I want to have children one day, but not now since I'm just getting my career started and want to live and go places first. But I still would like to have sex. I don't know what to do.
2007-08-12 05:49:46 · 19 answers · asked by i use Y!A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know there's birth control, but I also know it doesn't always work. My husband wants to wait for children too BTW.
2007-08-12 05:59:33 · update #1
Go see your doctor and get on a birth control pill. I do not know much about the patches or shots, but I know that the pill does work. It is most effective and least likely to fail if you take it the exact same time every day (24 hours apart, exactly). The more you deviate from this, the more likely it is that the method could fail.
If you are nervous about an unexpected pregnancy, you should use other forms of birth control as well, like condoms, especially if you are not in a committed relationship with someone who has been tested for STDs and HIV.
Good luck!
2007-08-12 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check into IUDs. It's a small little copper T that they place inside your uterus. There's one that releases hormones and lasts 7 years and then there's a non-hormonal one that lasts for ten. The way I understand is that it stops your ovaries from dropping into your uterus. There are side effects for some women so you'll have to do research. I got one put in after I had my daughter and haven't had any problems. If you and your husband decide later that you want children you can always have it removed. It's been great not to have to worry about having to take the pill everyday or having to worry about needing a condom.
2007-08-12 14:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use birth control. There are several ways to get through that. This way you can still do what you want and still get a little something something on the side. Have Fun
2007-08-12 13:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by ediabullo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have made a good point you don't want to have children right now but want to live a little and go places i dint see anything wrong with that at all. But you still would like to have sex heres your answer be careful and protect your self because you know your not ready for children right now.
2007-08-12 13:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wonderful world of contraception is produced for exactly this.
Most Birth control is 99% effective. Combine more than one method at once, like using pills and condoms, for example, to make sure it's safe.
2007-08-12 12:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Birth control pills and condoms. There are alternatives, practice safe sex
2007-08-12 12:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by 0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth control.........
2007-08-12 12:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The words "birth control" mean anything to you?
If not, they should...
2007-08-12 12:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the guy doesnt want sex because u dont want kids yet...then find another guy...im pretty sure theres lots of guys wiling to have sex w/ u and not have kids w/ u.
2007-08-12 12:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where have you been?
They teach about sex and how babies are conceived in the 6th grade.
Dig out your books and talk to your mother.
2007-08-12 12:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋