We got into a huge fight earlier and we both said some things that we didnt mean.
2007-08-12 05:10:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im 16, btw/
2007-08-12 05:10:34 · update #1
she said alot of mean things too.
2007-08-12 05:15:40 · update #2
if you said things that you didn't mean...then obviously you WEREN'T right.
You should apologize for possibly hurting her. I'm going to assume you said hurtful things.
Holding onto things like this and not having the guts to just apologize is what ruins a lot of relationships.
So, I guess your decision is based on how much you value the relationship with your mom.
2007-08-12 05:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologizing to someone who is important in your life, even if you don't believe you were totally in the wrong, I mean apologizing for the mean things YOU said, would be an extremely mature thing to do. If you can develop that quality of putting your pride and anger aside and doing the right thing (apologizing for your part in the fight), you will be developing the quality that can repair so many of your relationships in later life.
2007-08-12 05:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what the argument was about, no one is "right" when they say ugly things. Tell her you are sorry and make up. Listen to your mom. She has experience you don't have. Anyway, you can leave in 2 yrs. Just put up with it and be nice. Consider it practice for the real world where there are even MORE people who tell you what to do every day.
2007-08-12 05:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both said some things you didn't mean, sounds like you both need to apologize. In an argument, everyone has their part. Regardless whether you feel you "were right", you said some things you didn't mean. Step up, take responsibility and apologize.
2007-08-12 05:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by goodcook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should open up to your mom. Apologizing should happen from both of you, and if you feel that you should start it off, feel free. But make sure you don't leave the couch until she says the words "I'm sorry." I've gotten in fights with my mom, and seldom have I apologized. More or less it's implied. But everyone's different.
2007-08-12 05:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should-be the better person to start the apology and, you know what, she may feel she needs to apologize to you as well. Things get said by everyone in the heat of the moment-things that may be hurtful, but in the end, maybe it was good that these things were aired out, get it out of your system and move forward. Things are usually better after this.
Best of luck to you!
2007-08-12 05:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is a very important thing to do,and don't say well mom i was right about whatever.just tell her your sorry and you Love her and i bet she will say the same to you. You should never disrespect your mother in anyway she brought you in this world she can take you out just as well. Love your mother have Great resepect for her I do,and I don't even know her!!!!!!Be Good!!!!!
2007-08-12 05:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gail G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-12 03:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never appropriate to say mean things to your mom. You would've been totally in the right if you didn't start the name calling. Say your sorry about what you said and move on.
Good Luck,
Jim
2007-08-12 05:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by jimsg718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for the way things happened apologize for yelling but if you was right for something dont apologize for that. Say you sorry for what you did that was wrong not for what was right. Say i feel this way about this but im sorry for yelling and fighting with you
2007-08-12 05:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋