a good movie. Just smile and talk to a girl. Show that you like her.
2007-08-20 07:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by greyghost_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that treat Girls with kindness and respect are a big turn on and will have no problem having girls like them.
2007-08-20 11:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not hard to get a girl like myself...but what turns me off and look @ another guy is when u both see a car and its been modified, like a 92-95 honda civic, and u say that thats a ugly civic...then he insists that its a bmw...come on guys...if a girl knows more about a car than u...doesn't that make u feel stupid? especially a honda to a bmw?
2007-08-12 12:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am a guy and i can answer this, any girl in her right mind cannot be told or be forced in any way, shape or from to like a guy, just be yourself and if a girl likes you, go out with her to see if you like her
2007-08-19 20:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's hard to get a girl to like you. I hate any guys who say whatever they want and dont even care how people feel, lying, acting like a jerk,....
2007-08-19 18:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋