Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

ok, me and my ex have been together since feb 2007 and yes we did have a couple breakups here and there but i know he had real feelings because it just felt so right and i loved him so much. a week ago we broke up and now he has this different girl. now all weekend all he has been doin was calling/talking me asking me on the computer to call him and all yesterday i was unable to pick up the phone and he called me at least 14 times!! i texted him and he started calling me beautiful. he flirted with me alot!! telling me he got in fights with his gf and telling me how much better it was with me then her. IM SO CONFUSED HELP!?
also on his profile on myspace it says on how much he love his new gf. im just so confused please help!
thanks<33

2007-08-12 07:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by Angiee 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of a 39 year old woman who wants to date a 22 year old guy?

2007-08-12 07:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 07:31:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, my name is Ethan and i love to play sports, i play all kind of sports, i was wandering if you can help me get a girl friend or have and single friends, my sn for yahoo is luchsrulz 36 and aim is karatekid1018 thanx for the help

2007-08-12 07:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday night he just lost it. He has lots of issues with his parents. They abused him and used to leave him with a man who raped him. Even when they found out, they didn't get help for him. They just said he needs to get over it and that because he is depressed he should go live in a permanent home for adults(his mom is crazy-they dont't even have those here anymore!). But he can't get over it-you wouldn't believe all the horrible stuff that happened during his childhood!!! He is 20 now and anger has built up to a high degree.

So last night he finally blew up. His mom said some horrible things to him and he hit her and broke her back car window. Later that night the police found him and arrested him.

I am so scared. I know what he did was wrong but..... I can hardly blame him. And my baby girl and I need him so badly. I do not know how to live without him! He is a wonderful father and boyfriend... :( I am just terrified of what will happen to him.

2007-08-12 07:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by green march 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband left the 4 days ago, he said goodbye and he loved me then left. well he hasnt been seen since. i tried to call police and do a missing persons report but they said it didnt seem suspicious. yesturday his mom got a collect call from him from tn,and we live in ok., but was sleeping so didnt get to talk to him. i don't know what happened or if he is in trouble. the morning he left he was playing with the kids everything was normal. i dont think he wouldve ran off on our 3 kids or me. the cops wont help me try and find him. i need some kind of help, what can i do, police wont help.........

2007-08-12 07:27:13 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i understand it's normal for people to want to get off. But he's always told me that he doesn't need to do it he has me.. i've even asked him several times and he would say no in like a mad voice. he also says he doesnt look at porn. i just dont believe all this. its been almost 6 years that we've been together......so today my children and i were out buying a new hamster he came home early from work and i went up stairs and bam there he was. i didn't know what was going on at first until i saw my hand cream in his haneds and all over his dick! LOL i walk in alot with him naked but this time he looked funny and i said are you kerking off and he said with a funny look yeah... LOL with that i shut the door. i was actually stunned! Sort of upset too, i mean why lie all these years about it? is there something wrong did he just start doing it? am i not enough for him anymore.. i don't know.

2007-08-12 07:26:30 · 47 answers · asked by sue s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, my girlfriend loves Mexican food but I like Chinese food so I told her that I would break up with her unless we went to the Chinese restaurant I like.

Another time, she wanted to go to the beach, but I didn't want to pay for the gas money, so I had her come to my house and we just talked for an hour. Of course, I threatened to break up with her if she didn't comply to my standards.

When I tell people I do this, people are looking at me in disgust. Is this wrong for me to do this? I figure that if I'm paying, I decide where to go.

2007-08-12 07:22:39 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got hurt at work 4 years ago and can work. I work restrictions up the wazoo right now. I ended up moving back in with my parents. My Girlfriend left. My best friend she going through a divorce and she is my first love. She told me recently she is falling in love with me and then does a 180 a month later. My parents are about to get a divorce after 38 years of marriage. They are all dumping their worries on me. If they get a divorce I am not sure where I am going to live. Mom is passive aggresive and dad is an A type personality. I am in middle of a court case because I was injured at work. My car needs new tire and brakes. Barely any money coming in to even pay the bills. Life is in the dumps right and has been since I got laid off from the job I was hurt at. No workman comp in 4 years.
I am lonely and scared. Stressed out because I am always their for people and no one is there for me. I have some friends but they have their own lives. I do not know what to do anymore and hurt.

2007-08-12 07:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

know some of u read about my cousin losing his bladder and bowel control in a car accident .i have a problem because every morning he wakes up and starts to cry because he had accident at night . u would think he would have got use to waking up with a wet diaper but he dosen't act like it . he's usely wakes up around 7:30 or 8:00 and starts to cry and i like to sleep till 9:00 . what can i do for him to get use to waking up with and accident. hes 23 years old and he dosn't have brain damage

to have patience u need sleep i love him with all my heart but once and a while i need a little sleep

anything i can do for him to get more sleep at night . please don't say ur selfesh or ur mean . i need help would u help me find a way for to get sleep

2007-08-12 07:16:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ing college and now he wants to go to a university that is an hour away and live in an apartment while I work and pay the bills. I know he has sacrificed for us by working crappy jobs and even supporting me for six months while I went to school to complete my bachelor's degree. I went to a campus locally, and it just does not sit well with me that I will only see my husband on the weekends. He says I am very negative person, which I can be but who wants their husband to be away from them like that, am I being selfish? He says this is a chance of a lifetime opportunity he will be working part time at his college and going to school full time while working on his master's degree. I suppoert him going back to school but I am uncomfortable with him living on campus. Help me

2007-08-12 07:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by sugar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or your signifigant other. Mine would be: He would get his teeth fixed,(missing some,) he would be more reliable,he wouldn't tell tall tales to make himself seem more,when what he is ,is just fine.

2007-08-12 07:11:36 · 10 answers · asked by dragonfly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone who is involved or has been in involved in affair give some advice on the situation? Share thier experiance as to why it happened? What you were feeling? What were the results? I am looking of the non name callers...the "you suck, you are a scum, you should die, once a cheater always a cheater, you disgrace" people please stay away from this one.

2007-08-12 07:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I both work full time but his hours are more irregular than mine are which means he sometimes works on weekends as well. His schedule is posted on the fridge so he know when he is supposed to be in to work. My question is, if he's going to go do something else after work, should he call and let me know? I always call him if I'm even going to be a half hour late getting home or meeting him somewhere. I'm not talking about being twenty, thirty, or even an hour late. I'm talking about two and a half hours. I don't mind that he goes to visit his friends or whatever but I think its fair for him to at least leave me a message. Even something so simple as 'Going out for a while. Be back later'

Am I being unreasonable for wanting him to at least call and tell me he's going to go do something after work?

2007-08-12 07:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im just looking for new ideas so when i get home from iraq my wife and i can have some fun, and try new things, any ideas

2007-08-12 07:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by pahot9 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I have a friend, she has been hurt badly in the past!
her parents have gotton divorced after 26 years of marriage. She just dont seem to trust, anybody she says she scared that she will give all to her spouse of 9 years and then it will happen! he finds someone or something else!
Now we are talking she tries to do everything for him! I know for a fact that she does make him miserable with her lack of trust! But if she stops or tries to show some trust it seems as through he doesnt trust what she is saying! I have no idea what to say to her..... any advice?

2007-08-12 07:05:47 · 7 answers · asked by joe_and_mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 07:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by verliererkolben 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 07:01:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would and I think I have found the right person for me. Would you ever remarry? Should someone remarry? Can a first marriage be so disabling that you could never have a good relationship with another person again?

2007-08-12 06:52:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-12 06:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by Christina K 6 in Singles & Dating

Why get in a situation that puts you in a situation that is worse than being single. For example, when single you only support yourself. Now, when married to a housewife your same income is being spread out thinner to support a free loader!!! Unless she has kids what is the point of marrying a house wife? You are losing one of the benefits of marriage and that is dual income to protect against job lose!!!! HELLO!!!! I think some men in America are sooooooooo driven by social norms and thinking that they don't think for themselves and the situations they put themselves into over nothing!!!!!!!

Why do men marry "housewives"? What's the point?

Sorry for the run-on sentences............

One last thing for the people who call husbands who can't support housewives "losers".....how is living off a man's money not making you are loser? Social conformity/norms? AH NO!!!!

Why do men marry "housewives"? What's the point?

2007-08-12 06:50:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do you ladies like to play "Hard To Get"? Don't you know for some guys it can be a real turn off?

2007-08-12 06:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by Mike M. 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-12 06:40:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay-
I've like this guy named Drew since Easter of this year. We've been really good friends and for the past month, talk and text every day. Well, day before yesterday, my bestfriend Cheal had a birthday party. And Drew was there. We saw eachother and smiled...but he seemed to be thinking about something. I had already made-up my mind that I like him.
I saw him and mt friend Alexa texting...I knew it!!! He liked her.... I was sad. But then, Alexa said ask him who he likes! and he said YOU!!! I was soo happy! Come to find out,. he was texting Alexa to ask when the best time to talk to me was!! He was just nervous. (he's extremely shy)
Well....we've been talking non-stop since then, and I dont know what to do...
So, should I go ahead and ask him out...or should I wait for him?

2007-08-12 06:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my parents. a lot. but there are times where they keep bothering me. and i just get so impatient and i lose my mind with them. especially with my mom. i curse at her a lot. and after i do it. i feel so regretful. i feel bad because she doesnt deserve it at all. im tryin to be patient. really i am and i try to tell myself to relax when they are annoying me. they're both out right now. and i want to do something to surprise them. like really stunn them. something they would never expect me of doing and at the same time it can work as an apology.

ps. 1. if ur gunna tell me to cook something. i cant. im not very good. unless if its something really simple.

2. i know cards work. but i always make cards so i want something new

2007-08-12 06:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my husband have just hit our one year mark in feb, a month later our son was born. Our son being born I just have to say is not the problem of him not being home. This has been going on since the beginning of the marriage just before I got pregnant I would join him, now with a baby I have to stay at home and he choose to go out. Its usually 3-4 times a week too which I hate. We get along good, like any married couple we have our ups and downs but nothing too big. He just like to drink and be with the guys.... why?? how to do I change this? and I think that is alot of time out of a week to not be at home... am I right?? anyway I need advice... this the only major thing we fight about....he blames it on me nagging but the only thing I ever nag about is not too drink so much, not to be out all hours, to have moderation, and once in a while to not walk on the floor with your dirty shoes haha like he doesnt get it that if he improves what I nag about I wont nag :P please help!!

2007-08-12 06:38:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy on and off since December. Things finally started going well this Summer. I left for vacation, felt like we were still going strong, but now that I've been back since Tuesday, he hasn't called. While I was away, I left him a voicemail and texted him a few times to let him know I was thinking about him. He has been divorced for just over a year, and it has been hard for him. He's also a busy professional. However, I think it is a bad sign that I've been back since Tuesday and he hasn't shown any interest. How long would you wait before confronting the issue? I don't want to be the annoying girl who jumps the gun, but I also don't want to keep my hopes up too long...your input is appreciated!

2007-08-12 06:35:30 · 20 answers · asked by SAH 4 in Singles & Dating

I just tried on this dress yesterday and it looked great on me. I'd love to hear some honest opinions on what everyone thinks of this dress.

http://www.essensedesigns.com/files/couturecatalogue.html
It is dress number 128, second row, second dress.

Thanks!

2007-08-12 06:32:59 · 27 answers · asked by karma_k11 3 in Weddings

Obviously, there's an advantage in having his credit cards available :) but he says he would like a say in what lingerie I buy and wear.

(Admittedly, I'm not shy about giving him my opinion of the clothes he buys, but surely this is different.)

Does anyone else go lingerie shopping with their partner? How much say does he get?

2007-08-12 06:32:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 20 years and I found out my husband is very selfish.He doesn't like me to visit my brother's family (he is my only brother and my parents died many years ago), and he seldom contacts his own family except for sending money back home regularly through my help. And he is not happy all the time and doesn't enjoy his life. And he told me if I want to keep the same connection with my brother as before, he prefers to divorce. By the way, I make more money than him and I don't want to hurt my daughter by doing this, but we fight more and more now and I really hate it. plz advise.

2007-08-12 06:32:11 · 8 answers · asked by lily 1 in Marriage & Divorce