I have known some guys who would watch me from a distance and smile. I am always afraid to speak because I don't want to start anything if that is what they are thinking but I try to be nice to them.
2007-08-12 08:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you know what is in these guy's minds 95% of the time.
It is a pretty common technique that guys use especially at bar type establishments. These guys usually aren't shy guys, because shy guys are too afraid to look at you very long because they are afraid to make eye contact with you. These guys are the ones who are at the bar for only one reason. These guys think that if the stare at you, you will see that they are interested in you. What they are really looking for is a reaction by you.....you stare at them back, a playful smile, multiple glances back at them....any indication that you are interested in what they are looking for. So, be careful how you respond......you may be inviting something or someone you don't want. My advice, ignore them...I know this sounds a liitle mean but its not. Ignoring them sends a signal that you are not interested in that. Plus, men are usually looking for the easiest target when they are doing this because they are just looking for someone for the night. Look at it this way...if they actually care about who you are and what type of a beautiful person you are, why wouldn't they just come over and talk to you as if you were a real person? Find a man that will treat you as a lady.....not as an object. So, ignore these type of guys.......and save yourself a headache......
2007-08-12 11:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ocho Cinco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Sweet Pea, What do you think the guys are thinking about watching you and a big smile on their faces??? I can't think of one thing on guys mind 24/7. Yes it's sex I wouldn't go up and start anything with them at all. Go on your way and stay away from them. That kind of thing freaks me out if they just watch and smile. Be careful and be safe..
A Friend.
poppy1
2007-08-12 21:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who knows? Maybe they are attracted to you but are too shy to approach. Maybe they are perverts and fantasizing. If you are not looking for a relationship yourself then don't do anything or worry about it. If you are looking, then approach and talk to them.
2007-08-12 15:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tom T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, they are attracted to you at some level. Maintain your dignity and if a comment is warranted then make it with style.
2007-08-12 15:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by BillParkhurst 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ocho Cinco gave you wonderful advice! I wouldn't even try to top that!
2007-08-12 19:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is cocky, and dosen't care what happens o him, he thinks he will get it anyhow.
2007-08-12 15:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by jt 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
REDRUM!
REDRUM!
2007-08-12 15:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋