you were bi leaning toward gay but didn't want your family to know. you found a guy to marry who would put up with you but you never told him the reason you didn't want sex was because you liked ladies better. You grudgingly gave in once a week because that's what wives are supposed to do. when he finally says enough is enough and leaves you - do you put the screws to him for whatever you can get?
2007-08-12 02:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmm...it seems to me it is the man that has got screwed here...If it was me..and if i was the gay one who used the man just to hide abit mroe..I would feel awful for using him that way.i could'nt do it...And, no..when he finally did kleave me..i would not make it worse for him..he has suffered long enuff being with someone like me...I would try to apoligize all I could..and wish him all the best to find someone who truely did love him, and want him.
2007-08-12 03:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by sticky J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not serious are you? How can you ask that question much less even think it? You are the one who went into the marriage not being totally honest. You are the reason he is leaving or has left. And he had every right to. I guess my answer to you is: Not just no -- but Hell No!!! What are you crazy? You may need to talk to someone. Do yourself a favor and check that out. WOW
2007-08-12 09:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by memegeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did him wrong from the beginning and now you want to use him more.you should just leave with what you came with and let him get on with his life.you cant keep hiding what you really are so you need to deal with that .dont blame him for what he has done,hes human and you were not truthful with him.
2007-08-12 09:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your with the person you don't want to be. 1. why did you marry that person and what were you thinking. Well all these are problem you created now you solve them.
2007-08-12 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, someone made their bed now they must lay in it.
2007-08-12 09:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A wife must submit to her husband and a husband must not deny his wife ... so if you r gay .... Hell is a waiting.... your arrival!!!
2007-08-12 09:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋