I have no interest in any relationship and stay home on weekends.....Haven't had sex in almost 5 years and really don't care about that either. So, am I normal or a total loser?
2007-08-12 04:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by TriSec 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, that is normal. Your test levels are probably really low and you honestly don't care anymore about anything. It happens to most people at some point in their lives. It's already happened to me, and i'm only 27
2007-08-12 04:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by mama a 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal. I'm a little older than you and had a bad divorce. My EX was VARY unfaithful and mean spirited. I dated but found the over 40 women very narrow minded, with high demands on my income, looks, education etc. I just really got tired of it. I don't mean EVERY woman was like this just a lot. Also, I have two younger kids and most 40+ women did not want a guy with 10 year olds.
Please note, I'm above average looking, in very good shape, have an above average income and a BA degree.
As I grow older, I feel more comfortable with myself. I cycle a lot and enjoy my kids and lots of activities. I'm home a lot too and enjoy it as well.
2007-08-12 04:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well this is normal like me i like younger women. I stay home an don't date.There must have been some drama in your life.If your happy or content with yourself that's what counts.Myself i will find some 1 to go to the Bahamas with me on my 48' sport fish when i get ready to go.Like you haven't found the 1 to float my boat.So keep your eyes open there hope if you want it???Your not a loser your a winner look no drama??
2007-08-12 04:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
TreSec I wouldn't call it normal nor would I call it abnormal but I would call it common. If you have had experiences that have left you feeling that there was no point to it. If for example you had a relationship in which you thought you loved a woman and she loved you only to find that she was using and manipulating you to get at your money then you may feel that you couldn't trust. If you had one that was terrific and then you lost her to a tragic accident then you would start feeling that happiness just wasn't in the cards for you and that it would be better to just survive do your own thing - hobbies, career etc. and let come what may. But no I wouldn't get bent out of shape over it. Try getting involved with social activities in your area or perhaps you may meet someone on line who brings back that feeling of there's more to life. Best of luck.
2007-08-12 04:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by terminator 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, but not very typical. That does not make you a loser. You may be discouraged or just burned out on life. Trying to live up the expectations of others can be exhausting. It happens to everyone now and then. If you are happy doing nothing. That is fine. If you need to get out of your rut, there are ways to do that too. There are organizations through the Internet for low-key socializing with no dating agendas. Just hanging out and having a good time. When and if you are ready, you can have fun and make your own choices. Good luck!
2007-08-12 04:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by LAgirl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
it does not matter what normal is.
do what makes you happy.
but it sounds like you are in the doldrums.
go on the Internet and get your self a date and decide to have fun. you are not a loser. unless you allow yourself to be a loser. maybe you just like being alone and not interested in all the drama a relationship brings into your life. if that is the case and you are content, you are a winner. the ones stuck in a dramatic relationships are the losers. you are free. the best place to be in life.
2007-08-12 04:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh..
You are so depressed.. you are not a loser..
I know sometimes we have to stop and look around for sometime.. and then try to find out some new way for living,
I mean you need to go out , the need of getting close to someone who cares is a nature..
get dressed and go out .. try to change your mode.. go for a vacation do anything different, coz you are alive for once.enjoy every single moment of your life becoz you are alive for once.. !
get close to your family meet your brothers and sisters , call your old friends , go out with them and have a good time may be you will find the right one there.. who knows ??!!
good luck .
2007-08-12 04:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're more normal than you think. The only thing that's wrong with you is that you think you have to have these things because of society. I'm in the same category as you and I say society can kiss my ***. I love my life and myself. I don't need anyone to complete me. I've been married, have 3 adult kids. Thank god I have my sanity after so many years of a really bad marriage to bridezilla.
2007-08-12 04:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am getting sick of the dating game and I am only 25. Its just to much games and to much work. But I could always go for some good sex from an easy Asian hooker lol.
2007-08-12 04:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ah i know what you mean bro, i to am in my 40es and i have gone through the same thing. at some point you will find that you no longer want to be alone and will get out more. give it some thought because you are not getting any younger hehehehe.
2007-08-12 04:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by just another man 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋