What do you think of a 39 year old woman who wants to date a 22 year old guy?
2007-08-12 07:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think they are both adults and what they do is nobodies business but their own and I think that anybody that sticks their nose where it doesn't belong should be told in no uncertain terms to back off and mind their own damn business.
2007-08-12 07:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by d4dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to both depends on a lot more information than you have furnished here. But, maybe you left out certain info so that the answers are more likely to lean toward a particular outcome that you'd like to see...
As far as the guy... At 22, most, not all, guys still have one thing on their mind. Its not jumping into a ready made family with kids who will view him more as a sibling than mom's new beau. It could last, but the odds are not in their favor, and if she's hoping for stability, he probably doesn't have it in his college dormroom just yet.
As far as the Urban Cougar goes... Most of us would think the same thing about her. She has one real goal in mind, a physical one. If she thinks that he has great potential as a head of the household, she's either fooling herself, or has immense optimism.
Short-term, enjoy it while it lasts. Long-term, see how long it lasts.
Best of luck to them both. This can only end really really good, or really really bad.
2007-08-12 07:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes... that's a thoroughly imbalanced dating. Consummated could be statutory rape interior the state wherein I stay. The mom will possibly not have completely theory out the adulthood concern. the guy in all probability has lots extra journey and diverse expectancies. the lady in all probability won't be able to help yet be flattered by utilising being considered as a "lady," and might make damaging possibilities to maintain that feeling going. i'm particular you will discover those specifics alongside with others offered right here effectual once you approach mom. Your instinctual "ick" reaction is genuine. yet you will might desire to be arranged to get previous mom's denial. mom is unquestionably not waiting to end the dating, yet she would be able to completely provide up the guy from staying over on weekend. am i able to assert yikes lower back!?
2016-10-15 02:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by yau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the young guy but its something if you try to lecture it will not work, if you scorn the person you cannot always get through. It takes some time but eventually the younger person sees it clearly and says oh God no thanks..that takes some time. The age difference will eventually wear the 22 year old out and so will the resentful teenagers. it wont work so dont worry about it.
2007-08-12 07:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats gross. not matter what people say, age does matter, especially till 40. a 22 has a completely different frame of mind then a 39yr. even if this 22yr is mature, he still wont be enough. its also not really fair, all a women that age would do is hold the younger one back from enjoying life to its full potential.
2007-08-12 07:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Emmaeveryday 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is purely a sexual relationship with asbsolutely nothing more in common than body parts that happen to fit together. It will never turn into a meaningful relationship. He will soon realize she is too old for him and she will soon realize she has nothing more than another son.
2007-08-12 07:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can't judge unless u r in sb's situation. although i think it's a pity but maybe she really loves him. i always said that i hate old men dating young girls but i fell in love with a 36 years old man and i'm only 16. so u can't judge honey
2007-08-12 07:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If she wants to date you and you want to date her, it's nobody else's business. Whether it turns out well is another matter, but that is something you need to consider.
2007-08-12 07:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by chasrmck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to each's own whatever floats your boat
2007-08-12 07:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wierd
2007-08-12 07:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋