2007-08-12 06:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by leazngurl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you can't poke out his eyes, so you're just gonna have to learn to accept it cause it's natural for men to look at other women especially when they are very attractive and even when you're not around, he looks at them. He even had to look at you before you guys became a couple, so try to overcome your insecurity by just accepting it. He loves you and that's why he's with you if not you 2 wouldn't be together. I'm sure you look at other attractive men from time to time, so don't be too jealous cause the fact of the matter is, beauty draws attention whether or not you like it. Also look at it this way, other men look at you too and i'm sure their girls don't like it either, but they accept it because they know it's a part of human nature. When a attractive woman passes by, a man will look and vice versa so don't worry about it.
The only time you'll have to worry is is he actually acts on it by flirting with other women or behaving differently than he normally does around women.
2007-08-12 06:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On one hand, it's a tiny bit disrespectful for him to do that in your presence.
On the other (and this depends on what you mean by "uncomfortable") it could be more insecurity on your part than what is actually happening.
I wish I knew more because there could be so much more to it that could sway me.
What you could do in the meantime is open the discussion in a playful manner.
Ask him what he finds attractive and if you notice him looking at another woman you could ask what he thinks of her.
His answer will probably give you all the que you need
2007-08-12 06:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you tried talking to him about it? if not then it mite help. but keep in mind guys will be guys, just like girls always look a cute guy. just keep in mind he is your man, meaning he wants to be with you, its just natural to look at other people. i would say unless its a long stare, you have nothing to worry about. but if it really bothers you, just tell him that when he stares at other women it makes you feel a little uncomfortable
2007-08-12 06:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by roodle18 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here are your options:
1) Stare at other guys. Be sure to lick your lips when doing so.
2) Kick him in the nuts each and every time he does it.
3) If he doesn't cut the crap, leave him. He is testing your boundaries and leaping over them. You're letting him.
2007-08-12 06:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about how you feel, and ask him to stop. It is disrespectful for him to stare at other women, especially if he is with you. If it was me, I'd ditch the guy. But that's me. I just don't tolerate a guy acting that way towards me. I figure if a guy likes me well enough to be with me, he can like me enough to respect me too. Good luck to you.
2007-08-12 06:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it, but you have to realize that all men appreciate beauty. If he is staring at a girl, ask him why. You are not dumb, you know a pretty girl when you see one. Start asking him if he thinks certain girls are cute, or if he like that girls hair. Most likely he will either be honest with you, or he will be embarrassed and stop staring.
2007-08-12 06:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know if this will work for you, but my guy stopped staring at other women when I decided to start staring at them also, plus I made comments to him about what a nice butt they had etc...TOTALLY FREAKED HIM OUT!
2007-08-12 07:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by jayleen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only reason you are not liking this is because you have a problem with your self. either you two have a bad or unhealthly relationship or there is a internal proble with you self. I would look at yourself and see is there is any reason why he maybe looking at other girls.
Also is its very common to do that. I have a great relationship and both me and my g/f check out other people. Its not like we are going to go off with them but we just like to see what else is going on.
2007-08-12 06:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by ooodjkooo 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
We all have to deal with that at some time or another!
What i do is say do you want to ask her to join us?
And the next opportunity i get i ogle a cute guy. lol!!!
2007-08-12 06:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u talk to him about it, and if he care bout u enough...he will try his best not to... but always keep in mind its hard for men to just STOP staring
2007-08-12 06:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋